Bad News. But not Out

[Mom2Ms]

**** Trigger Warning*** (Loss)




I had some spotting that began on Friday. I had an SCH, so they were not too worried. However, this morning, an U/S revealed that Baby B has not survived. It's a definite thing, as there is no longer a HB. Baby A is measuring at 10w4d (right on target). The HB was 154, which I thought was concerning cause 2 weeks ago, it was 167. I was told it wasn't an issue. When they were looking over Baby A, they noticed what could have possibly been a hole in the abdomen. They are not 100% sure. If could be a hole, nothing, or "Whartons Jelly." I'm seeing my OBGYN on Wednesday & I will be referred to a specialist. They suspect that Baby B didn't make it due to genetic issues, so I'll be getting genetic testing done this week. Obviously there's a concern for genetic issues with the surviving baby that they want to completely rule out. From what I've read, the possibilities of genetic issues with both twins is not very prevalent, but I'm super freaked out nonetheless. And obviously concerned about this abdomen issue.

We MC in November. Now I've lost Baby B. I just hope that the odds are in our favor for Baby A that they arrive healthy in August.

Thoughts & prayers are appreciated for this momma.

[nutmeg8484]

I'm so sorry about your loss. Please keep us updated. I'll be thinking of you.

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry for your loss of Baby B. I'll be thinking of you. I hope the abdomen is nothing concerning.

[elliecat17]

I'm so sorry to hear about baby B. You and baby A and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[cravingchocolate05]

So very, very sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers for baby A to be strong and healthy.

[tacocatmom]

I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you.

[cnbpa3027]

Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

[wanderingstar]

So very sorry for your loss. Positive vibes and thoughts coming your way!

[yoshijo28]

Im so so sorry. T&Ps for baby A!

[pennylane]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope everything turns out ok with baby A.

[bsouls]

I'm sorry for your loss. Fingers crossed for baby A.

[therealbug]

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your OB can get you into a specialist quickly.

[jessa1228]

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending tons of good vibes that baby A is healthy!

[mrshall1027]

I'm so sorry Baby B didn't make it. Hoping you get some better news on Wednesday.

[Mom2Ms]

Feb 6, 2017 20:50:00 GMT -5 @xamountofwords said:

I'm sorry you lost baby B and your baby in November My doctor told me at my most recent appointment of the heartbeat is going to slow down as the babies grow so please don't worry about that as long as it's over 100 it safe.

Thanks. I keep thinking to myself, I can't lose 3 babies in 3-4 months time. Stastitics have to be on my side. (Or that's what I'm telling myself) U/S tech said the HB vary all the time, depending on resting vs active. S/he wasn't doing a whole lot of moving when the HB was taken, but later on, I got to see some moving and shaking.

[PepperPottsJ]

SO much love to you Mom2Ms , I am so sorry for your loss of Baby B and sending all of the healthy bouncy vibes to Baby A!

[cwbh928]

So sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my T&P's.

[jt2378]

So sorry about your loss of baby B, praying baby A is ok. So much love and prayers to you Mom2Ms 💕

[violajack]

So sorry for your loss. What a roller coaster! All the things crossed that baby A makes it. T&P your way.

[happyfeet9]

Mom2Ms, I'm so very sorry for your loss of Baby B. Keeping you all in my thoughts and sending all my prayers for the continued health of you and Baby A.

[razzy]

I'm so sorry about baby b! Sending hugs and prayers that baby a continues to thrive!

[salmon2017]

Mom2Ms, I am so sorry for your loss and will be praying that all is well with Baby A.

[cali]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope Baby A remains strong and healthy.

[laurenash323]

lurking from September...so sorry @mom2ms. I hope Baby A keeps on growing and you get some clarity through genetic testing!

[marajadeskywalker]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending positive thoughts your way

[northmom14]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hoping the rest of your pregnancy with Baby A. is uneventful and healthy!

[king26]

I'm sorry for the loss of Baby B and hope that Baby A keeps on growing strong.

[yellowcat]

Mom2Ms, I am so sorry, we also lost a twin with my DD around 9 weeks. It is an extra set of stress to loss one and still have another to worry about. It all sucks, but try and stay positive, I know it is hard. \ But like others said, the heart rate varies and eventually slows down as the baby grows.

[muscari]

Ohh Mom2Ms, so sorry I only just now respond, didn't see the thread earlier as I haven't been online much at all this past week. I'm so so very sorry for the loss of baby B. **hugs** I'm glad to read they aren't too worried about the SCH but I can imagine tis scary nonetheless, especially with the sad news about your baby. I hope that baby A keeps on growing strong! Much love coming your way.