I Think I am Out Ladies :(

[briarrose]

Hi ladies. I think I am out. I had the bit of spotting this morning, just a bit, but then again tonight and I am having a lot of cramping. I took a test and it was negative.


I loved being here for this short amount of time and absolutely wish you all the best. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and if you would pray for my husband and I, I would really appreciate it. I cannot believe this is happening again. I think we are going to be taking a break for quite some time. Good luck to you all.

[sparkymcgee]

Oh I'm so sorry Briar. I really enjoyed having you here. Good luck to you and your husband. I hope you get your take home baby soon.

[briarrose]

I also honestly don't even know where to go from here. I don't really want to go into the doctor tomorrow since how it went down last time. I would rather just let things happen on their own, but then what do I do?

[Deleted]

Oh briarrose, I am so sad for you and your husband. Sending you healing thoughts.

[rooskie]

I am so sorry. I'll for sure pray for you and your family.

Can you call the dr in the morning and see what they say?

[briarrose]

I will try calling in the morning I guess. I never did get to see an OB with the last one, and maybe she can get me in tomorrow. The bleeding hasn't really started yet and I am just dreading it. The cramping is making me very sad. I just don't feel like getting some sort of lecture from the doctor or nurse since these two are only 5-6 weeks apart.

[inaya]

I am so sorry. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers.

I would go to the doctor just to be sure everything is on your record and to see if you can have your betas tracked down to be sure you don't deal with any retained tissue. Do you have the option of seeing a different doctor or even trying a different office?

[mleep]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[andi]

I'm so sorry. You're in my prayers.

[jerseyakl]

I am so incredibly sorry. I agree about calling the doctor. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[kensie5226]

I'm so sorry for your loss and all you've been through. T&Ps to you.

[mandypandy]

I'm so so sorry. Keeping you in my thoughts.

[briarrose]

Just an update that I called my regular practice and the nurse was a tiny bit of a bitch, IMO, so I called the practice in the neighboring town and am waiting to hear back from them this afternoon about when I would be able to see someone to move things forward. The nurse in my hometown seems to like to give her own opinion rather than confer with the doctor, and wouldn't be willing to squeeze me in, I just am supposed to take an appointment sometime next week. I don't know what the protocol should be in this situation, but I am not happy with that option right now.

[Deleted]

briarrose - I am sorry. I would consider switching if that's a possibility. I was not thrilled by how the nurse-midwife handled my chemical pregnancy and would have switched if I hadn't been seen by a loss specialist in early pregnancy in addition to being cared for by my "general" practice (i.e., been able to get the attention and care I needed).