kleigh, I guess I'm similar to you! Divorce hasn't been brought up but I feel like DH wants things even and fair but sometimes things can't be! In this situation, what's even and fair for them isn't fair to you! I don't think our DHs understand that! goldenlove3, I just loled at you cleaning up before the cleaning people come! I've never had cleaning people before so I hope you don't take that negatively! I also agree with you that for me there's a different comfort level between my mom and MIL! My MIL has told me, I'm ruining her family... there's no coming back from that IMO! L only has 1 living grandpa and if it were my dad, I wouldn't be making an effort with his family as they are insanely weird and fake to me! DH agrees a lot of the time with this but fights for fairness!?! starbuck27, I'm sorry about your coverage! Am I remembering right that they picked this person last minute and even then you didn't think she was qualified? My type-A personality would be livid to the point of hyperventilating! buckyb, glad everything went well!
buckyb So happy to hear everything went well and C was resting comfortably!'
starbuck27 Your back up sounds wonderful (eye roll). This is the problem I have with ceding control of work things... I don't trust others with my work. I can't even imagine what I'll walk in to. Hopefully being P/T next week helps your level of stress.
goldenlove3 Yeah even letting the ILs watch them on date nights wouldn't be enough concession for him. But even for that I still don't believe they could handle it. Like I don't think my kids are super speshul snowflakes, it's the fact that it's not 2 on 1 coverage (it's kind of all hands on deck) and AV is in fact a really difficult baby so I can't even imagine them trying to handle her at this stage.
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