I don't receive any lower quality care because my provider chooses not to jump through meaningless government hoops. Our provider is like a member of the family.
Also while digging on this website I found a list of requirements for registration and a quiet place for sick children is one of them. So I am sort of assuming registration of the provider is not going to influence whether I keep my sick kids at home or not.
An appreciative/caring relationship with your DCPs and background checks are not mutually exclusive. Trust but verify homegirl.
Not @juliagulia , but lately I am finding it hard to bite my tongue on some things and I am afraid to post because I am afraid I will come off judgy because I will be honest I am judging some stuff here lately.
This is a big reason I am mostly in the BI thread and am not on in the drinking threads much.
This makes me wonder if I am literally missing some things or if I am really dense and not reading things the same way other people do. Any I don't mean just your post, I've seen others say similar things recently
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
@juliagulia what is making you feel like you need a break?
I think this happens to a lot of people (well, most people) from time to time.
Not @juliagulia, but lately I am finding it hard to bite my tongue on some things and I am afraid to post because I am afraid I will come off judgy because I will be honest I am judging some stuff here lately.
This is a big reason I am mostly in the BI thread and am not on in the drinking threads much.
I feel this way kinda. This board has gone too soft and there's too much whining about offensive shit that I feel I'm outgrowing this place.
McBenny I told my H the truth when he asked about one of my guy friends at the beginning of our relationship. He definitely couldn't handle it, and the guy friend and I havent spoken in 10 years. Im still bitter, he was a really good person and it sucks we couldn't be friends anymore. I should have lied.
I have someone like this. DH has never asked and I have never told. I don't think he wants to know for sure. I love this friend's wife and I wonder sometimes if she knows and if they would stop hanging out with us if she did. We don't see each other all that often, and it honestly is not an issue at all, but I would be so sad if it caused them to not hang out with us. It was 20 years ago!
I think about that with a few of my friends' wives. I just never ever bring it up (of course), so I have no idea if they know or not. I'm kind of assuming not, but you never know.
I don't receive any lower quality care because my provider chooses not to jump through meaningless government hoops. Our provider is like a member of the family.
Also while digging on this website I found a list of requirements for registration and a quiet place for sick children is one of them. So I am sort of assuming registration of the provider is not going to influence whether I keep my sick kids at home or not.
An appreciative/caring relationship with your DCPs and background checks are not mutually exclusive. Trust but verify homegirl.
Confession: I sometimes get annoyed when OP's ask for an opinion, then only love-tit some of the responses. Like they go through and like the people they know or something. I know it's silly, but I feel like it's messing with my Post to Love-tit ratio, which is very important around here apparently.
I will totally admit to being guilty of this. Like I'll be scrolling through and reading responses and one will strike me and then I will be like "shit do I need to love-tit everything everyone said in here?"
Confession: I sometimes get annoyed when OP's ask for an opinion, then only love-tit some of the responses. Like they go through and like the people they know or something. I know it's silly, but I feel like it's messing with my Post to Love-tit ratio, which is very important around here apparently.
I usually try to keep up with LT in threads I post, but I get busy sometimes and don't finish it and just read the responses quickly.
I totally get that. I've just noticed that some people like most of the posts but skip a couple here and there. It just seems kind of odd to me.
Post by bunnyfungo on Aug 10, 2016 12:55:18 GMT -5
I'm still FB friends with one of my exes. He messaged me after my mom died to tell me how special she was to him, which was really nice. Because if you're with people for a certain amount of time, you care for their families too.
Not @juliagulia, but lately I am finding it hard to bite my tongue on some things and I am afraid to post because I am afraid I will come off judgy because I will be honest I am judging some stuff here lately.
This is a big reason I am mostly in the BI thread and am not on in the drinking threads much.
I feel this way kinda. This board has gone too soft and there's too much whining about offensive shit that I feel I'm outgrowing this place.
Post by charyoutree on Aug 10, 2016 12:57:01 GMT -5
This board has opened my eyes to the fact that I'm pretty breezy about relationships in general. I actually find my H's exes to be really fascinating. Like, I want to know what his relationship with them was like. He's important to me, and they were important to him, and I want to know why.
Same way I feel about my exes. I'm friends with all of them on social media because they were a part of my life once and I care about them. One actually de-friended me recently and I got kind of offended. Like, I'm friends with my dog groomer on Facebook, but I can't be friends with you when you were the most important person in my life for 5 years? Then I learned that I guess it's kind of weird to be friends with exes on social media?
