mrspiatt, holy shit..I am so sorry. I would definitely contact the police and let them know any information that could be useful in finding him. Have you been able to reach any of his friends?
Oh no layloo08 . That sucks. Hopefully you're able to find someone to watch him tomorrow and tonight isn't as hard as predicted.
I couldn't... luckily my boss is cool but it just sucks and I feel like I'm letting people down.
Oh man. Well I guess I would say that everyone will understand and you're taking care of your child which is important too. Are there any work from home options while he naps that could relieve some of the guilt?
Post by skinandbones on Jan 18, 2017 19:20:55 GMT -5
@misspiatt, I would ire on the side of caution. Do you know where he may have gone? A friend's house?
I don't know what state you are in. Is there a mental health clinic in your area that provides crisis services. They typically have 24 hour call lines.
I'm at a local police station now, but he works 80 miles from here. They are going to file a missing persons report. I called the 2 friends he may reach out to and neither of them have heard from him. One is driving oh to his work to look at the local bars to see if maybe he's just drinking
As far drugs, he's on mess for bipolar, depression, ADD and blood pressure, so there is plenty he can take. His mom killed herself when she was 39, he is currently 38 1/2
Thinking of you mrspiatt. You have my number, I'm hear if there is anything I can do across the country. Vent, cry, hear another voice. I'm here. Don't worry what time it is.
His phone is off again. I feel like I'm going to throw up. I'm waiting for the police to finish entering their report into the computer and then they're coming to my house as part of heir protocol You guys I'm so sorry scared he's going to hurt himself
mrspiatt, thinking of you. Have his friends had any luck finding him? Are the police already out looking? That last text would scare the crap out of me. Please update when you can.
mrspiatt I am so sorry for the overwhelming feelings you must be feeling. I can only imagine the panic you're feeling. I hope that he doesn't do anything and comes home safely. You will continue to be in my thoughts.
Now I'm sitting here- Allison is hungry and screaming and I can't go home until they're done entering their report and my anxiety is so freaking high the room is spinning.
mrspiatt Hoping and praying that everything is okay with your husband. Can the police track his phone or can you? Have you shown them his texts? Does he have access to guns? I hope everything is okay. Take some deep breaths and see if you can calm Allison, since that will help both of you. Is there a vending machine where you can buy a snack for her? Maybe the officers have some snacks you could give her?
Post by tuscanlatte on Jan 18, 2017 22:56:55 GMT -5
mrspiatt I am so so sorry you are going through this. I hope they find him safe asap. If there is not vending machines are there pop machines? It might calm her enough if that's your only option to let you think straight.
Again I'm so sorry. I am hoping and praying for you. I wish we could be there to help.
They let me leave so I could get her home. Yay. She's eating blueberries, string cheese and a Nutri grain bar. I feel so lost, I want to sleep, I'm so exhausted. I hate this. I want my husband home. Even if it means us getting a divorce. I want him to be okay
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