I agree that the grad thread is a "safe zone" in that people can AW their baby, bellies, current ailments, etc.
That doesn't mean everyone in the community immediately starts to know you, like you, or care about how you're doing.
So let's call it the "grad thread for people we like, know or care about." WTF- It's either a place for grads or it's not. The double standard is outrageous. Didn't someone just complain in another thread about not being here for superlatives. That was barely addressed. that was not a thread for grads. Yes, I like the poster but I was surprised that it was barely addressed.
Yeah, I see your point but I see both sides of this. I don't really have a dog in this fight so it's not going to be my hill to die on.
Resume posting grads, sorry for this interruption.
Post by wanderingheart on Jun 22, 2016 13:37:54 GMT -5
Fair point - I don't know wildflower so I don't know her history or interactions on the board. I can see how her comment may have rubbed some the wrong way giving that.
However my dear sweet pippa made a good point too. We don't have to all love each other and hold hands and sing kumbaya. If someone posts an update in the grad thread you don't like, move on. Call them out if they're being an asshole or whatever, but don't call them out for doing something we all have done in the grad thread. Just my opinion.
Post by icaughtfire on Jun 22, 2016 13:42:58 GMT -5
I wish y'all could make up your minds about what is okay & not okay to do and then just make that the blanket rules for errrbody. I feel like sometimes people are getting their panties in a twist when this person does XYZ but wouldn't give a shit if that person did the same thing, know what I mean?
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I'm not sure why this thread keeps spiraling into what feels like a grads vs. GKU battle every week. This thread used to make me happy and hopeful (babies! yay!) and now it just makes me sad because it ends up turning into a big argument.
Also, I am blaming this post on my Clomid sadz right now. Just be happy it was the sadz and not the DAISYMADDAISYSMASH feeling that comes every other hour this week.
Not trying to speak for onesweetworld , but I think her comment was about wildflower810 's history of complaining, rather than her specific comment in this thread. That's how I took it, anyway.
Post by wildflower810 on Jun 22, 2016 15:11:09 GMT -5
Okay, now I read the rest of tmft.
I introed two months before ttc, and was here for about three months. Didn't say a word outside of tfas Tuesday about how anxious and upset I was about ttc and what I mental game it was for me given my history.
FW sex left me unable to stand up or walk for several hours each day. So that's that comment. I should probably see my doctor.
Yes, I poas a lot. So do lots of other people here. Somehow I turned a test super early. I wasn't expecting to, I just burned a cheapie.
I'll see myself out now. I'm obviously not one of the cool gals here and it's not a game I need to play on the internet.
I introed two months before ttc, and was here for about three months. Didn't say a word outside of tfas Tuesday about how anxious and upset I was about ttc and what I mental game it was for me given my history.
FW sex left me unable to stand up or walk for several hours each day. So that's that comment. I should probably see my doctor.
Yes, I poas a lot. So do lots of other people here. Somehow I turned a test super early. I wasn't expecting to, I just burned a cheapie.
I'll see myself out now. I'm obviously not one of the cool gals here and it's not a game I need to play on the internet.
Stop. Don't do that. Don't make this more dramatic. I initially agreed that the comment made to you was out of left field, but don't do this. People sided with you, but don't go all GBCGKU. It's never a good look.
I introed two months before ttc, and was here for about three months. Didn't say a word outside of tfas Tuesday about how anxious and upset I was about ttc and what I mental game it was for me given my history.
FW sex left me unable to stand up or walk for several hours each day. So that's that comment. I should probably see my doctor.
Yes, I poas a lot. So do lots of other people here. Somehow I turned a test super early. I wasn't expecting to, I just burned a cheapie.
I'll see myself out now. I'm obviously not one of the cool gals here and it's not a game I need to play on the internet.
People are butthurt, don't leave over this. It's really not that big of a deal. They'll get over it.
I introed two months before ttc, and was here for about three months. Didn't say a word outside of tfas Tuesday about how anxious and upset I was about ttc and what I mental game it was for me given my history.
FW sex left me unable to stand up or walk for several hours each day. So that's that comment. I should probably see my doctor.
Yes, I poas a lot. So do lots of other people here. Somehow I turned a test super early. I wasn't expecting to, I just burned a cheapie.
I'll see myself out now. I'm obviously not one of the cool gals here and it's not a game I need to play on the internet.
Stop. Don't do that. Don't make this more dramatic. I initially agreed that the comment made to you was out of left field, but don't do this. People sided with you, but don't go all GBCGKU. It's never a good look.
Not trying to speak for onesweetworld , but I think her comment was about wildflower810 's history of complaining, rather than her specific comment in this thread. That's how I took it, anyway.
Last Edit: Jun 22, 2016 15:36:54 GMT -5 by lilsneezy
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I introed two months before ttc, and was here for about three months. Didn't say a word outside of tfas Tuesday about how anxious and upset I was about ttc and what I mental game it was for me given my history.
