Pregnant Check-in Feb. 7

[therealbug]

Update on today's appointment:

We had our NT scan at the MFMs. Both babies looked good. The tech asked if they were identical based on the membrane between. That caught us off guard. I'm pretty sure we have some earlier ultrasound pics that show a bit more separation between the two.

She also did a transvaginal u/s to check my cervix length.

MFM had no concerns and dismissed my question about the spotting I've been having (she said her opinion was that it was probably hemorrhoids).

I'm sorry, you didn't do an exam and I've had enough loses to be able to tell if bleeding is coming from the vag.

I went straight to court where, about 1.5 hours later, I had a huge gush of blood and passed a good size clot. Called my OB who called the MFM and was told no signs of issues on my u/s and that my cervix was 4.5cm long. Their guess is it was irritation from the transvag u/s. I've heard of spotting afterwards but not a large bleed.

I haven't told H because he has been in a happy little bubble from seeing A and B. I don't want to ruin that for him.

[fightersince83]

Hi ladies, I had a MFM appt and will put info in the spoiler due to triggers

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We had a routine visit with the MFM today. We just saw the OB yesterday and saw all 3 boys hb. The u/s today showed no hb for baby A. No one is sure what happened. Everything has looked perfect up to this point. The MFM I guessing a possible cord accident. They said it's possible the other 2 may have suffered neurological damage as a result of this but there's no way of knowing. We have to wait and see. I'm not sure how active I may be on here while this is going on.

[therealbug]

Feb 10, 2017 1:16:38 GMT -5 fightersince83 said:

Hi ladies, I had a MFM appt and will put info in the spoiler due to triggers

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We had a routine visit with the MFM today. We just saw the OB yesterday and saw all 3 boys hb. The u/s today showed no hb for baby A. No one is sure what happened. Everything has looked perfect up to this point. The MFM I guessing a possible cord accident. They said it's possible the other 2 may have suffered neurological damage as a result of this but there's no way of knowing. We have to wait and see. I'm not sure how active I may be on here while this is going on.

I have no adequate words. I am so sorry fighter. You and your family are in my T&Ps.

[nomnom]

fightersince83 I'm so sorry. Words are not enough.

[dukegirlsc]

fightersince83 I have no words but I am so sorry, you are in my prayers.

[pbandj714]

fightersince83, I am so incredibly sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[callmeKD]

Oh fightersince83 my heart is broken for you. Big hugs and T&Ps that your other 2 are ok.

[Run20K]

Fightersince83 - I'm so very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[shytimes]

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fightersince83 my heart sank reading your update. "I'm sorry" doesn't even come close to my sadness. Sending all the things your way. If we can do anything let us know.

[bluefairy5]

fightersince83 I am so, so sorry to learn this. There are no words that are adequate. I will be thinking of you and your family. You know we are all here for you in whatever way we can possibly be.

[lastkiss]

Oh fightersince83 I am so so sorry. Be kind to yourself and take whatever time you need.

[ttcbabyj]

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fightersince83 my heart broke reading your post. I am so sorry. My prayers and thoughts will be with your family.

[fightersince83]

Thank you ladies. I appreciate your love and support.

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We're pretty much beside ourselves and the Dr's seem stumped as well, which isn't terribly reassuring. We are being watched very closely though. If/when I get discharged from the hospital I'll be seeing my MFM weekly to track the other 2.

[nerdykitten]

fightersince83 I can't express how sorry I am for you and your family. If you need anything please do not hesitate to message me. You will be in my thoughts every day.

[nerdykitten]

therealbug I bled multiple times with clots up to 10 or 12 weeks and all they could come up with was an irritated cervix as they found nothing on ultrasounds that would be causing it.

[westiemom]

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fightersince83 I'm so heartbroken for you. I have no words. I'm so so sorry. Reach out to me if you need anything at all.

[LydiaDeetz]

Thinking of you and your family fightersince83. I'm so very sorry.

[LydiaDeetz]

I hope you're doing ok therealbug.

[therealbug]

Feb 10, 2017 15:03:03 GMT -5 LydiaDeetz said:

I hope you're doing ok therealbug.

Thanks LydiaDeetz. Just continued spotting at this point. Reminding myself how common this is and that the scan looked good yesterday.

[nic1231]

fightersince83 I'm so sorry for you and your family. Much virtual hugs and love coming your way

[requiressnacks]

fightersince83, I am so, so sorry. I know that words cannot help right now, but just know that you and your sweet babes are in our thoughts.

[DVMmomma]

fightersince83- that's so shitty!!! I hated reading that. You done everything right so far- it's not fair.

[mrswillie]

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fightersince83 I am so sorry to read this update. So heartbreaking. Keeping you and your sweet baby boys in my prayers.

[lindsay]

I am so so sorry fightersince83 my heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

[Deleted]

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fightersince83, I am so, so sorry for the loss of your sweet angel. My prayers are with you and your husband. My heart is breaking for you.

[mustloveerica]

fightersince83 I'm so sorry for your loss! Sending lots of prayers that your other sweet boys will be healthy and strong.

[hollyberry]

fightersince83, I am so very sorry. There are no words! So many hugs!

[dashuria]

Oh fightersince83, I'm in tears and my heart is breaking for you and your family. I am so, so sorry...but those words don't even seem like enough. Please know you are in my thoughts and many prayers tonight. Huge hugs!