MrsRC88 I am heartbroken for you. Please take care of yourself and I hope you find strength to help you through
Thanks.... Vodka and prayer are helping right now (weird combo, I know). I was kind of numb after talking to the Dr... I expected to hear my numbers dropped, but still had some sliver of hope. I didn't fall apart until I got a text back from my pastors wife. Once I picked myself up, I went straight to the liquor store. DH is ready to start trying again as soon as we get the "ok". I just fear it'll never happen again. Ugh. Sorry for venting.
MrsRC-33, MrRC-37. TTC#1 since 2/13. DX: T2 diet controlled diabetic, removed multiple fibroids blocking tubes, via robotic myomectomy, hysteroscopy and D&C on 5/15. CD3 b/w normal. HSG normal after surgery. On the bench April-June 2015. NTNP indefinitely. Loss mentioned.
MrsRC88 vodka sounds appropriate for sure. I know you have had such a long road. I know YH does not want to pursue testing and it is such a personal decision for both of you, but I hope he will be more willing after this. I hope to see you on PAIF very soon. PM me if you ever want to talk. ((Hugs))
Post by eroticantibiotic on Dec 10, 2016 13:27:40 GMT -5
MrsRC88, I know what it's like to finally get a BFP after years of waiting, only to have a loss. It's indescribably awful, so I hope you are being gentle with yourself and indulging in anything you want right now.
When you are feeling better, the important takeaway to this is that IT IS POSSIBLE! No matter what the underlying issue may be, it is still possible for you and your H to get to the finish line. You just need to keep going and find the answer.
I think I have to cut coffee out. I was drinking decaf but I love the taste. But now, it's giving me heartburn and minor nausea from the heartburn. I guess I need to find another hot beverage to drink
Welp, nausea has hit pretty hard. I woke up at 2am last night and couldn't go back to sleep for over an hour. It's pretty bad right now and I'm hoping I don't actually vomit because I didn't want to tell my coworkers this early
Add me to the nausea list. My DD pregnancy was horrible with nausea so I guess this isn't a complete shock I just hope it doesn't turn out to be as bad as it was with her.
Clearly I had it easy with DS. I had NO nausea last time so I am still in shock that you can actually feel this bad. I wish I could turn my nose off, all the smells are just killling me
With DS I had pretty bad morning sickness (well, actually it was all day sickness) that started closer to 8 weeks, so I wouldn't be surprised if this nausea gets worse.
@razzy Yeah, nausea sucks. I remember it well and hope it doesn't last 19 weeks again. I hope you start feeling better soon! Sucking on hard candies is about the only thing besides Zofran that helped.
@razzy Yeah, nausea sucks. I remember it well and hope it doesn't last 19 weeks again. I hope you start feeling better soon! Sucking on hard candies is about the only thing besides Zofran that helped.
Yeah I've found I feel best after I eat so I'm continuously munching on something. I also put a call into my Drs office for zofran but haven't heard back yet. I heavily relied on it during my first pregnancy
Is anyone else dealing with hemorrhoids already? I haven't really had issues with constipation, so don't really get where they come from but I have developed some real painful hemorrhoids I have a special cream for hemorrhoids but the leaflet says not to use during pregnancy so not sure what I can do..
yoshijo28,sorry you're dealing with them too! I had some "spotting" earlier this week cause of them.. meh. Just wondering what I can do about them (apart from the fiber and lots of water intake thing). I seem to recall that wet teabags help shrink them too?? Old wifes tale maybe but hey if it works.... I may give it a try tomorrow LOL.
This is unfortunately where I leave you. I hope you all have healthy and happy pregnancies. Thanks to everyone for all of the support you've offered the last couple of weeks.
Thanks, everyone. This is my 5th pregnancy, 4th loss, so I'm kind of an old pro at this part. Working on scheduling a D&C because my doctor wants to do testing this time. I will probably intro over on TCAL at some point in the near future, but of course I do NOT want or expect to see any of you over there!! I probably won't be lurking here because it's too painful, but I wish you all smooth and happy pregnancies! I post occasionally on Parenting so maybe we'll meet again over there.
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