Post by pinkie on Oct 27, 2016 8:40:14 GMT -5
I'm at my wits end with Z and his sleep problems. Something has to change and I hope to get some honest feedback on how to do this.
Backstory: he's been a super tough sleeper since birth. Skip ahead to age 2 - we did full blown CIO and after 3 horrible nights he started going to sleep on his own and would sleep all night.
2 months before turning 3 everything suddenly changed. He was waking up screaming and after a few months of hell we decided to convert his crib to a bed. He has one or two good nights and then started waking up the whole house screaming and running around upstairs in the middle of the night. After a few weeks of this I broke and put a crib mattress on our floor and he's been sleeping there ever since.
The past 3 nights he has been screaming and crying that he doesn't want to go to sleep himself. By some miracle our little guy hasn't been waking up but we can't have him screaming continuously - at some point he will wake the little guy.
He was up till 11 last night. We have to reset things but I just don't know how to do this.
I am thinkihg of making him go back to his bed and one of us sits in the hall until he falls asleep. I just don't know what to do if he won't stay in his room. If we put up a gate he would take it down. We could lock him in but he totally flips out and will throw himself against the door and kick it. I'm actually worried he would hurt himself and/or break the door.
I feel like I need a firm plan because he will test it. he is very very strong willed.
Basically HELP
And please recommend your favorite wine to drink during all this
Backstory: he's been a super tough sleeper since birth. Skip ahead to age 2 - we did full blown CIO and after 3 horrible nights he started going to sleep on his own and would sleep all night.
2 months before turning 3 everything suddenly changed. He was waking up screaming and after a few months of hell we decided to convert his crib to a bed. He has one or two good nights and then started waking up the whole house screaming and running around upstairs in the middle of the night. After a few weeks of this I broke and put a crib mattress on our floor and he's been sleeping there ever since.
The past 3 nights he has been screaming and crying that he doesn't want to go to sleep himself. By some miracle our little guy hasn't been waking up but we can't have him screaming continuously - at some point he will wake the little guy.
He was up till 11 last night. We have to reset things but I just don't know how to do this.
I am thinkihg of making him go back to his bed and one of us sits in the hall until he falls asleep. I just don't know what to do if he won't stay in his room. If we put up a gate he would take it down. We could lock him in but he totally flips out and will throw himself against the door and kick it. I'm actually worried he would hurt himself and/or break the door.
I feel like I need a firm plan because he will test it. he is very very strong willed.
Basically HELP
And please recommend your favorite wine to drink during all this