FW sex left me unable to stand up or walk for several hours each day. So that's that comment. I should probably see my doctor.
Yes, I poas a lot. So do lots of other people here. Somehow I turned a test super early. I wasn't expecting to, I just burned a cheapie.
I'll see myself out now. I'm obviously not one of the cool gals here and it's not a game I need to play on the internet.
Stop. Don't do that. Don't make this more dramatic. I initially agreed that the comment made to you was out of left field, but don't do this. People sided with you, but don't go all GBCGKU. It's never a good look.
Or, at least, do it in a memorable flaming spectacle.
Stop. Don't do that. Don't make this more dramatic. I initially agreed that the comment made to you was out of left field, but don't do this. People sided with you, but don't go all GBCGKU. It's never a good look.
Yeah, you're right.
As a fellow flower, I command that you stay.
People have bad days and say things they probably shouldn't. I'm sorry for the pain you experienced. I would highly recommend discussing that with you doctor, like tomorrow.
And like PP said, if you are going to GBCTCF you need to do in a fiery explosion of nonsensical posts. Politeness is not allowed. Since you failed to meet the criteria you have to stay.
People have bad days and say things they probably shouldn't. I'm sorry for the pain you experienced. I would highly recommend discussing that with you doctor, like tomorrow.
And like PP said, if you are going to GBCTCF you need to do in a fiery explosion of nonsensical posts. Politeness is not allowed. Since you failed to meet the criteria you have to stay.
I read this like 5 times thinking:
"but she's a pizza pocket..."
Then I was like:
"that's not right...hot pocket?"
Then I panicked and thought: "Don't worry dub, you can google pizza pocket and I'm sure what you're thinking of will pop up..."
IT DIDN'T.
So I desperately asked H: "MR.DUB...What are those little delicious pizza pocket things called?!"
H panicked too. He was all: "Hot pockets? No...that's not right...what...UGH.....PIZZA ROLLS!"
I was thrilled. Then, the last piece of the puzzle...Wallie isn't a flower, she's a pizza roll...oh...WallieFLOWERS...got it. Got it.
People have bad days and say things they probably shouldn't. I'm sorry for the pain you experienced. I would highly recommend discussing that with you doctor, like tomorrow.
And like PP said, if you are going to GBCTCF you need to do in a fiery explosion of nonsensical posts. Politeness is not allowed. Since you failed to meet the criteria you have to stay.
I read this like 5 times thinking:
"but she's a pizza pocket..."
Then I was like:
"that's not right...hot pocket?"
Then I panicked and thought: "Don't worry dub, you can google pizza pocket and I'm sure what you're thinking of will pop up..."
IT DIDN'T.
So I desperately asked H: "MR.DUB...What are those little delicious pizza pocket things called?!"
H panicked too. He was all: "Hot pockets? No...that's not right...what...UGH.....PIZZA ROLLS!"
I was thrilled. Then, the last piece of the puzzle...Wallie isn't a flower, she's a pizza roll...oh...WallieFLOWERS...got it. Got it.
People have bad days and say things they probably shouldn't. I'm sorry for the pain you experienced. I would highly recommend discussing that with you doctor, like tomorrow.
And like PP said, if you are going to GBCTCF you need to do in a fiery explosion of nonsensical posts. Politeness is not allowed. Since you failed to meet the criteria you have to stay.
I read this like 5 times thinking:
"but she's a pizza pocket..."
Then I was like:
"that's not right...hot pocket?"
Then I panicked and thought: "Don't worry dub, you can google pizza pocket and I'm sure what you're thinking of will pop up..."
IT DIDN'T.
So I desperately asked H: "MR.DUB...What are those little delicious pizza pocket things called?!"
H panicked too. He was all: "Hot pockets? No...that's not right...what...UGH.....PIZZA ROLLS!"
I was thrilled. Then, the last piece of the puzzle...Wallie isn't a flower, she's a pizza roll...oh...WallieFLOWERS...got it. Got it.
People have bad days and say things they probably shouldn't. I'm sorry for the pain you experienced. I would highly recommend discussing that with you doctor, like tomorrow.
And like PP said, if you are going to GBCTCF you need to do in a fiery explosion of nonsensical posts. Politeness is not allowed. Since you failed to meet the criteria you have to stay.
I read this like 5 times thinking:
"but she's a pizza pocket..."
Then I was like:
"that's not right...hot pocket?"
Then I panicked and thought: "Don't worry dub, you can google pizza pocket and I'm sure what you're thinking of will pop up..."
IT DIDN'T.
So I desperately asked H: "MR.DUB...What are those little delicious pizza pocket things called?!"
H panicked too. He was all: "Hot pockets? No...that's not right...what...UGH.....PIZZA ROLLS!"
I was thrilled. Then, the last piece of the puzzle...Wallie isn't a flower, she's a pizza roll...oh...WallieFLOWERS...got it. Got it.
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