It's finally raining here, yay! We have been in a serious drought and my flowers need it, but it is the one day on my vacation where we didn't have plans and I wanted to take DS to the spray park. Booo.
We told my mom the day we found out and DH's family last weekend when we were up there. We told friends and my job this week (we had a bottle share at our favorite hang out spot and I have a somewhat dangerous job). I have yet to tell my dad's side of the family. His wife was...unsupportive of us in our losses. I can't handle that again and still have a civil relationship with her.
Today is my son's adoption finalization!! We are celebrating tonight with my sister and BIL for dinner and dessert and will host a huge pig roast at the end of the month to celebrate with friends and family.
AFM, today is dragging at work. I am meeting girls friends today. I told them yesturday so there was no awkward "I'm not having wine" with them. I am relieved they know now. I'm debating with myself if telling my mom tomorrow before my step dad's retirement party is a good idea. It's just so hard to hide my non drinking, it stresses me out. I don't know what I'm going to do yet.
Dallas has had such a somber vibe today, add in normal pregnancy hormones and I've been a mess today. I'm going to go to the gym in a bit to try to distract myself, but I've seriously been getting teary eyed at the most random things
I was reading an article that detailed the exchanges between the mom and the little girl. I was a mess for a bit after. It breaks my heart.
I told my dad yesterday. He's thrilled. We never told him the first time we were pregnant, so we never told him about my loss. I feel better knowing that even if the worst happens, we can be open about it. And if everything goes as planned, it's awesome to be able to get excited with my family.
I have a going away party next weekend where my non-drinking would definitely be noticed, so I'm planning on telling the rest of my family beforehand.
Aww so exciting. Good luck with the rest of the family.
I feel the same, if the worst happens wouldn't we want/need the support? I hope I will have the guts to tell my mom tomorrow.
Went to my Dr this morning. Everything seems to be progressing nicely. Still no heartbeat but he said it's still a little too early for that anyway. I have an ultrasound once a week for the next two weeks to keep checking everything.
I told my dad yesterday. He's thrilled. We never told him the first time we were pregnant, so we never told him about my loss. I feel better knowing that even if the worst happens, we can be open about it. And if everything goes as planned, it's awesome to be able to get excited with my family.
I have a going away party next weekend where my non-drinking would definitely be noticed, so I'm planning on telling the rest of my family beforehand.
Aww so exciting. Good luck with the rest of the family.
I feel the same, if the worst happens wouldn't we want/need the support? I hope I will have the guts to tell my mom tomorrow.
This is what I've been telling myself since my mom told everyone. 😖
Scheduled my first appointment. The earliest I could get in was 8 weeks. I'm trying a new place than where I went for DD. They do prenatal chair massages and you get goodies. Hoping for more of a personalized experience.
Dallas has had such a somber vibe today, add in normal pregnancy hormones and I've been a mess today. I'm going to go to the gym in a bit to try to distract myself, but I've seriously been getting teary eyed at the most random things
I have cried almost every day this week watching the news. :/ This week is hard, plus hormones.
Post by daisylola11 on Jul 8, 2016 18:02:53 GMT -5
Welp getting tooth pulled... They couldn't do the ct scan but still treatment would have been pumping meds into the root over the course of 9 months!! And even then it's a possibility they'd still have to pull it. I'm not into that much meds pregnant or not anyway and it's just cheaper. Ugh
Scheduled my first appointment. The earliest I could get in was 8 weeks. I'm trying a new place than where I went for DD. They do prenatal chair massages and you get goodies. Hoping for more of a personalized experience.
Ughhh! Me too and it's all for nothing. There is not enough money in the world for me to try breastfeeding again.
I'm hoping that all these blazing nips means that my boobs will cooperate this time around! Last time, I could not breastfeed despite reeeeeally really wanting to. :/
Post by heytheredelilah on Jul 8, 2016 19:41:23 GMT -5
My SIL and BIL are staying with us this week. I am pretty sure my SIL figured it out. She went through my bathroom looking for a blow dryer and there was some evidence in the drawers (prenatal vitamins, progesterone supplements, FRER wrapper, and FRER's if she went through the garbage, but I hope she didn't get there) She hasn't mentioned it. Neither have I. I did tell her about my losses, so there is a chance she may think It it is from the last pregnancy.
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