My RE's PA just called me back (at 630pm so I'm impressed) she said she's 100% not concerned at all and all my levels are normal since I didn't ovulate for 5 more days she's not concerned with the lining and thinks it grew especially with the ovidrel. And the calcification she thinks is just an incidental finding since none of my other ultrasounds show that.
Ugh just got off a call with my RE. She discussed my case at the panel she was at yesterday. They are recommending that I do NOT do a transfer without surgery. She even mentioned a more invasive surgery (with 4-6 week recovery time) and then waiting 6 months after that to do a transfer.
I am just so upset at the very differing opinions. The doctor I saw the other day said she did not see an issue with us getting pregnant. I got my hopes up and now this. I am going to be left to make this huge decision with conflicting opinions. She also told me the estimate for gestational carrier is $50-80K. Which is pretty much double what we thought it would be. I don't think that is a realistic option...
We still need to hear from the doc in NYC and I don't even know what I want him to say.
MrsRC-33, MrRC-37. TTC#1 since 2/13. DX: T2 diet controlled diabetic, removed multiple fibroids blocking tubes, via robotic myomectomy, hysteroscopy and D&C on 5/15. CD3 b/w normal. HSG normal after surgery. On the bench April-June 2015. NTNP indefinitely. Loss mentioned.
jense927, Ugh. Conflicting information just sucks. Is it ultimately up to you to make the decision, or will your RE not do the transfer except under his/her terms? I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I hope the NYC doc gives a clearer picture and helps break the tie.
Hugs to all who need them and FX for everyone who is awaiting betas or in the TWW!
According to FF I'm 3dpo in medicated cycle 6. At this point I don't even bother thinking about testing - I'm already on to plans for next cycle. Which is probably just Femara +TI again. I am taking some new supplements, so maybe those will pay off in the next few months.
jense927 , Ugh. Conflicting information just sucks. Is it ultimately up to you to make the decision, or will your RE not do the transfer except under his/her terms? I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I hope the NYC doc gives a clearer picture and helps break the tie.
Initially yes she was going to leave it up to me but after meeting with the panel yesterday she made it clear that she was not going to do the transfer without the surgery. She did say that if I was still not wanting to do the surgery that she would have to refer me to another doctor or specialist. :/
jense927 , Ugh. Conflicting information just sucks. Is it ultimately up to you to make the decision, or will your RE not do the transfer except under his/her terms? I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I hope the NYC doc gives a clearer picture and helps break the tie.
Initially yes she was going to leave it up to me but after meeting with the panel yesterday she made it clear that she was not going to do the transfer without the surgery. She did say that if I was still not wanting to do the surgery that she would have to refer me to another doctor or specialist. :/
jense927 , Ugh. Conflicting information just sucks. Is it ultimately up to you to make the decision, or will your RE not do the transfer except under his/her terms? I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I hope the NYC doc gives a clearer picture and helps break the tie.
Initially yes she was going to leave it up to me but after meeting with the panel yesterday she made it clear that she was not going to do the transfer without the surgery. She did say that if I was still not wanting to do the surgery that she would have to refer me to another doctor or specialist. :/
So many hugs. I'm sorry that they're leaving you with an impossible decision.
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13DPO here. Still no sign of CD1. My luteal phase averages 11 days, ranging from 9 to 12 (once out of ten cycles). So yeah, color me confused. And of course this is the one cycle where I WANT an 11 day LP. Ugg.
Given all that, I POAS this morning (wondfo) so I could drink today without any reservations. BFFN. Not even an evap line after I left it out for 3 hours.
So now half my brain is debating whether or not I could get a positive after a negative, while the other half is going "well duh, you're never going to get pregnant".
Met in May 2011 Engaged November 2011 Married November 2013 Started TTC November 2015 Began Infertility Workup November 2016 BFP! Lucky #13 Cycle TTC Due Date: 9/5/2017
Met in May 2011 Engaged November 2011 Married November 2013 Started TTC November 2015 Began Infertility Workup November 2016 BFP! Lucky #13 Cycle TTC Due Date: 9/5/2017
Met in May 2011 Engaged November 2011 Married November 2013 Started TTC November 2015 Began Infertility Workup November 2016 BFP! Lucky #13 Cycle TTC Due Date: 9/5/2017
Met in May 2011 Engaged November 2011 Married November 2013 Started TTC November 2015 Began Infertility Workup November 2016 BFP! Lucky #13 Cycle TTC Due Date: 9/5/2017
RajahMD ugh, I hope the timing works! I was dealing with timing bc of tgiving and luckily CD1 started yesterday (and not the day before, which would've meant early morning u/s yesterday) but my doc doesn't count it as next day CD1 until 6pm so I was so stressed all day wondering!
I just went in for my u/s amd bloodwork for IVF #3. Hopefully we start stims today!
QOTW: I've spent holidays so many different places I actually don't know what would count as my tradition, ha! I've probably spent tgiving with 15 different families and Christmas with 4 or 5. One year I was totally alone for Christmas, I had a great day actually...went for a walk on the beach (lived in San Diego) and then watched Christmas movies and drank prosecco and then went to a movie and got takeout, I flew home the next day and did a "real" Christmas but that day was fun in a weird way too.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Met in May 2011 Engaged November 2011 Married November 2013 Started TTC November 2015 Began Infertility Workup November 2016 BFP! Lucky #13 Cycle TTC Due Date: 9/5/2017
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
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