RandomName I'm sort of ready. Thankfully we don't have to host at all this year so I'm pretty excited about that. DS2 is great, just getting over a nasty cold. He is getting braver with his walking but I wouldn't say he is fully walking yet. DS1 is still struggling, TBH, and hoping we can figure this out soon, as it's exhausting. So far this week has been good with him, but I have to take it day to day.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
@janetheconquerer happy to hear your morning is starting off so blissfully! I hope the rest of your day goes well. How is your MIL? Will you guys be there through the holidays?
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
redandblue I first read that as DS1 is struggling to walk too and thought oh my, what happened!?!? Then I reread and it made more sense. I'm sorry you're still struggling, is he still sneaking out/not getting up in the am or is it a whole new bag of suck? Maybe with the break from school coming up you'll at least get a break from the morning struggle?
RandomName, that's funny about the mis-read! I do that so often! The issues with DS1 continue with him refusing to get up, he is not going to classes, but rather hanging out the cafeteria, and not following curfew. It's just exhausting. DH and I went to some counseling around it, and I am trying to convince DS1 he needs to go with me too, because this has effected our relationship so much. The roller coaster around it is so hard. I'm hoping the Christmas break will be good, but TBH it just makes me dread with the new year will bring. I have given some significant tough love expectations this week, so we will see what happens. Sigh. Blah, parenting is hard.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Thanks! I just had to change hom into warmer clothes so he's definitely on the mend. For the last couple days he's been burning up in just a diaper or onsies so I'm ridiculously excited about having to put him in warmer clothes.
Post by tuscanlatte on Dec 20, 2016 10:40:12 GMT -5
I finished the report! Just need to print it tomorrow and it's completely done. I have this afternoon off and a massage this morning. enjoy your starbucks and book @janetheconquerer!! You deserve some peace!
redandblue I'm really sorry that DS1 is struggling so much. That can be really hard on a relationship both with him and with your partner in dealing with it. I hope he goes to therapy with you and I hope this break is easier not harder. big hugs
Post by skinandbones on Dec 20, 2016 13:14:38 GMT -5
It's official. DS2 has weaned. DS1 didn't wean until he was 20 monthes (and I was pregnant). I'm a little sad but grateful he ended on his terms and I wasn't feeling resentful. I have purchased new bras and threw out the nursing tanks.
In other news, hell froze over. I got up an hour early and went to the gym. It. Was. Wonderful.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Post by redandblue on Dec 20, 2016 17:35:26 GMT -5
ampaints and packmomma thanks. It is hard and it seems to be my life these days. It has become such a regular stressor that I don't really talk about it much and shut down. I hope it gets better too. I have to have hope that it will.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
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