I have a diapering question: little guy has frequent poop explosions, with poop going out the legs (not up the back, only leaking from the sides). Does that mean the diaper is too big or small? He weighs 8lbs7oz and we've been using NB diapers.
I would size up. I feel like most NB sizes only go up to 8lbs anyway so it may be time for you to move up, but it could also just be his body shape and a different brand may fit better. We use pampers because huggies seemed short(?) on him and squeezed his bits. LO pooped out the legholes when he was in size NB and 1, but not since we have been in 2s.
And remember to always flip the gussets out. I would forget sometimes and that also led to leaks.
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Flip the gussets out! I definitely have not done that... I'll have to give it a try. Seems like trial and error - the box says up to 10lbs so I thought we were good. He had such skinny little legs!
How much/long does your LO's nap during the day? I have a hard time getting DS to sleep during the day, and if he does fall asleep it's usually only for a short time like 10 maybe 20 min if I'm lucky.
The only way he will sleep longer is in the stroller if we go for a walk, but I have to keep walking. Or in the wrap or Ergo but we both get so sweaty it's hard to do for a long time.
I feel like he doesn't sleep enough and is overtired a lot. But maybe babies don't sleep more than this..?
My DD2 did not nap well, DD3 has done better but looks headed toward chronic short napping.
Do you swaddle? Use white noise? Nap in a dark room? All that can help.
Post by annbuhdan on Sept 18, 2016 11:47:09 GMT -5
So there is a man who owns a restaurant nearby and he speeds down our street in his SUV everyday. Today he almost hit a neighbor kid, so H called the police. They want H to meet them at the restaurant and talk to this guy. H loves all this police drama and being the nosey neighbor and such, but I am like 😳.
Post by penny2103 on Sept 18, 2016 11:56:27 GMT -5
So tired. LO didn't sleep until 1am last night and then the toddler woke up at 2:30. Then we went to breakfast and DS yelled "tractor" when a man was going by in a wheelchair. So.
EllieT I forget how old your LO is. But DD was a terrible napper. Once she consolidated naps (around 8-10 weeks) she only slept for 20 minutes unless in car. She then went to bed at 6:30. I have no solution bc she only became a better napper at 18 months and only bc of daycare. Even as a newborn she was an alert baby.
Post by bocaburger on Sept 18, 2016 13:16:03 GMT -5
Is there such thing as too much baby wearing? They love the carriers and it's the only thing guaranteed to calm them when they are really screaming. Is there any reason to limit their time in carriers?
Is there such thing as too much baby wearing? They love the carriers and it's the only thing guaranteed to calm them when they are really screaming. Is there any reason to limit their time in carriers?
I have never read of too much. I mean, floor time is good if they'll do it, but carrier time has many of the same benefits.
So tired. LO didn't sleep until 1am last night and then the toddler woke up at 2:30. Then we went to breakfast and DS yelled "tractor" when a man was going by in a wheelchair. So.
That is amazing and SO something my DS would say. #facepalm
Is there such thing as too much baby wearing? They love the carriers and it's the only thing guaranteed to calm them when they are really screaming. Is there any reason to limit their time in carriers?
I might try to go to a BWI meeting just to be sure you are wearing them correctly ( or even just watch some YouTube videos) but no, I don't think there is such thing as too much DS2 spent a whooooooole lot of time in the Boba and is very strong and healthy
Is there such thing as too much baby wearing? They love the carriers and it's the only thing guaranteed to calm them when they are really screaming. Is there any reason to limit their time in carriers?
As long as everyone is happy, there can never be too much! Plus it builds core strength. What kind of carriers are you using?
I use a Boba and H uses the Twingo (SSC) with an infant insert. I also have a ring sling and two pouch slings but I haven't tried them out yet.
Post by spicysalmonroll on Sept 18, 2016 16:58:40 GMT -5
shanny my H can be like that too. We argued the other night because he was like it's been 2 minutes don't go in there til 20! I was like no actually it's been 8 and I'm going in! I put the pacifier in his mouth without even picking him up and he was asleep instantly.i was like see, you wanted to let him scream for 15 more minutes when that took 5 seconds to resolve?!
Rama how old is LEDs baby? That is so scary, I would not know how to do it
bocaburger I don't think wearing should be an issue as long as their legs aren't dangling. Legs should make a stretched out M shape.
gratefulgirl he does that too! He was "asleep" but screaming and grunting from 4-6am with gas pains. I feel so bad.
Post by frodabaggins on Sept 18, 2016 16:59:59 GMT -5
Both kids were just screaming their heads off at the same time, and I'm amazed at how stressed it makes my H feel. I mean, it's not fun, but all you can try to do is just get through it with humor and patience. He shuts down and gives up. We've been fighting so much lately I just don't even have the willpower to talk about it.
frodabaggins Having multiple kids with one being a newborn is not easy, especially for dads, it seems (anecdotally). I have been getting frustrated a lot too with H.
