sdfonz619 - re:hitting, right now all I've been saying is "ouch!" followed by trying to explain to her it's not nice to hit mommy, or "that hurts mommy". But...that's not really accomplishing anything. I'm going to keep trying...definition of insanity?
Oh my God, Dani is cutting two more teeth. She is up to 8 now... 4 top, 4 bottom. With 4 actually in and the other 4 cutting through the gums. I couldn't understand why she was still such a hot mess after the top two broke through, until DH spotted the bottom two after bathtime tonight. My tiny baby is going to have a toothy smile soon!
sdfonz619 - re:hitting, right now all I've been saying is "ouch!" followed by trying to explain to her it's not nice to hit mommy, or "that hurts mommy". But...that's not really accomplishing anything. I'm going to keep trying...definition of insanity?
Apparently I'm a shitty wife b/c instead of giving DH what he really wanted for Father's Day (a BJ), I got him special books for him to read to Jacob, matching Star Wars shirts, and a Jacob and Dad photo album.
Great end to the day.
I hope he didn't actually say that. I'm totally side-eyeing your H right now.
He didn't actually call me a shitty wife, but he did ask he why I got him the gifts when he just really wanted a BJ. He thought me getting gifts was my way of not giving him one.
I hope he didn't actually say that. I'm totally side-eyeing your H right now.
He didn't actually call me a shitty wife, but he did ask he why I got him the gifts when he just really wanted a BJ. He thought me getting gifts was my way of not giving him one.
I have nothing nice to say, so this is me not saying anything.
I want to actually print a bunch of pictures of Ramona. (Part of my summer goals.) Who do you use? Snapfish? There is another one. I want to best deal.
Is anyone still doing groovebooks? We get them but OMG the quality is so shitty. I think they are fun for $2.99 per month, but I want pictures that don't look all faded.
I print my pictures at Costco. It's very cheap and their software is great! You can download from computers, phone, Facebook and Instagram and you have options to crop or fix the images
Ugh, my mom and dad came over unexpectedly at dinner time to "drop something off". I felt guilty and invited them to stay. My mom is such a busy body and is going around my house going through stuff. I'm not the most organized person and she has a way of finding my messes and making stupid passive aggressive comments. It's now 8pm and I just want to sit down and veg on the couch but I'm having to follow her around and answer all her stupid fucking questions. "What do you want to do with this?" "Are you going to fold these?" "Where do you put your dirty laundry?" I need a drink.
It reminds me of when my mom came to help me after I gave birth. I just wanted to chill on the couch with my newborn baby and she was there, alphabetising my spices
I print my pictures at Costco. It's very cheap and their software is great! You can download from computers, phone, Facebook and Instagram and you have options to crop or fix the images
Do you have to be a member? Can I get a hotdog if I print them there?
Do you know anyone who is a member? You can bring "a guest" free of charge. And hotdogs are available for non members
Apparently I'm a shitty wife b/c instead of giving DH what he really wanted for Father's Day (a BJ), I got him special books for him to read to Jacob, matching Star Wars shirts, and a Jacob and Dad photo album.
Ugh, my mom and dad came over unexpectedly at dinner time to "drop something off". I felt guilty and invited them to stay. My mom is such a busy body and is going around my house going through stuff. I'm not the most organized person and she has a way of finding my messes and making stupid passive aggressive comments. It's now 8pm and I just want to sit down and veg on the couch but I'm having to follow her around and answer all her stupid fucking questions. "What do you want to do with this?" "Are you going to fold these?" "Where do you put your dirty laundry?" I need a drink.
It reminds me of when my mom came to help me after I gave birth. I just wanted to chill on the couch with my newborn baby and she was there, alphabetising my spices
Warning: MOTN rambling ahead after an upsetting dream while pregnant and hormotional (apparently).
I wouldn't mind at all if my mom alphabetized my spices. Instead, she was tipsy to drunk most evenings. One night she couldn't really stand up. At least she stayed sober the night my SS showed up having a psychotic episode from some drug he took.
I have trust issues with both of them at this point.
And I just woke up from a dream where my dad came back for a visit (he died in 2010). My family worked when he was alive.
It reminds me of when my mom came to help me after I gave birth. I just wanted to chill on the couch with my newborn baby and she was there, alphabetising my spices
Warning: MOTN rambling ahead after an upsetting dream while pregnant and hormotional (apparently).
I wouldn't mind at all if my mom alphabetized my spices. Instead, she was tipsy to drunk most evenings. One night she couldn't really stand up. At least she stayed sober the night my SS showed up having a psychotic episode from some drug he took.
I have trust issues with both of them at this point.
And I just woke up from a dream where my dad came back for a visit (he died in 2010). My family worked when he was alive.
Damn vivid pregnancy dreams!
Many hugs. I've had a rocky relationship with my mom all my life on top of not having spoke to my dad in 13 ears.
She once told me that I was too good for my SO and that she plain hated him because he was quiet and she also once told.me that she was thankful for my eating disorder because it helped me lose weight.
So yeah, I know sucky parents.
What matter is he family that we are building with our kids.
I hope he didn't actually say that. I'm totally side-eyeing your H right now.
He didn't actually call me a shitty wife, but he did ask he why I got him the gifts when he just really wanted a BJ. He thought me getting gifts was my way of not giving him one.
Oh.
Nope, that doesn't help his case.
Andplusalso you can't dictate how other people give gifts.
Post by charliefox on Jun 21, 2016 11:37:17 GMT -5
crystaleyes138, I'm still mad about what YH said. You gave him wonderful gifts that celebrated his fatherhood! I hate that people use sex (or sexual acts) as a gift. Sex is something that people in a relationship share because it's fun and brings them together. Expecting a very one-side sexual act as a gift is borderline assault to me.
crystaleyes138 , I'm still mad about what YH said. You gave him wonderful gifts that celebrated his fatherhood! I hate that people use sex (or sexual acts) as a gift. Sex is something that people in a relationship share because it's fun and brings them together. Expecting a very one-side sexual act as a gift is borderline assault to me.
Thanks. I'm not sure why he does this. I can understand how sex is important in a relationship and for him, makes him feel closer to me. But to make it so significant as a gift for Father's Day is just ridiculous.
Apparently I'm a shitty wife b/c instead of giving DH what he really wanted for Father's Day (a BJ), I got him special books for him to read to Jacob, matching Star Wars shirts, and a Jacob and Dad photo album.
Great end to the day.
My H wanted the same! I told him he isn't my father so any gifts are from the kids. That took the wind out of his sails.
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