Post by lgsdesigner on Feb 16, 2015 8:44:26 GMT -5
My sister is pissing me off. Yesterday was my dad's birthday, and 5 weeks ago I arranged a special birthday dinner for him at a nice place that is central to where everyone lives (the max drive for anyone is a half hour). Dinner was at 5, and at 4:24p I get a text saying she is putting her DD down for a nap so she will be late. I then get a call from dad saying my sister called him bitching about the location being "too far away" (it's 20 min from her), and she can't make it. She then text me and says I am shitty for booking a place SO FAR away and especially since Dad wanted to eat somewhere downtown. Um...listen: I created this event on FB 5 weeks ago, and you were the FIRST to RSVP. If you thought the location was too far, you should have spoken up. Also-- don't you dare bitch at me when I am the one that has to plan things all the time. No one else chips in, no one helps, no one does anything for anyone but me.
You are SELFISH. It isn't about you...it's about our father. STFU, and show some respect.
Post by sunshyneshay on Feb 16, 2015 8:50:08 GMT -5
I am so sick of taking care of crazy ex neighbor lady. She gets paid on Friday the 27th this month because the 1st falls on Sunday. So of course she wants me to come two times in one week to take her to the bank. Uh no, not happening.
This happened last month as well and I had DH take her to get her money and she asked him to take her to do a bunch of stuff, making him use a half of tank of gas (one tank will get him back and forth to work all week). Then the following Monday she made me take her back to the bank. Like wtf that was the whole point of my husband taking you on Friday?! She then proceeded to lecture me on how I need to save some of my paycheck for gas because I was bitching I was on E, sweetheart I would have had plenty of gas if you didn't make DH use a half a tank on Friday and I had to give up my gas money so he had enough to get to work all week.
So this month I told her I have to take my mom to an appointment on the 27th so I can't come until my normal Monday. She tried to guilt trip me by saying she will be without her meds for 4 days if I wait until Monday. How is it my fault that you didn't budget your money knowing you would run out before you got paid? Quit spending all your money on weed and there won't be an issue.
Oh and speaking of weed, my mom has her med card so ex neighbor lady keeps asking me to have my mom hook her up for free because my mom did once or twice being nice. It's one thing if she offers it but another for you to ask for it. No.
I miss breathing. When my entire class was coughing last week, I knew it was only a matter of time before I caught something. But it still sucks. I'm not looking forward to my flight back home tomorrow. Being congested and flying is some form of torture.
Post by Starbuck128 on Feb 16, 2015 9:00:52 GMT -5
It is not physically possible for me to cough any more than I am. I bought some cough medicine, which is a PITA to find because cough medicine is usually paired with not pregnancy safe medicine, and Halls cough drops. They doing nothing!
We finally got the blizzard that DH was pining for, and not only is he out of town but it might prevent him from coming home today. More a sad-fest really. I'm needy.
Post by brittneysandra on Feb 16, 2015 9:04:19 GMT -5
So So So So SICK OF THE SNOW! Theres a snow storm here in Mass every 2 days. When I say snowstorm I mean blizzard that dumps atleast a foot of snow each time.
Post by SassyPants150 on Feb 16, 2015 9:05:13 GMT -5
DD has to use the upstairs bathroom while DH has our downstairs floors torn up to get ready for hardwoods. She will go upstairs and start messing with things. I knew she had been up there too long to poop and she said the commode seat was dirty. Thinking she had pooped on it I run up to see she had gotten some organic lotion and put it all over the seat. It was an "accident". It's too early for this kind of shenanigans.
Post by nurserachel22 on Feb 16, 2015 9:09:33 GMT -5
I can't go into detail, but I am bitching about my job. I wish people were more respectful. Can I just quit? Oh wait, nope got an expensive kid on the way! Lol. Maybe if I can be extremely frugal I can slide by.
So So So So SICK OF THE SNOW! Theres a snow storm here in Mass every 2 days. When I say snowstorm I mean blizzard that dumps atleast a foot of snow each time.
brittneysandra, It is awful, I hate it, we are in NH and the snow is at least 6 feet high in our front yard. At this rate I feel like I will be looking at it till June.
My co-worker just annoyed that crap out of me and I had to call him ignorant. Apparently some young kids stormed a movie theater to go see 50 shades of Grey and some people got injured. There were no arrests and I was like well kids will be kids. He says that its the parents fault because they had no control of their kids. I responded that the parents probably were not aware and didn't know that their kids would do this. He says well they don't raise them with the correct morals. This made me angry because I'm sure that there are parents that teach their kids right from wrong and their kids choose to do wrong anyways. He says that he has three good kids and he takes credit for that because he raised them that way. UGHH Ignorant asshole!
