Post by Cherhorowitz on Aug 11, 2016 7:03:24 GMT -5
I love the ladies of my Bmb, as much as I joke about bmbs. But I wouldn't follow one of them onto another board and play out my Bmb beef in front of other people. Much like I won't fight with MH in public. I find it tacky and in bad form.
FFFC: I went into labor on the day of the Daytona 500. I watched the race while in labor. MH and I agreed at the hospital that if she came that day we would give her a second middle name of Daytona. She was born the following morning so she lucked out of that one by a couple of hours.
Late, but I would never agree to that. What were you thinking?
I was at the point where I would have agreed to anything as long as they got the damn kid out of me.
I love the ladies of my Bmb, as much as I joke about bmbs. But I wouldn't follow one of them onto another board and play out my Bmb beef in front of other people. Much like I won't fight with MH in public. I find it tacky and in bad form.
You mean how @littlechivette brought it to parenting in the first place instead of addressing it at here BMB? Because that's what happened.
But no1curr, right?
I literally have no clue what you're talking about and I don't care. I have a long history of not caring about other people's Bmb drama, check my receipts.
But if you want to cling to pettiness from over a year ago, you're right. I don't care.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I'm an active poster in my bmb. A lot of the group left and formed their own fb group though after the dump blew up. What's left are very encouraging and supportive women. While bmb's aren't for everyone, they can offer a nice jumping off point when dealing with messages boards on the Internet.
Yes. Girls. But I'm not ruling out any potential wives just yet 😉 I get what you're saying. I still sometimes feel like women give their MIL's a harder time than they would their own moms for the same stuff. Which is a total double standard. So, maybe I won't experience it to that extent. But things like being overly invested in your grandkids or wanting to be a bigger part of your life all sound like positives to me. I might be in my feels missing my own parents though. Plus #wine.
Yes, yes of course you can also have a DIL I think part of the strain comes from the relationship moms have with sons as opposed to daughters. Like, they seem to like to baby them and want them to remain dependent on them so it is hard for them to give that up. This is just a generalization just things I've noticed.
And I agree, I don't understand being upset with a MIL being overly invested or wanting to be around. I am not living that, I have the ILs who live 30 mins away and can't be bothered to come over and see their only grandchild more than once every 4-6 weeks despite us telling them numerous times we have an open door policy.
This is way late, but the bolded is also a grass is always greener because while I appreciate that my in laws love dd and want to see it gets hard when you are working all week and want a weekend to hang out and watch movies and you can't because you are expected to see the in-laws or they just drop by the house.
This is way late, but the bolded is also a grass is always greener because while I appreciate that my in laws love dd and want to see it gets hard when you are working all week and want a weekend to hang out and watch movies and you can't because you are expected to see the in-laws or they just drop by the house.
Could you mention maybe a DD/grandparent date when they mention wanting to see her on the weekends and you're not up for company?
LOL for days she wants us all together as a family. Although I think she would be fine if it was just the 2 of them.
very rarely does she take dd alone. The only time she does that is if she finds out that my dd has been doing sleepovers or spending too much time with my mom. It is very competitive with her. The thing is with my mom we are doing stuff and my mom will let me sit while she hangs with dd or does whatever dd wants
Yes, yes of course you can also have a DIL I think part of the strain comes from the relationship moms have with sons as opposed to daughters. Like, they seem to like to baby them and want them to remain dependent on them so it is hard for them to give that up. This is just a generalization just things I've noticed.
And I agree, I don't understand being upset with a MIL being overly invested or wanting to be around. I am not living that, I have the ILs who live 30 mins away and can't be bothered to come over and see their only grandchild more than once every 4-6 weeks despite us telling them numerous times we have an open door policy.
This is way late, but the bolded is also a grass is always greener because while I appreciate that my in laws love dd and want to see it gets hard when you are working all week and want a weekend to hang out and watch movies and you can't because you are expected to see the in-laws or they just drop by the house.
+1
I get a text every weekend asking when they are going to see us. MH and I have turned it into a game to see who gets the text first that week.
If I'm wrong, correct me, but are you inferring that Mcbenny treated people poorly and caused the deactivations?
I meant look at how people were treated as a whole, but yes I think Mcbenny treats people poorly sometimes. That comment was not directed at her though. And to address the "hard on" comment later, there's no back story I just don't really like mcb.
huh.
Nothing's more enjoyable than when someone who has no personal beef with someone else follows them around, commenting aggressively. So thanks for that.
I meant look at how people were treated as a whole, but yes I think Mcbenny treats people poorly sometimes. That comment was not directed at her though. And to address the "hard on" comment later, there's no back story I just don't really like mcb.
So you don't know her...don't really have a post history with her...only see her during arguments...and on that basis you just don't like her?
I meant look at how people were treated as a whole, but yes I think Mcbenny treats people poorly sometimes. That comment was not directed at her though. And to address the "hard on" comment later, there's no back story I just don't really like mcb.
So you don't know her...don't really have a post history with her...only see her during arguments...and on that basis you just don't like her?
Nothing's more enjoyable than when someone who has no personal beef with someone else follows them around, commenting aggressively. So thanks for that.
which is basically the very definition of a e-hard-on.
Also, Bitemyvagina, I don't remember this streak from you... And I do have a memory because we have discussed several times how your SN always reads "bitemyvagina" to me.
I meant look at how people were treated as a whole, but yes I think Mcbenny treats people poorly sometimes. That comment was not directed at her though. And to address the "hard on" comment later, there's no back story I just don't really like mcb.
So you don't know her...don't really have a post history with her...only see her during arguments...and on that basis you just don't like her?
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