Post by lennonkdc on Sept 18, 2016 17:14:56 GMT -5
So tired today. 3 weeks of broken up sleep and too many visitors/events/activities have finally taken their toll. All I wanted today was to nap, and DH was gonna take DD and watch her while I got some much needed sleep. But then one of our friends stopped by and would.not.leave. (and this guy has two kids! He should know better) so no nap for me...we have a busy week starting tomorrow with taking the car to the shop for repairs, DD first Indians game Tuesday night. I told DH that next weekend is a 'family weekend' no visitors, no parents, no scheduled activities. Just the 3 of us being lazy bums lol
I need to do some reading on napping. My guy naps between each feeding, pretty much. It seems like a lot!
I'm in the same boat! I'm just starting to track his sleep/wake times to try to discern some sort of pattern, but it seems like he's still sleeping all the time.
Rama how old is LEDs baby? That is so scary, I would not know how to do it
She's 4 months exactly today. :)
bocaburger I've never heard of there being such thing as too much babywearing, either. Maybe ask your local BWI or a Facebook group, if you're really worried?
Both kids were just screaming their heads off at the same time, and I'm amazed at how stressed it makes my H feel. I mean, it's not fun, but all you can try to do is just get through it with humor and patience. He shuts down and gives up. We've been fighting so much lately I just don't even have the willpower to talk about it.
Just hugs, same situation here! It has been so hard, but H is finally getting better and has been so much more helpful lately.
Post by annbuhdan on Sept 18, 2016 18:31:09 GMT -5
H is rocking DD1 before bedtime since I had to leave her and handle a baby meltdown. He is singing her Kokomo, which she has never heard before. Every time he gets to the end of the song she says "Again!!" So, she's not getting drowsy but it's super cute! Plus it gives me nice music to enjoy as I walk the baby.
gratefulgirl he does that too! He was "asleep" but screaming and grunting from 4-6am with gas pains. I feel so bad.
I am having a rougher than usual time because MIL is here. She is so sweet but clearly disapproves of my using "the pause" and waiting 3 or so minutes to see if DD3 will settle when she cries out. I feel more tense trying to evaluate how to respond to each cry when I can see her stopping herself from responding.
But at least she stops herself and respects my choices even if she disagrees. It's not too bad.
4 a.m. to 6 a.m. are hard hours in baby sleep land. Hope they find your house snoozing peacefully tonight!
Today has been such a rollercoaster. I am so tired and stressed with a newborn who is in pain from surgery recovery, an energetic toddler having trouble napping, and on little sleep from having to pump AND bottle feed.
Then, I went to the grocery store to get something and a guy stopped me, said, "Excuse me. Can I have your number?" I told him, "Sorry, I'm married and have two kids." I drove home and the JT song, "Can't Stop the Feeling" came on. I was starting to feel good.
When I got home, I was greeted with the news that M had smeared poo all over herself, her stuffed animals, and on the wall. What a day.
Post by coffeequeen14 on Sept 18, 2016 20:19:15 GMT -5
I had a very weird dinner.
We took advantage of kids eat free at chipotle today. There was a family there with their two kids. The 18 month old was wearing nothing but a diaper. I thought this was kinda odd but hey kid coulda puked or something on his clothes so I get it that perhaps thy just didn't have clothes for him. I know i rarely carry around spare clothes for my big kids now. But then i saw the family's feet. The dad and son were barefoot. Inside the restaurant. Weird.
I should add I currently live in a suburb in Texas. This isn't a surf town and they very much didn't look homeless or like they couldn't afford shoes or clothes for the baby. It looked like a choice to go barefoot. A weird choice.
Both kids were just screaming their heads off at the same time, and I'm amazed at how stressed it makes my H feel. I mean, it's not fun, but all you can try to do is just get through it with humor and patience. He shuts down and gives up. We've been fighting so much lately I just don't even have the willpower to talk about it.
I'm sorry you're fighting so much.
I also find it pretty stressful when both kids are screaming. I'm getting better at handling it, but I feel like a terrible parent when I have to choose which one to comfort. And sometimes the noise makes it hard to collect my thoughts.
It's been a long weekend. Yesterday my mom watched the LOs for a few hours and we went to a wine festival then dinner. It was so nice to hang out with DH, it's been a while.
Today i drove 2 1/2 hours to Maryland alone with the kids for a work BBQ. I haven't seen my coworkers in sooooo long since we all work remotely. The kids were so good. DS slept the entire ride there and home! I fed him and pumped before we left at about noon and took bottles with me. Pumped when we got home around 9, I thought my boobs were going to explode!
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