Monday chat

[tallblonde]

@sarahwithahn oh no. Gosh that's so scary. I'm sorry that today took such a turn. Hoping he continues to improve and I hope you can get some rest.

[dashook]

@sarahwithanh I'm so sorry to read that update. Thinking of you guys tonight and I hope M has a nice easy night.

[cheshie6]

danib, I get to talk with him most every day for 30 minutes and he's on fb messenger daily! I have been keeping him up to date but still just in how he handles L is like week 1!

@sarahwithanh, I'm sorry that you're going through this, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

[cheshie6]

Jan 23, 2017 23:20:34 GMT -5 waitwhat said:

Jan 23, 2017 23:15:18 GMT -5 vinolove said:

I missed the last 15 minutes because..babies. Did they do a rose ceremony or not? They seem to be doing them the beginning of episodes lately.

no they didn't and I hate it. By the time next week rolls around I forget what even happened in the last episode.

I watch the bachelor! You can catch up on line but I think they are treating Corrine the same way they did Chad with a 2 on 1 date! Two women enter one woman leaves! lol obviously add me to Bachelor nation.

[cheshie6]

vinolove, thanks for that! I just feel like I found a groove with my mom and now I have no groove. I feel like my mom instinctively did stuff, and I have to ask him to do those same things. For example, if L poops during breastfeeding, my mom would take home while I prepare to switch boobs, DH looks at me and then asks if I want him to change the diaper. He also seems to get easily flustered when L is crying! Then he hands him to me which defeats the purpose of my giving him to DH!?! Purpose, a break and so he can bond with his son!

I'm sure DH feels out of sorts and that makes me feel bad for him and for being easily agitated!

Also, add me to the look at me like you used to club! I feel like he avoids it! It definitely doesn't help my self esteem! And I'm an emotional eater and tonight he made me sugar cookies (thanks Bachelor) but he made 10... I thought some were for him (why make 10!?!) but they weren't and though I brought them all over he seemed snotty in saying I didn't have to eat them all. Yeah I know but way to make me feel like a fat slob for bringing over cookies to share! Also, how did I not know DH doesn't even like sugar cookies!?! We did Christmas the Sunday and the clothes he bought me are all too small!?! They are cute and I'm not sure if he thought I would melt weight off or if he thinks I'm smaller than I am. I just know I'm hurt and feeling fat and ugly and he's never made me feel this way before!

Sorry for the multiple posts, night seems to still be the best time for me to catch up and get everything out!

[goldenlove3]

@sarahwithanh I can't even begin to imagine how hard that must have been to go through. I hope Monty is doing better today and resting. *Hug*

[hangry]

@sarahwithanh I'm sorry to hear recovery isn't going as hoped. What a terrifying code to experience. Thank you for updating us so we can all gives extra T&P to Monty as e recovers.

waitwhat are you married to my H? I keep thinking year after year that he'll mature and know when to apologize. I think I should adjust my expectations and just accept this annoying tendency.

[dashook]

cheshie6, oh honey that is awful, I'm sorry he made you feel that way! Big hugs, lady. The PP period is so difficult but no one ever really talks about it. It's such a sudden and quick transition from being pregnant to being a mother but it takes our bodies more time than we sometimes realize to adjust. I hope YH figures his shit out quickly and becomes both helpful with L and more supportive of and sensitive to you.

[buckyb]

@sarahwithanh - I'm so sorry to hear about Monty's day yesterday. I can't imagine how terrifying that was for you and your H. I'm glad his pain is getting under control. How is he doing today?