Post by twinkie0612 on Jun 15, 2016 8:29:32 GMT -5
Congratulations and welcome to the world Jackson!
As NariaDreaming mentioned I am currently a mom of a micro preemie in the NICU. My daughter Amelia was born at 27w4d weighing 1lb 12oz (she was growth restricted and measured about 1.5 weeks behind). I also had an emergency c-section, but mine was due to severe pre-eclampsia and HELLP syndrome. Plus her last doppler u/s showed intermittent loss of diastolic blood flow in her umbilical artery, which put her at risk for fetal demise. I also had placenta previa that started hemorrhaging, which is what landed me on hospital bed rest. Amelia turned 5 weeks old on Monday.
I just wanted to share some advice I was given and things I gave learned. First be sure to take care of yourself. It's tempting to spend every waking moment in the NICU, but remember that you are recovering from major abdominal surgery. Jackson needs a healthy mommy. If you plan on pumping, be sure to pump every 2 hours (except at night) at first. It will really help your supply. I am having supply issues and wish I would have been more diligent the first few weeks, altjough who knows if it would have made a difference. Work with the LCs, they are a great resource for pumping. The NICU is a rollercoaster. Remember that 2 steps forward and 1 step back is still forward progress. Don't let the fear of setbacks make you scared to celebrate successes. Setbacks will happen and are a common occurrence for micro preemies. Don't be afraid to hold him, skin to skin is good for both of you. Ask a million questions. The doctors and nurses will be happy to answer them. The NICU is a marathon not a sprint. Time will seem to move slow, but I prpmise you will waje up one day and realize that a month has gone by and wonder when that happened. Ask for momentos. Save some of his tiny diapers, hats, pacifiers, stickers for his leads. Etc. Soon he will be so much bigger and you will want thise things. Take lots of pictures.
Be sure to rely on your support system. The first few weeks are hard and I recommend seeing a therapist or joining a support group. I had a horrible time dealing with my emergency c-section. I was so upset that I couldn't keep her in longer. I loved pregnancy and missed her being inside of me. It's a loss you have to mourn. I also was (and at times still am) jealous of women with healthy full term pregnancies. It does get easier though. Send me a message if you want to connect outside of the boards. I am in a preemie support group on FB and a group for NICU PTSD and would be happy to add you if you want to join.
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lovetruly2015, I have a friend who went through pretty much the same thing as you 2 years ago. Feel free to pm me if you want me to put you in touch. She gave birth at 25 weeks and some change after breaking her waters a few days before and now has a healthy 2 year old.
Congratulations on baby Jackson's arrival. I know this isn't how you pictured it, but it sounds like you're both in the right hands. I hope you feel better soon so you can see him and I hope he gets stronger and stronger. I'm sending all of my positive thoughts your way!
Congratulations on Jackson's arrival. Give yourself some grace as you recover from surgery, and love that boy!
I've been away from the boards for a while because my cousin who was due a month before me had her little Henry at 26 weeks. Her little man just hit the big 4-0 (days) mark and the big 0-3 (lbs) milestone.
Congrats lovetruly2015! Still sending all the Ts&Ps on a swift recovery for you and continued progress for Jackson. You both have proven your strength already, together you'll be unstoppable! Hugs momma!
Welcome to the world Jackson! lovetruly2015 I hope you start feeling better soon so you can go see your baby boy. Let us know how you're both doing when you can!
Post by lovetruly2015 on Jun 15, 2016 10:59:36 GMT -5
Well I was able to get up and see him for a bit, seeing him was such a relief I would have posted sooner but afterwards I passed the fuck out. He's doing very very well. Im still a little fuzzy on all of his stats I was just so happy to see him eveything else kinda went over my head. We weighed just over 2 pounds. Im honestly still kinda out of it so I'll come back with more information once my body catches up more. But for now here's pictures.
Post by jennybeans on Jun 15, 2016 13:34:35 GMT -5
So many congratulations!!! The picture of Jackson holding your husbands hand is beautiful and made me tear up. Take care of yourself - I hope recovery is speedy. Continuing to keep your little boy in my thoughts to grow strong and healthy!
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