Part of me would like a larger family but 1) I hate being pregnant 2) I dislike the newborn stage and don't think I could do it more than 2x 3) I would like to finish my doctorate at some point, sooner rather than later and 4) I really want to renovate our kitchen and bathrooms. We aren't doing it until we can pay out of pocket for almost the whole thing with one of DH's bonuses. Right now, those bonuses go to daycare.
I'm beyond happy to be done with two. The confession here is that I second guess our decision to have a second everyday. I love him so, so much and he really is such an easy baby, but it's changed our family dynamic in a way I don't really like.
I really don't like who I've become under the stress of balancing two kids, my life, and my marriage.
This is exactly why I am one and done. I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now. I'm sure things will get better as the kids get older.
I've heard after three the number of kids you ha e doesn't really matter anymore. If you can survive three kids, you can survive 30. I don't want 30, but I would like at least 3.
I keep hearing that too, but I'm pretty sure 3 is my limit. I'm barely hanging on some days. Ages 8, almost 5, and 9 months. Part of me would love a 4th, but no.
Post by theseaword on Aug 26, 2016 16:27:50 GMT -5
In my 20s I would go to Jimmy Buffett concerts with my parents and my inlaws. Tailgate was always a blast. I'm pro partying with parents once you are legal.
I'm beyond happy to be done with two. The confession here is that I second guess our decision to have a second everyday. I love him so, so much and he really is such an easy baby, but it's changed our family dynamic in a way I don't really like.
I really don't like who I've become under the stress of balancing two kids, my life, and my marriage.
This is where i am too. I love my second and he's like a mini me, but i often think of how things have changed since having him.
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We are happily done at two and my husband had a vasectomy on Monday. I loved being pregnant. We have a May 2013 kid and a March 2016 baby. I love snuggling babies but I cannot go through the sleep deprived stage again. I also feel like I spend so much time thinking about sleep and feeding. Three year olds can be jerks but my three year old is mostly awesome. She at least sttn, feeds herself, goes potty, and I can have fun conversations with her. I'm so ready to be done pumping and breastfeeding so I can have my body back completely. I'm ready for the stage of slightly older but still little and cute kids where we can more easily go out and do fun family things and not be held back by naps and having to do everything for them and watch them so closely the whole time.
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