Post by ldubhawksfan on Aug 4, 2016 12:37:16 GMT -5
No Thursday thread yet?
Last night I was pretty irked at DH when he got home well after DD was asleep fromHH, let me tell him I had a rough day, and then continue to let me do dishes and CD laundry without helping. I also love that his mornings consist of getting ready for work and bringing DD to me just before he leaves, while mine include nursing, pumping, getting ready for work, vacuuming, etc, while chasing & entertaining the baby, all before hitting the door to run to a meeting. Sorry for the mini rant. Working mom woes. Although the first part of my rant is from my day off, so my sympathies are with SAH moms. I guess it's just mom woes! 😉
Last Edit: Aug 4, 2016 12:44:49 GMT -5 by ldubhawksfan
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TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
We came back from vacation on Tuesday night. My kids were awesome on the flight. DS slept the whole time and DD coloured in a colouring book and used the iPad a bit. When I got home, DH had cleaned up the whole house. It was so beautiful. The kids are messing it up fast though.
TTC #1: March 2014 Dx: MFI Medicated IUI #1: March 2015-BFP Baby Girl born 11/5/2015! TTC #2: August 2016 Medicated IUI #1: Feb 2017-BFN Medicated IUI #2: March 2017-BFP Baby Boy expected Dec. 1
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
He's started waking up an extra time, too. Sometimes he'll go back down at 4 (he did today) but sometimes not. We're fighting another ear infection too, so there's that.
This whole week has been like one Monday after another. I'm really glad tomorrow is Friday. We are going to have a playdate with one of DS's friends from school. His friend has a sister that is in DD's class, so it makes it fun to get them all together.
He's started waking up an extra time, too. Sometimes he'll go back down at 4 (he did today) but sometimes not. We're fighting another ear infection too, so there's that.
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
Post by sunfrogger88 on Aug 4, 2016 16:24:02 GMT -5
Hi guys!
Sorry, it's my WFH days and these get crazier and crazier. People finally know I'm back or remember anyway, so I get a decent amount of requests, plus baby who won't nap and wants to climb on me all day.
ldubhawksfan vent away. My H seems to think it's acceptable to follow me around all morning with the baby while I'm trying to get shower/dressed, pack lunches and my pump bag, and eat breakfast. Lolno.
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
Sorry, it's my WFH days and these get crazier and crazier. People finally know I'm back or remember anyway, so I get a decent amount of requests, plus baby who won't nap and wants to climb on me all day.
ldubhawksfan vent away. My H seems to think it's acceptable to follow me around all morning with the baby while I'm trying to get shower/dressed, pack lunches and my pump bag, and eat breakfast. Lolno.
I really don't know how you can wfh! I'm impressed because my day at home with DD, it seems like eating lunch is an accomplishment without her climbing on me!
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
Sorry, it's my WFH days and these get crazier and crazier. People finally know I'm back or remember anyway, so I get a decent amount of requests, plus baby who won't nap and wants to climb on me all day.
ldubhawksfan vent away. My H seems to think it's acceptable to follow me around all morning with the baby while I'm trying to get shower/dressed, pack lunches and my pump bag, and eat breakfast. Lolno.
I really don't know how you can wfh! I'm impressed because my day at home with DD, it seems like eating lunch is an accomplishment without her climbing on me!
It's gotten more and more difficult. I try to do as much as I can when / if she naps. I pop over to my computer every 5 /10 and its volume is turned way up so if I'm across the room I can hear it. And if I'm really trying to finish something I pop her in her pnp with a few toys. I also log on like an hour + early and leave my computer on so when she goes to bed, I can make sure I didn't miss anything big.
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
So things between DH and I have been rough. He works 4am-6pm and a few hours on the weekend. He has his own business and recently bought some rental properties with his BIL (we have 10 units already). He comes home and only talks about work and plays with the kids for 2 hours. He doesn't remember anything we talk about and acts like anytime I bring something up it's brand new. My biggest pet peeve is talking about the same thing over and over like it's never been talked about. He puts the toddler to bed at 8 and 9/10 times falls asleep.
I feel like I never see him and we never talk. He never wants to try to find a babysitter so we can go out "he's tired." I don't feel like I'm in a marriage. He's always so busy I feel like a single parent so I know I can do this alone. I don't have friends to stay with or family to trust.
I told him how I felt and he felt bad and then started texting BIL and they put in another offer on a rehab.
I haven't talked to him in 2 days and he seems ok with it.
Sorry for the sob story but I have no one to turn to.
Post by littleredfish on Aug 4, 2016 17:12:43 GMT -5
The stagers came today and the house looks really nice.
Obviously, it's their job. Annoyed though that I had to get out for 6 hours in crazy heat so the plan consisted of going to Mcd's playplace for 2 hours then coming home to see if H was back from work at which point I see my dog was running loose outside (I had left them both locked in DD1s room for this reason and she was all "Oh I'm a dog person! They will be fiiiine" k, till they get hit by a car I guess.) Put him back in the fence and mentioned it to them, then took off to the mall for the rest of the afternoon.
My kids are pissed. I don't blame them since they missed their afternoon nap. We ordered food and I'm not sure where to eat it. My table is set up all pretty and the realtor comes tomorrow for new photos. Tonight will consist of taking pics so I can put things back after I hide them from my kids. There are so many little decorative pieces. I feel like my new life will be playing the game of where is the little bird from the coffee table.
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
Last Edit: Aug 4, 2016 22:13:48 GMT -5 by rachaeleigh
ALL AL WELCOME
5 losses (2003, 2008, 03/12, 11/12, & 10/16) All RPL testing by several REs = all normal
All IF testing by several REs = all normal 5 IUIs (2014) = BFN
IVF#1 Feb '15= BFP! U/S 04/01 = 6w5d, HR 125!, SCH measuring 2cm U/S 04/06 = 7w5d, HR 165!, SCH measuring 4cm NT scan = 13w2d, SCH no longer visible Anatomy scan = Team green . All looks great! Rainbow born on 11/22/15, team pink!
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
Holy shit, we just dropped a lot of money on some furniture 😕 I'm glad to have finally picked stuff out though
Also, I'm off of FB again, so I'll only be around on here for awhile again
Nice! What did you get?
We had committed to bedroom furniture and a new mattress but decided now isn't the time. I can't wait for when we can order it though!
We've had an empty room since we moved in 5 years ago. We're making it into another couch/play room. We're moving our big sectional into it and then eventually a TV but mainly just open space for toys, etc. So, we bought basically 2 couches and a chair for our current TV room. I'm definitely excited bUT anxious about the money
5 losses (2003, 2008, 03/12, 11/12, & 10/16) All RPL testing by several REs = all normal
All IF testing by several REs = all normal 5 IUIs (2014) = BFN
IVF#1 Feb '15= BFP! U/S 04/01 = 6w5d, HR 125!, SCH measuring 2cm U/S 04/06 = 7w5d, HR 165!, SCH measuring 4cm NT scan = 13w2d, SCH no longer visible Anatomy scan = Team green . All looks great! Rainbow born on 11/22/15, team pink!
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