Am I the only one having a drink?

[wannabmama]

Oct 1, 2016 18:29:59 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

I will need a cocktail soon, direct MIL quote 'What is going on with you guys in the baby department' me: nothing, MIL 'I guess that must be disappointing'

[akraus2015]

Oct 1, 2016 18:29:59 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

I will need a cocktail soon, direct MIL quote 'What is going on with you guys in the baby department' me: nothing, MIL 'I guess that must be disappointing'

WTF?!

[PepperPottsJ]

My MIL is a peach, however MH and I just discussed that he is to tell her to never ever speak of this again. Who knows if he will, but if she comments again I'll flame him relentlessly

[PepperPottsJ]

Oct 1, 2016 19:06:26 GMT -5 ****** said:

Oct 1, 2016 19:05:04 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

My MIL is a peach, however MH and I just discussed that he is to tell her to never ever speak of this again. Who knows if he will, but if she comments again I'll flame him relentlessly

maybe you should cry hysterically next time so she feels like an ass.

This is the same woman who tells me my job and travel are why I'm not KU. I do not think she knows about my loss, I refuse to give her that satisfaction of crying? Captain maturity over here

ETA - I love where your head is though!!

[cjchio]

Oct 1, 2016 18:48:35 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

Hugs cjchio!!

I'm actually kind of ok with CD 1 coming. It means we can start my share of the fertility testing.

Eta: the headache can go to hell though.

[Deleted]

Oct 1, 2016 18:47:52 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

Rage rage rage. T-90 mins to more booze

Drink all the booze. You deserve it. 

[akraus2015]

Oct 1, 2016 19:07:41 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

Oct 1, 2016 19:06:26 GMT -5 ****** said:

maybe you should cry hysterically next time so she feels like an ass.

This is the same woman who tells me my job and travel are why I'm not KU. I do not think she knows about my loss, I refuse to give her that satisfaction of crying? Captain maturity over here

ETA - I love where your head is though!!

Funny how people have such insight on our reproductive systems. My mom called me last night to have a "talk" about how I was ruining my marriage by trying too hard to get pregnant again, and that I "need to be done with this IUI nonsense for awhile" and focus on being a good wife. Uhh...thanks mom?

[PepperPottsJ]

Oct 1, 2016 19:46:47 GMT -5 akraus2015 said:

Oct 1, 2016 19:07:41 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

This is the same woman who tells me my job and travel are why I'm not KU. I do not think she knows about my loss, I refuse to give her that satisfaction of crying? Captain maturity over here

ETA - I love where your head is though!!

Funny how people have such insight on our reproductive systems. My mom called me last night to have a "talk" about how I was ruining my marriage by trying too hard to get pregnant again, and that I "need to be done with this IUI nonsense for awhile" and focus on being a good wife. Uhh...thanks mom?

Hugs and cheers akraus2015. People need to shut the fuck up xoxo

[akraus2015]

Oct 1, 2016 19:49:38 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

Oct 1, 2016 19:46:47 GMT -5 akraus2015 said:

Funny how people have such insight on our reproductive systems. My mom called me last night to have a "talk" about how I was ruining my marriage by trying too hard to get pregnant again, and that I "need to be done with this IUI nonsense for awhile" and focus on being a good wife. Uhh...thanks mom?

Hugs and cheers akraus2015. People need to shut the fuck up xoxo

Yes, cheers! I'm having wine. You??

[PepperPottsJ]

Oct 1, 2016 19:52:46 GMT -5 akraus2015 said:

Oct 1, 2016 19:49:38 GMT -5 PepperPottsJ said:

Hugs and cheers akraus2015. People need to shut the fuck up xoxo

Yes, cheers! I'm having wine. You??

Just poured my glass!!

[akraus2015]

Oct 1, 2016 19:51:53 GMT -5 ****** said:

Oct 1, 2016 19:46:47 GMT -5 akraus2015 said:

Funny how people have such insight on our reproductive systems. My mom called me last night to have a "talk" about how I was ruining my marriage by trying too hard to get pregnant again, and that I "need to be done with this IUI nonsense for awhile" and focus on being a good wife. Uhh...thanks mom?

oh my gosh! No. Not ok! And I thought my mom was bad for telling me to "get over" my feelings about OPPs. And how I'm not gonna have any friends if I keep pushing away from pregnant people.

Hugs!! You do what YOU want in regards to TTC! Other people's opinions do not matter. It's a decision to make with YH not anyone else!!

I never know what to say in response to stuff like that. I think I said "thanks for your concern mom, I appreciate that you want the best for us".

[saltandvinegar]

It's my birthday and CD 1. I'm drinking all the drinks Tonight.

[akraus2015]

Oct 1, 2016 20:02:32 GMT -5 ****** said:

Oct 1, 2016 19:54:03 GMT -5 akraus2015 said:

I never know what to say in response to stuff like that. I think I said "thanks for your concern mom, I appreciate that you want the best for us".

much classier and mature than my responses. Unfortunately, anger and hatefulness is my defense mechanism, which is never good when dealing with family.

*Pouf*

Jist- don't fight battles you can't win.

[bex15]

I'm having vodka and OJ!

[MrsRC88]

I'm drinking wine. Straight out of the bottle. Because I'm classy like that

[MrsRC88]

Oct 1, 2016 20:00:54 GMT -5 saltandvinegar said:

It's my birthday and CD 1. I'm drinking all the drinks Tonight.

 Happy birthday!  Enjoy all the drinks!  Sorry for CD1 .  This was the first year in recent memory CD1 actually didn't fall on my birthday. So I know how much it sucks...