Well my first appointment did not go well. The sac & baby were measuring 1 week behind, which isn't good. There was a flicker of a heartbeat, but nothing she could measure. I had blood drawn today and go back on Wednesday for another round to see where my levels are and if they are increasing appropriately. I should get a call from my doc Wednesday. My repeat ultrasound isn't until next Tuesday and we won't know if everything's ok or not until then. The doctor said she was hopeful it could still be ok. She said the baby could have been in a wierd position or maybe my dates were off (possible, but it would have been like 1 day off, not a full week). She also wanted us to be prepared in case it isn't ok.
Im waffling between super hopeful it will be ok and being completely crushed. And I have been crying on and off for the last two hours. This is officially going to be the worst week of my life.
I'm so sorry that this was the news of your appointment. Sending you all the hugs in the whole world because I know how much this week will suck. I'll be crossing everything for your betas and next ultrasound.
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I am so, so sorry. Limbo is the worst. I wish I had comforting words for you, but nothing would be new, so instead I'll just build us a little internet blanket fort and make some internet hot cocoa and we can internet hide in here until next week. <3
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Post by littleowl913 on Mar 6, 2017 17:20:12 GMT -5
I'm so so sorry you're in limbo. It's the worst. I was in limbo with DS. My OB was not optimistic at all. All we saw was a sac at 6 weeks. I thought the same thing too - there's no way I could be a full week off. The next week at the sonogram there he was! So all the hugs and hairpats lady.
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Post by mommaashley12 on Mar 6, 2017 20:25:48 GMT -5
I am so sorry you're in limbo. That must be so stressful. At the beginning of this pregnancy I was measuring 4 days behind and at the follow up appt baby was measuring one day ahead of my estimate. Hoping that's the same outcome for you. Hugs and hair pats until then. Will be thinking of you!
Post by thinkingofthree on Mar 7, 2017 0:00:41 GMT -5
I am so, so sorry to hear your appointment didn't go well. I'll be sending you thoughts & prayers over the next week, & hope that it goes as quickly as possible for you.
Post by candylandycane on Mar 7, 2017 8:12:03 GMT -5
I'm so sorry, smores. I'm sending you all the positive vibes for baby. Waiting is the worst so I hope time goes quickly for you and your news is all good news. Hair pats and hugs.
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