Home finally! I am SO happy to be home!! M was so excited to be home too! He was crawling all over the place and playing with his toys (3 days in arenas or hotels it was difficult to find places for him to roam much). He is so tired too! He has started consistently waving when he is tired, like saying 'bye-bye I'm going to bed now'! It's super cute! After being home for about an hour, he started waving, and went to sleep! The only thing that sucks about being home is having to cook and clean!
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
RandomName sorry about your DD's potty training set back, and YH failing to communicate it!
I'm trying really hard not to be mad at him. He says he thought I knew. Although in his defence, we sometimes do have 'conversations' before he leaves for work at 4:45 but I'm not actually awake.
Post by flippinchica on Aug 4, 2016 13:44:56 GMT -5
I slept in a bit, had a gyn appt, and the went to power yoga. I need to clean some before stopping by the store on the way to pick up DS. I felt really good after my exercise class.
@betweenthelines, I'm glad you could talk to your H and plan a trip too. It's so hard to balance everything. I am also being super productive at work...
I'm starting to get looped in on emails in preparation for my return to work (on my request) but honestly I DNW. But I do want...I'm feeling very conflicted about returning to work! Lol
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
My brother is coming in town tonight which means A will sleep in the pack n play in our room all weekend (her room doubles as our guest room). Fx it doesn't disrupt her sleep schedule!
On a good note, I'm taking tomorrow off so today is my Friday! 2.5 hours to go...
Post by flippinchica on Aug 4, 2016 17:14:27 GMT -5
Should I say something? DH takes M to daycare most mornings. I picked him up and they said he refused his first bottle. I looked at the report note after I left and they gave it at 9:30. Well we had a late start this am and I nursed right before they left home which was after 8 so of course he wasn't hungry then. I'm sure it is because H didn't think to tell them that he just nursed and I hate that the bottle of breastmilk went to waste. But he only has 9 more days of bottles anyway so maybe I should just let it go.
Should I say something? DH takes M to daycare most mornings. I picked him up and they said he refused his first bottle. I looked at the report note after I left and they gave it at 9:30. Well we had a late start this am and I nursed right before they left home which was after 8 so of course he wasn't hungry then. I'm sure it is because H didn't think to tell them that he just nursed and I hate that the bottle of breastmilk went to waste. But he only has 9 more days of bottles anyway so maybe I should just let it go.
I hate wasted breastmilk too. Can you say something without coming off as nagging or critical and more so as prevention that it doesn't happen again?
Should I say something? DH takes M to daycare most mornings. I picked him up and they said he refused his first bottle. I looked at the report note after I left and they gave it at 9:30. Well we had a late start this am and I nursed right before they left home which was after 8 so of course he wasn't hungry then. I'm sure it is because H didn't think to tell them that he just nursed and I hate that the bottle of breastmilk went to waste. But he only has 9 more days of bottles anyway so maybe I should just let it go.
I probably wouldn't say anything if it was a one off, and most likely your H forgot to tell them he just nursed. If you notice a pattern, then I would say something. I'm also wondering if they have a typical schedule that they feed him, and because they didn't know the morning was different, they didn't know to adjust. I think saying anything now may just make them feel bad. Maybe reinforce with YH that this type of information needs to be shared so they can adjust the schedule (particularly if he does most of the drop offs).
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Post by abominationsnowman on Aug 4, 2016 18:44:37 GMT -5
flippinchica, I would let it go. If it were my h doing a rare drop off, he might not take the criticism well and might never offer to do drop off again.
Should I say something? DH takes M to daycare most mornings. I picked him up and they said he refused his first bottle. I looked at the report note after I left and they gave it at 9:30. Well we had a late start this am and I nursed right before they left home which was after 8 so of course he wasn't hungry then. I'm sure it is because H didn't think to tell them that he just nursed and I hate that the bottle of breastmilk went to waste. But he only has 9 more days of bottles anyway so maybe I should just let it go.
I'd let it go. Your H should have said something about offering a bottle later. Also licensing regs usually have some sort of time limit how how long a bottle can be out before it's tossed. Here it's an hour.
Post by flippinchica on Aug 4, 2016 20:01:56 GMT -5
Thanks everyone. I really want to make drops offs as easy on DH as possible so he continues to do the majority. If this was going to be a concern for months to come I would be more firm about making sure they know when he last ate but with just 2 weeks it isn't worth it. It is nice to be able to vent here though
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