Post by BabyStandish on Sept 2, 2016 15:00:47 GMT -5
Has anyone texturized walls before? I have some spray stuff that is supposed to do it and am thinking maybe I should wait for H to try it out. Like I just spray the walls?? LOL I'm such a newb.
H and I found out this week that we had previously been somewhat misinformed about the timeline for our foster care case. We now know that we won't know if the boys' goal will be changed to adoption or not for another 6-12 months. They have already been in our home for exactly a year, and there has been very little progress on the case. I can't even believe how slow, stressful, and heartwrenching this whole process is.
I'm sorry ceejay . That must be so tough. Did you ever find out if the birth mom is pregnant or not?
No, we still don't know for sure. Everyone involved in the case believes that she is, though. She should be due soon so hopefully we will find out soon, one way or another!
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Sorry ceejay . 😞It sounds like you'll have a good chance of getting to adopt the boys from what your posts have sounded like.
We hope so, but we're also finding out how much of a pro-bioparent state our state really is. They give the bio parents YEARS and chance after chance to meet the bare minimum requirements. Even in our case where the bio parents have done almost nothing in the past year, if they were to suddenly start caring 6 months from now, then the boys could still go back to them someday.
I don't want to sound bitter, and I definitely do understand that the goal of foster care is reunifying families. If our boys' bio parents were making an effort, we would be supporting reunification 100%. But there is no effort whatsoever from them, and the state will still keep the goal of reunification for probably at least 2 years. We were never told in our training just how long and drawn out the process would be.
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