@juliagulia what is making you feel like you need a break?
I think this happens to a lot of people (well, most people) from time to time.
I just need to get some stuff done irl so I need to cut out distractions. Also, there is tension between H and me over how much time I spend on my phone. We sit down on the couch and I play on my phone and he falls asleep at like 8:30. So, I'm like "I play on my phone because you are sleeping" and he's like "I fall asleep because your ignoring me". Blerg. I should make an effort to clean up my side.
Also, going on vacay next week so need to be present for that.
It's something I do every now and again and I think it's good.
This rings true to me. The weeks of the DNC and RNC, DH was getting pissed at me in the evenings. He was like "just talk to me about what you're talking to them about" and then I ran some Tim Kaine material by him and he didn't get why it was funny. GDI.
But I did feel bad, so I'm trying to keep it to work hours. But work's been busy and so I can't keep up here today which is a true tragedy.
Not @juliagulia , but lately I am finding it hard to bite my tongue on some things and I am afraid to post because I am afraid I will come off judgy because I will be honest I am judging some stuff here lately.
This is a big reason I am mostly in the BI thread and am not on in the drinking threads much.
I feel this way kinda. This board has gone too soft and there's too much whining about offensive shit that I feel I'm outgrowing this place.
I don't get the hoarderish? It is up there, a number, it changes. I am not studying it. I am not getting emailed or dings on my phone.
Because do you check it? Do you then have to go and sort through a million notifications to find where people have tagged you or quoted you?
I just don't get keeping track of the number. Seems like useless amassing of data.
No. The number is just up there. You can just click and see if you were tagged or quoted. I don't have to flip through shit. I just look, "oh I was tagged" click.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Not @juliagulia , but lately I am finding it hard to bite my tongue on some things and I am afraid to post because I am afraid I will come off judgy because I will be honest I am judging some stuff here lately.
This is a big reason I am mostly in the BI thread and am not on in the drinking threads much.
I feel this way kinda. This board has gone too soft and there's too much whining about offensive shit that I feel I'm outgrowing this place.
There is more post-drama than actual drama that was happening at the time that LittlestJerry and McBenny got into a brief argument.
The long and short of it is that third parties got involved and McBenny felt they shouldn't have.
But McBenny that shit about keeping track of who is love-titting posts that you think are rude toward you is some next level shit.
I am not tracking anyone and following them around the board.
Things were said. Some people liked it as though they agreed. I did look and was like huh with some of the people. Surprised by others.
I am not doing anything to anyone. I am saying see you and will act accordingly with you. If that is next level then fine I will be that.
There is no spreadsheet. If you had something to say you should say it and not piggyback is my sentiment but again it is how I feel and I can't make anyone do anything nor do I want to.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
My cousin's ex (they were together for like 5 years and talked marriage) married his uncle after they broke up. I think she had only met the uncle a couple times when they were together but still. So weird.
Is there an age difference here? Uncle, as in your cousin's dad?
Confession: There are two specific incidents from last summer where people said something to me or in response to what I said and it still bugs me. In that way where you have a great response an hour after the fact.
So I get annoyed when people tell other people to brush something off just because its people on the internet. Tone matters. Regardless if its just randos on the internet or not.
This only feels vaguely related to anything on here right now but has been weighing on me.
I feel this way too and I am super easily butthurt. I am still prejudiced towards people from my BMB two years ago because they said something that hurt me once. I know that is silly as heck.
I promised myself to participate in this today I wouldn't take anything too personally. So far so good :-)
Post by bibliothecary on Aug 10, 2016 13:05:06 GMT -5
I'm in an audi showroom (friend had an interview, so I drove him). A guy just walked up to me while I was breastfeeding. He didn't even notice. Until he did. Then there were a lot of apologies. I guess I nurse discreetly? #relevant
I have taken names of people that love titted recent things that were said about me.
I take that to say you felt the same way as the person who said the shit. If you didn't why did you like it?
Grudges I have them.
I see you.
You've said this before and I know I must be on that list, but do you honestly want everyone who agrees with a particular post to post just to say "+1"? Because that's stupid.
Also for people to comment would be a pile on, no? No one wants that.
Confession: There are two specific incidents from last summer where people said something to me or in response to what I said and it still bugs me. In that way where you have a great response an hour after the fact.
So I get annoyed when people tell other people to brush something off just because its people on the internet. Tone matters. Regardless if its just randos on the internet or not.
This only feels vaguely related to anything on here right now but has been weighing on me.
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I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
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