It's Whine O'Clock

[grumpycat88]

We are all in first tri so we've got a lot to complain about and let's be honest, spouses don't get what it's like having something inside you making you bloated and vomit everywhere. Welcome to Monday Bitchfest!

[Deleted]

Night #2 of the virus last night. At least I'm not constipated?

[beefinch]

As I said in randoms, I was pooping for the first time in a week. For some reason I went insanely dizzy, cold sweat, and all around thought I was going to faint. Stumbled off the toilet and fell into bed, called DH and he was like "I need to go to bed now I've had a long day"

Bitch, I'm laying here on the bed after pooping almost made me faint and you just want to sleep, no, look after your pregnant wife. Pfft

Rang my Mum who's a nurse and she said my blood pressure must have dropped a lot and I was probably dehydrated from pooping a lot.

I feel fine today, but that was horrible. Was seeing stars and could hear the blood rushing in my head, 0/10 do not recommend

[kariann12]

Since Sat I've been having red spotting. Since we saw the heartbeat Thurs my doc and MH are both trying to convince me it's fine. It doesn't feel fine ya know? Plus we waited almost 4 years to get KU, I can't handle any more stress! One day at a time...

[peggels24]

kariann12, ((hugs)). I hope the spotting is nothing.

[laurensc927]

I feel you on the spotting kariann12, I had some over the weekend and we don't have the heartbeat ultrasound until 4/3. FX it's nothing for both of us.

[kariann12]

Mar 27, 2017 8:34:56 GMT -5 laurensc927 said:

I feel you on the spotting kariann12, I had some over the weekend and we don't have the heartbeat ultrasound until 4/3. FX it's nothing for both of us.

So many fingers crossed!

[Deleted]

Half my playgroup is sick so we canceled our play date today. Don't they know how important our Monday get togethers are to my sanity!?

Also, waking up every 1.5-2 hours for no reason at all for the last week is for the effing birds.

[peggels24]

Mar 27, 2017 8:52:36 GMT -5 @annperkins said:

Half my playgroup is sick so we canceled our play date today. Don't they know how important our Monday get togethers are to my sanity!?

Also, waking up every 1.5-2 hours for no reason at all for the last week is for the effing birds.

How rude!  Can't they get sick on a Tuesday?

[amadine23]

OMG I feel so sick. I was up half the night dry heaving into the toilet. I'm going to limp through working at DS's preschool today (it's a co-op), and then I'm never leaving the house again. This is almost the exact same day I started throwing up when I was pregnant with DS.

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 7:17:59 GMT -5 @snuff9861 said:

Night #2 of the virus last night. At least I'm not constipated?

Stay hydrated. I hope poop gate is over soon.

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 8:06:46 GMT -5 @catvaughn said:

I feel like absolute shit. I don't remember it being this bad with dd. I feel like I'm going to puke everywhere almost 24/7.

Mil made ginger cookies for me. Either she's being nice or trying​ to make me fat. I'm not sure which.

Eat the cookies, worry about her motives later. Yum.

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 9:02:39 GMT -5 @catvaughn said:

kariann12,Fx it's nothing. I had bright red spotting with dd and everything turned out just fine.

+1 ... I had red spotting with DS and it all turned out fine. I know how worrying it is though. FX it's nothing kariann12

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 8:52:36 GMT -5 @annperkins said:

Half my playgroup is sick so we canceled our play date today. Don't they know how important our Monday get togethers are to my sanity!?

Also, waking up every 1.5-2 hours for no reason at all for the last week is for the effing birds.

Jerks. Who cares how sick they are. When you have a play date, get your shit together!

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 9:39:45 GMT -5 amadine23 said:

OMG I feel so sick. I was up half the night dry heaving into the toilet. I'm going to limp through working at DS's preschool today (it's a co-op), and then I'm never leaving the house again. This is almost the exact same day I started throwing up when I was pregnant with DS.

I hope you make it through the day! At the very least, a preschool should definitely have the supplies needed if someone throws up ...

[diamondsndaisies]

Lol, I just put all of my whines in the randoms. But, for the sake of whining, I will put them here as well.

I have hit the exhaustion stage. I am constantly tired after doing almost nothing. My nausea hasn't been terrible, just annoying. Bloating has been a serious issue. I have gained 6 pounds since I found out and I have drastically reduced my food consumption (not an unhealthy amount) but there is absolutely no reason for the weight gain other than bloat.

[grumpycat88]

DH was at a bachelor party this weekend. He texted me and asked if the entertainment could show him some creative uses of whipped cream that he was interested in using on me.

1. Do not text your pregnant wife who feels like garbage and you left alone with your monster spawn this drivel as she is going to sleep.
2. What kind of strippers are these and why are they using cosmo sex tips from the 90s?
3. It's hilarious that he thinks that I even want to have sex. I think we had sex 4 times during my last pregnancy.

