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Post by kayladawn91 on May 29, 2016 15:58:20 GMT -5
Thanks ugaqueencity! I really like those Target ones! I'm thinking online is going to be my only option which stinks because I was really hoping to have them for tonight. Oh well.
I'm so annoyed, I totally thought it was Saturday and just deleted yesterday's temp from FF and cannot remember what it was. I should be O'ing any day now so this is throwing my chart all off
My room was 8000 degrees and I was sick for a week so I only have a few good temps. I'm hoping I'll get a positive OPK to help. You'd think after two years I'd either be better at this or have given up, but you'd be wrong
Post by wildflower810 on May 29, 2016 19:19:07 GMT -5
We've just reached a point where we can't find ways we want to spend time together. Despite a 30 minute (each way) commute through cornfields, and 2-3 hours of computer games when everyone is in bed, H doesn't feel he gets enough "unwind" time. So the rare weekends he gets off he wants to spend with his ass on the couch, staring at his phone.
Meanwhile we are homeowners, we have a toddler, and I'd like to have a life. So we fight about doing things as opposed to sitting doing nothing... and then he gets mad when toddler is toddler and isn't willing to sit and do nothing all day.
His love language is supposedly quality time but I'll be damned if he ever initiates more than 5 minutes of time with me at a time.
I'm sorry wildflower810. Your H sounds similar to mine. He says he likes spending "quality time" with me but to him that means sitting in the same room on our separate computers ignoring each other.
Can you initiate some relaxing activities at home where you are at least talking to each other? Are there any shows or movies you both enjoy? Or listening to a book on tape and then discussing it?
Post by wildflower810 on May 29, 2016 20:46:44 GMT -5
ceejay, it's a guy thing. It really is. H said "even being in the same room with you, doing two different things, counts as quality time." oohkay.
We talked. We're not mad at each other anymore. I'm emotionally exhausted. This keeps happening where things build up and then we have no choice but to fight about it. H is getting so little time off work (like 21-25 day stretches with no time off) that it just makes life harder right now.
Someone tell me why we think it's a good idea to introduce morning sickness and fatigue into this mess.
ceejay , it's a guy thing. It really is. H said "even being in the same room with you, doing two different things, counts as quality time." oohkay.
We talked. We're not mad at each other anymore. I'm emotionally exhausted. This keeps happening where things build up and then we have no choice but to fight about it. H is getting so little time off work (like 21-25 day stretches with no time off) that it just makes life harder right now.
Someone tell me why we think it's a good idea to introduce morning sickness and fatigue into this mess.
Then maybe hold off on TTC for a while? H and I have been struggling with our relationship lately, so we decided to hold off a bit on our next IUI cycle until we're in a better place.
H and I have a similar pattern of letting things build up and then having a huge fight. It happens every couple months. No real advice but I guess I'm just saying I know how you feel.
I'm sorry wildflower810. Your H sounds similar to mine. He says he likes spending "quality time" with me but to him that means sitting in the same room on our separate computers ignoring each other.
Can you initiate some relaxing activities at home where you are at least talking to each other? Are there any shows or movies you both enjoy? Or listening to a book on tape and then discussing it?
This is MH also. My favorite is the "I will play this video game while you make dinner/dust/wash Windows..." Wait what? He's learned that I don't consider us being in the same room but doing different things as quality time and I certainly don't consider him having fun while I do chores to be quality time.
wildflower810, I hope it gets better. I second the recommendation for counseling, but I think everyone benefits from counseling.
I'm the one who tends to say things like "but we are spending time together!", mostly because of how stressed I get from work. So I get your H, to a point, but it's also something that can be worked on.
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