Post by veganontuesdays on Feb 16, 2015 9:32:33 GMT -5
My belly must have "popped" even more this week because THIS all happened:
Boss: "Wow... uhh... That baby is getting REALLY big. He's probably going to be over 10 lbs." O.o wtf? Cousin: (At dinner) "Oh no, they are seating us at a booth. Can you fit?" Cousin's friend: (At the same dinner and APPARENTLY DEAF) "Oh man. We are at a booth. Can you fit?" Mom: (Parked in the garage) "Did I pull too close to that side of the garage? Will you be able to fit through?"
I WILL KILL YOU PEOPLE. And I am banning the word "FIT" from any sentence involving me.
I was bitching in another thread about having to get out of bed when it's -6. That sucks. But then our power went out, which sucked even worse. My DD says "that's okay, Mama. You figure out how to fix it." I wish I could! So getting myself and a toddler ready in the dark and freezing cold was a shit start to the work week. I'm ready for Friday.
My co-worker just annoyed that crap out of me and I had to call him ignorant. Apparently some young kids stormed a movie theater to go see 50 shades of Grey and some people got injured. There were no arrests and I was like well kids will be kids. He says that its the parents fault because they had no control of their kids. I responded that the parents probably were not aware and didn't know that their kids would do this. He says well they don't raise them with the correct morals. This made me angry because I'm sure that there are parents that teach their kids right from wrong and their kids choose to do wrong anyways. He says that he has three good kids and he takes credit for that because he raised them that way. UGHH Ignorant asshole!
Sorry rant over.
I work with a physician who has a brother that has been in and out of jail many times. This brother was taught the same morals as the one that turned out to be a doctor!
brittneysandra I'm originally from Mass and my parents still live there! After Saturday's storm my 69 year old Dad spent all day on the roof trying to get the snow off...enough is enough for you guys!! Summer better be awesome this year!
My co-worker just annoyed that crap out of me and I had to call him ignorant. Apparently some young kids stormed a movie theater to go see 50 shades of Grey and some people got injured. There were no arrests and I was like well kids will be kids. He says that its the parents fault because they had no control of their kids. I responded that the parents probably were not aware and didn't know that their kids would do this. He says well they don't raise them with the correct morals. This made me angry because I'm sure that there are parents that teach their kids right from wrong and their kids choose to do wrong anyways. He says that he has three good kids and he takes credit for that because he raised them that way. UGHH Ignorant asshole!
Sorry rant over.
I work with a physician who has a brother that has been in and out of jail many times. This brother was taught the same morals as the one that turned out to be a doctor!
Exactly! It makes me so mad because they way he was like "it's the parents fault because I raised mine this way and that way and they are all great and I take pride in that". I almost lost it!
Post by JustinBobby on Feb 16, 2015 9:50:36 GMT -5
We have ice damming buildup on our roof, woke up this morning to one of our skylights in the kitchen leaking!! It is so frustrating and there is nothing I can do in this weather. DH has no idea where the water is coming from since it's -4 outside. Maybe a burst pipe, maybe the ice buildup? Fuck Mondays!
We have ice damming buildup on our roof, woke up this morning to one of our skylights in the kitchen leaking!! It is so frustrating and there is nothing I can do in this weather. DH has no idea where the water is coming from since it's -4 outside. Maybe a burst pipe, maybe the ice buildup? Fuck Mondays!
My parents had this happen and we put salt in pantyhose and put it on the huge ice chunk, draping it over the gutter and it worked beautifully. I am sorry that this is happening to you!
We have ice damming buildup on our roof, woke up this morning to one of our skylights in the kitchen leaking!! It is so frustrating and there is nothing I can do in this weather. DH has no idea where the water is coming from since it's -4 outside. Maybe a burst pipe, maybe the ice buildup? Fuck Mondays!
My parents had this happen and we put salt in pantyhose and put it on the huge ice chunk, draping it over the gutter and it worked beautifully. I am sorry that this is happening to you!
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Funny you mention that trick, my parents told me to do the same thing! I may have to try it.
brittneysandra I'm originally from Mass and my parents still live there! After Saturday's storm my 69 year old Dad spent all day on the roof trying to get the snow off...enough is enough for you guys!! Summer better be awesome this year!
Omg! Tell your dad to be careful! The emergency rooms are full of people falling off their roofs trying to clear snow off! But We have no choice because otherwise our roofs are going to cave in! Its like a no win! I just can't even deal anymore.
