H and I had a rough night with the kids waking all night but I'm trying to let that go since today and tomorrow are my last two days home with them (aside from work from home days).
I think what we decided is that H is asking to work from home the other 2 days (I'll do 3) and when I'm WFH I'll have my mom here to help and when he WFH he'll have his mom here. That way we can avoid daycare for a little longer. I'm thinking about only going back to work for one month and then taking my last 4 weeks of FMLA in March.
ETA if I extend my current leave any longer they'll go back and reduce the PTO I've taken since November - some rule they have if your leave is >90 days.
waitwhat omg I was just thinking about how we have all these babies turning 3 months old this week! 😭 How can this be?? I feel like we were all still pregnant like last week.
Post by cookswithwine9 on Jan 30, 2017 11:23:14 GMT -5
I think Owen/I might have thrush! I have this burning sensation in my breast even when he's not nursing. My nipple looks normal though. His tongue is white and I can't wipe it off. We are going to the ped at 1:30. Ugh I'm upset!
I think Owen/I might have thrush! I have this burning sensation in my breast even when he's not nursing. My nipple looks normal though. His tongue is white and I can't wipe it off. We are going to the ped at 1:30. Ugh I'm upset!
I'm sorry We have it too. I haven't had any symptoms but we have to apply the stuff to her tongue and my nips 4 x's a day. Hopefully it clears up quickly for you!
waitwhat He's since apologized.. As I thought it was his way of "trying to make me realize how serious he was".. I know he was serious that he didn't want my mom watching them but of course my response was, give me another option - to which he had none. We've moved on, this morning out of the blue he also pulled me aside when I had a free minute bc he just wanted to let me know how committed he is to our relationship and making it work. Very serious words he threw out but I know we both are very committed to marriage so I doubted there was sincerity behind the divorce comment alhough at the time it felt like it.
danib +1 C actually took some great naps the past couple days and last night. He did wake up at 2 but he wasn't really waking up so I settled him down and he slept again until almost 6.
Post by goldenlove3 on Jan 30, 2017 14:24:15 GMT -5
So H and I have a pretty big decision to make that sort of came out of nowhere. We're trying to decide if we should sell our house and build a new one on a lot we found. My biggest issue with this house has always been the yard. It pretty much doesn't exist. There's a big side yard but it's completely exposed to the street and just has no privacy. There's no room to put a swing set or run around and play. And we can't have a fence in this sub. We have always said that if we move, it needs to have a nice yard and somewhere we can have a fence which seems to be impossible in this area.
Well we found a lot for sale in the city just south of here that its closer to both our parents. It's close to H's job but a little further from mine but I like the area better. It's almost an acre, fences are allowed, the schools are close by and it's walking distance to a community center. I have no idea if there's kids in the sub though and it's an older sub in general with a couple new construction houses scattered around. We need to figure out finances of course but if we decide to go for it, we'll have a lot of work to do to get this house ready to sell. It's just so much to think about!!
Post by goldenlove3 on Jan 30, 2017 16:41:19 GMT -5
It would definitely be a dream to build our own house and the lot is so nice. We're going to talk to our parents and see what they think. Maybe even my uncle who owns a building company to see what it would entail. If we can do it without a huge increase to our monthly mortgage, then I think we'll go for it.
I think Owen/I might have thrush! I have this burning sensation in my breast even when he's not nursing. My nipple looks normal though. His tongue is white and I can't wipe it off. We are going to the ped at 1:30. Ugh I'm upset!
I'm sorry We have it too. I haven't had any symptoms but we have to apply the stuff to her tongue and my nips 4 x's a day. Hopefully it clears up quickly for you!
So O doesn't have thrush. The white inside his mouth was just a milk coating so I feel silly. But that doesn't explain this burning pain in my breast. I have an appt sched with the OB tomorrow... part of me just wants to cancel though. I guess I will see how the pain is btw now and then.
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