[beefinch]

grumpycat88

I feel you on the not wanting sex

Our poor DH's

Each time DH comes near me I wrap myself up in a blanket and growl

[lgraceh]

Woof. grumpycat88 and beefinch, I feel ya. The thought of sex...
I do feel bad for DH. Sex was already a struggle before because of IF. But all he has done to instigate anything has been grabbing my grotesquely huge boobs. A.) that hurts. B.) that is not a turn on. I would entertain the idea if he would try a little harder to be romantic or sweet.

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 10:30:31 GMT -5 beefinch said:

grumpycat88

I feel you on the not wanting sex

Our poor DH's

Each time DH comes near me I wrap myself up in a blanket and growl

Mine just knows better (than to approach me for sex) for the most part. And I don't feel all that bad for him lol. I'm making him another kid and feel like garbage so he can deal. 

[peggels24]

I have the opposite problem - mentally, I want to have sex....physically I can't find the energy or the drive. I'm hoping that once I'm not so exhausted, it will work itself out. DH and I didn't have sex for my entire pregnancy last time and I think it kinda hurt our marriage a little - I would like to have sex now just for the sake of having sex.

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 10:43:04 GMT -5 lgraceh said:

Woof. grumpycat88 and beefinch , I feel ya. The thought of sex...
I do feel bad for DH. Sex was already a struggle before because of IF. But all he has done to instigate anything has been grabbing my grotesquely huge boobs. A.) that hurts. B.) that is not a turn on. I would entertain the idea if he would try a little harder to be romantic or sweet.

I would have punched DH if he grabbed my boobs lately. F that. Those puppies are SORE. You are officially a nicer wife than me  

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 10:51:03 GMT -5 peggels24 said:

I have the opposite problem - mentally, I want to have sex....physically I can't find the energy or the drive. I'm hoping that once I'm not so exhausted, it will work itself out. DH and I didn't have sex for my entire pregnancy last time and I think it kinda hurt our marriage a little - I would like to have sex now just for the sake of having sex.

Maybe he can do stuff for you while you are so exhausted and then once the exhaustion passes in hopefully a few weeks, get back into the swing of things.

[Deleted]

Sex isn't a problem here, but we did it on Saturday and I had some spotting so I've put it on hold until I can talk to my doctor about it tomorrow. I know it's probably nothing, but you know, crazy pregnant lady.
With DS, I could probably count on one hand the number of times we had sex while I was pregnant.

[Deleted]

Thank you all for understanding my play date plight. It's like they don't care about me at all. Lol

[cnf2013]

Pregsomnia, I hate you. I could sleep forever and a day when I was pregnant with DD. Insomnia is new territory for me and I'm not ok with it.

Also, I'm so sick of telling my students to put their phone away. I dock grades for phones being out, they know this, I keep reminding them, and they're still out. My class is a graduation requirement. Have fun failing because you felt snap chat was more important.

[grumpycat88]

Mar 27, 2017 11:26:17 GMT -5 cnf2013 said:

Pregsomnia, I hate you. I could sleep forever and a day when I was pregnant with DD. Insomnia is new territory for me and I'm not ok with it.

Also, I'm so sick of telling my students to put their phone away. I dock grades for phones being out, they know this, I keep reminding them, and they're still out. My class is a graduation requirement. Have fun failing because you felt snap chat was more important.

What grade do you teach? I think schools around here actually have rules that cellphones can't be out in the classroom. I would totally confiscate the phones during class if that's allowed. 

Pregsomnia sucks. 

[laurensc927]

I'm the opposite of most of you, I want sex, I miss sex. We weren't allowed to have sex post transfer then were told we needed to wait until heartbeat which will be almost a month. I know with my luck we'll be cleared for sex and I'll start feeling like garbage.

[fknhostile]

Mar 27, 2017 11:26:17 GMT -5 cnf2013 said:

Pregsomnia, I hate you. I could sleep forever and a day when I was pregnant with DD. Insomnia is new territory for me and I'm not ok with it.

Also, I'm so sick of telling my students to put their phone away. I dock grades for phones being out, they know this, I keep reminding them, and they're still out. My class is a graduation requirement. Have fun failing because you felt snap chat was more important.

My son's school wants the kids to have their phones out. They have them use their pads or phones throughout the day. What grade to you teach?
I also am dealing with insomnia. I can fall asleep fine but I wake up every hour.

[beefinch]

I mostly don't want to have sex because I'm terrified of spotting, it seemed each time we had sex with DS's pregnancy, I would spot for an hour or so and it freak me out.

I just put having sex = spotting in my head and I'd rather wait until after our scan. DH does understand but doesn't stop him from getting naked and 'looking' at me before bed time.