My co-worker just annoyed that crap out of me and I had to call him ignorant. Apparently some young kids stormed a movie theater to go see 50 shades of Grey and some people got injured. There were no arrests and I was like well kids will be kids. He says that its the parents fault because they had no control of their kids. I responded that the parents probably were not aware and didn't know that their kids would do this. He says well they don't raise them with the correct morals. This made me angry because I'm sure that there are parents that teach their kids right from wrong and their kids choose to do wrong anyways. He says that he has three good kids and he takes credit for that because he raised them that way. UGHH Ignorant asshole!
Sorry rant over.
Uggggghhhh. I'm mad just hearing this! This sounds like something my dad would say. He once got all judgy on parents whose kids had depression because "none of his kids did." I desperately tried to get him to see what a dumb statement that was while my secretly depressed sister sat silent.
Post by babydsmama on Feb 16, 2015 10:09:37 GMT -5
brittneysandra I told him to hire someone! He is just stubborn! He's also so worried about their roof caving in that his excuse is "well if I fall the snow banks will be there to catch me." Hope winter ends soon up there!
brittneysandra I told him to hire someone! He is just stubborn! He's also so worried about their roof caving in that his excuse is "well if I fall the snow banks will be there to catch me." Hope winter ends soon up there!
Oh god! Well thanks!! I hope this snow melts before next winter! lol
Post by stargazerlily on Feb 16, 2015 10:14:13 GMT -5
My great-aunt lives in her own home with her cat 5 minutes from us. She's 93, a fiesty little old lady, and although her health is declining, she completely refuses to consider moving in with us or assisted living. She has no children, she's a widow, and we're her only family in this state. I'm having to go to her house several times a week right now, either just to keep her company for a little while or help her with little things, and it would be SO MUCH EASIER if she would just come and stay with us (we have a guest room with an attached bathroom, and she could bring her cat) even just for a little while. I'm so tired after work, and while she acknowledges this, she refuses to get any outside help, meaning I have to be the one helping her with errands, showering, etc. I keep telling her as I get closer to giving birth I'm not going to be able to do so much, and her response is just that she'll make do on her own (instead of hiring a neighbor or home health care, which she could totally afford). I know that because I also have to help her with her finances a bit - but last week she bitched me out because she said I never gave her the receipts for when I went shopping for her (she was in the hospital over Christmas, and when she was discharged she didn't leave the house for about a month). But I gave them all to her, I just have no earthly idea what she did with him - probably threw them away, she throws everything away. I love her and I want to help her, I'm just getting so tired. But I'm worried if I cut back with her, she'll overdo it with housework, end up falling and breaking a hip, and that won't lead to anything good - she has all kinds of DNRs and will refuse surgery - not that she'd be a good candidate anyway. She thinks that she's living independently because she's in her own home...but she's not. But I can't help her pretend that she is much longer.
My co-worker just annoyed that crap out of me and I had to call him ignorant. Apparently some young kids stormed a movie theater to go see 50 shades of Grey and some people got injured. There were no arrests and I was like well kids will be kids. He says that its the parents fault because they had no control of their kids. I responded that the parents probably were not aware and didn't know that their kids would do this. He says well they don't raise them with the correct morals. This made me angry because I'm sure that there are parents that teach their kids right from wrong and their kids choose to do wrong anyways. He says that he has three good kids and he takes credit for that because he raised them that way. UGHH Ignorant asshole!
Sorry rant over.
Uggggghhhh. I'm mad just hearing this! This sounds like something my dad would say. He once got all judgy on parents whose kids had depression because "none of his kids did." I desperately tried to get him to see what a dumb statement that was while my secretly depressed sister sat silent.
Oh no.. you're poor sister. I wish her all the best. That's not easy to deal with at all, especially when loved ones don't understand why you are depressed. I have a cousin that suffers from depression. No matter what my sister and I do we can't get her through some things.
My mom always tells me never to spit up so it doesn't land on my face.
Uggggghhhh. I'm mad just hearing this! This sounds like something my dad would say. He once got all judgy on parents whose kids had depression because "none of his kids did." I desperately tried to get him to see what a dumb statement that was while my secretly depressed sister sat silent.
Oh no.. you're poor sister. I wish her all the best. That's not easy to deal with at all, especially when loved ones don't understand why you are depressed. I have a cousin that suffers from depression. No matter what my sister and I do we can't get her through some things.
My mom always tells me never to spit up so it doesn't land on my face.
Actually she exploded at him then and it all came out. It was awkward but a necessary wake-up call, and she got therapy and is doing much better now!
Post by radtechgirl on Feb 16, 2015 10:40:45 GMT -5
Just saw that DH school had a fundraiser a few weekend ago to help the senior class at Applebee's featuring all you can eat pancakes. He did not tell me! I am very disappointed in him!
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