I have flamed a friend for this very thing and we are still close 5 years later. When shit like this hits the fan, it doesn't automatically make any one player the bad guy. Sometimes this shit just happens. It sucks for all involved.
---- 39 years old, MH is 43 TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 6 IUIs, 1 IVF, 2 FETs, 1 mmc, 1 CP Started Adoption process Feb 2015, officially waiting July 2015
Well I walked into a heavy convo and feel awkward but ((hugs)), ::hair pats:: etc...pobre. I was in HE's position a few years ago and me and my friend are still close. Everyone has their moments and no one is perfect. Things were tough for her for awhile but it got better. It won't feel so crappy forever.
Post by veganontuesdays on Aug 11, 2016 19:55:54 GMT -5
The fact of the matter is there is no black and white when it comes to love. I'm sorry timing/choices/events don't seem to be on your side right now pobre but you're doing a damn fine job at adulting at the moment, even if it took an ass kickin from @hilarityensued
to be fair to her it has to be hard to be in that situation. I'm sure she walked in eyes wide open based on the email but while my dad is a great father he is not the best husband and an even shittier boyfriend. It took me a long time to reconcile the two in my head.
I don't understand how it would ever be acceptable to contact the children in this situation. That is....not something a healthy human would do.
My dad was supposed to watch me at a desert campground while my mom made dinner (there was a large group of friends there). He left me with a bunch of kids that I didn't know and I got lost. At night. In the desert. He was too busy in another woman's camper.
Post by bunnyfungo on Aug 11, 2016 20:15:00 GMT -5
It was known that my dad cheated on my mom before I was born. He left when I was a month old to be with my stepmom. I honestly think he chose her because she has a hysterectomy and couldn't have children. I don't think he ever wanted kids.
*****trigger warning*****
He blamed me and my sister in his suicide note. So he is basically the worst of the worst humans. But he was still my dad. EMOSHUNS.
---- 39 years old, MH is 43 TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 6 IUIs, 1 IVF, 2 FETs, 1 mmc, 1 CP Started Adoption process Feb 2015, officially waiting July 2015
---- 39 years old, MH is 43 TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 6 IUIs, 1 IVF, 2 FETs, 1 mmc, 1 CP Started Adoption process Feb 2015, officially waiting July 2015
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