So...I'm in a bit of a pickle. I was going to a second interview today, it's a job that sounds kind of terrible, but would pay essentially what I make now, plus have benefits, so I felt like I have to at least pursue it. My recruiter does not know my last day is this Friday. She's been very negative on me going out on my own (obviously since she wants the commission with me finding a job through her) and I figured it was fine bc I'd either take this job or, more likely, decline it...and do the contract job, start on my own, etc. so it didn't really matter. The person at the job I had an interview for today had to go out of town suddenly...so needs to reschedule. She wants to do Friday (my last day here) or next week (I'll be traveling with my gma)...so should I give up the farce and just tell my recruiter I'm not interested, say I'm leaving this job, and be done with it? Or try to interview this Friday? Come clean to the recruiter? Ack!
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Post by onesweetworld on Jul 11, 2016 8:48:46 GMT -5
That's a pickle wannabmama. I think if it was me, I'd skip the interview if I knew I didn't want to job. If there is a chance you may take it, reschedule.
I have so many calls to make and emails to send I can't seem to keep them all straight. I need to take a minute and write them all down and keep them organized.
Post by onesweetworld on Jul 11, 2016 8:51:02 GMT -5
I think I'm done with my initial freak out. I'm going to make coffee and go about my day. I think I will iron my clothes for later and pack a bag. I'll go to my parents tonight.
That's a pickle wannabmama. I think if it was me, I'd skip the interview if I knew I didn't want to job. If there is a chance you may take it, reschedule.
I was trying to go in with an open mind but also am sort of worried if I got the offer, I'd feel pressured to take it (steady paycheck and all that)...so maybe canceling and just telling the recruiter my plan is the right thing to do at this point.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
I have good news. For once. I have been wanting my current job to turn into a full time position but it hasn't been available. They finally finally finally approved for me to become full time last Thursday and it takes effect today!! Hooray! So this means more days per week, plus my insurance will drastically decrease and I will accrue time off at a higher rate.
Of course then I immediately spiraled into a panic about whether this is the right decision, if the schedule is what I want, if I should go somewhere else and make more money... I need to chill out but making adult decisions is hard.
Thanks ladies. Just spoke with my mom. She took my dad to the ER last night because of swelling, anemia, and a hernia. They admitted him, did 2 cat scans and gave him fluids and blood. Today they are doing and upper GI to see if they can find where he is bleeding from. Things seem okay right now.
I'm glad thing are looking okay, but sorry for all of this. How stressful. I hope he isn't in the ER long.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Back from the vet, she's okay but needed meds for her cough. And I got some extra in case my other dog starts showing symptoms. We were there extra long because there was an emergency with another animal that the vet had to take care of—the animal ended up having to be put down
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Post by ohinvrtedworld on Jul 11, 2016 9:49:19 GMT -5
Wow, lots of ups and downs this morning!
wannabmama HOORAY for your last week at that job! I'm so excited for you! onesweetworld positive thoughts for your dad. Glad that the news is okay so far but I hope they can fix him up and send him home soon. nuggetrn congrats on the new job! I agree with PP, you are free to change your mind down the road but it sounds great for now!
Soooo happy I have nothing on the agenda today. Just drinking coffee and chilling this morning. I might read a book since I have the time.
Thanks ladies. Just spoke with my mom. She took my dad to the ER last night because of swelling, anemia, and a hernia. They admitted him, did 2 cat scans and gave him fluids and blood. Today they are doing and upper GI to see if they can find where he is bleeding from. Things seem okay right now.
I'm glad thing are looking okay, but sorry for all of this. How stressful. I hope he isn't in the ER long.
He was admitted so he will be in the hospital for a few days
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
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