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I love how oblivious they are "they must be PMing to each other to come to this thread" yeah....no....we're all in the forum that has been thrown around 1,000 times for the last two days....
I love how oblivious they are "they must be PMing to each other to come to this thread" yeah....no....we're all in the forum that has been thrown around 1,000 times for the last two days....
Ok question: who is sabriel? I can't figure it out Edit- never mind! Found it!
]Also, those blow ups on that thread made my night! I left for a few hours (finally talked to SO) and came back to that. I almost woke DD up from laughing!
Ok question: who is sabriel? I can't figure it out
Also, those blow ups on that thread made my night! I left for a few hours (finally talked to SO) and came back to that. I almost woke DD up from laughing!
I need some details on the talking to SO situation, If you don't mind sharing that is! Is he really moving away?
Ok question: who is sabriel? I can't figure it out
Also, those blow ups on that thread made my night! I left for a few hours (finally talked to SO) and came back to that. I almost woke DD up from laughing!
I need some details on the talking to SO situation, If you don't mind sharing that is! Is he really moving away?
He finally told me why he's been acting the way he has. It has a lot to do with financial trouble (the whole men are nothing if they can't provide for their family stigma), his anxiety, stress, and a whole other mess of things that he has been holding in for a long time have all just made him feel like he doesn't deserve DD, DS, or I. So he has been acting out to try and sabotage the relationship as a way to show me that I deserve better, I guess? Either way, he told me that he wants to start couples counseling with me soon (which I've been begging to do for months), and that he has an appointment next week for therapy for himself. I've been at my moms again for a few days, and we agreed that I would bring DD over to visit for a few hours tomorrow, and to discuss whether she and I want to go to VA with him this weekend to visit SIL and BIL before they move to Washington (and he goes on hardship tour to Korea). Then I guess on Friday, he wants to keep DD for a few hours so I can have a girls day with my cousin that they planned for me... Idk. I'm just going to take it a day at a time for now, and see what happens. And come up with a back up plan in case counseling doesn't go so well.
Post by sthrncharmer on Jan 14, 2015 23:32:10 GMT -5
@sastahlman that is so incredibly hard to go through. I hope that counseling really works for you not only for your sake but for the kiddos as well. Just know that we're all here for you and you're not alone. Hugs
Post by seventythree on Jan 14, 2015 23:43:07 GMT -5
@sastahlman I'm sorry that you're going through this, but glad to hear that you guys were able to talk and that there is a plan going forward. I wish you all the best with counseling, I hope that you can make it work!
Thank you everyone! Now that I know that situation is on its way to getting resolved, I'll be around a lot more and more supportive. I feel like I've spent a lot more time venting lately than supporting, with everything going on. But I promise, I'm not going to be one of those who always take and never give! Thank you all so much for putting up with me
Hey, could one or two people bump up a couple of the 24 hrs threads? I'm trying to bury that "you guys are special" thread before I go to bed. It's grossing me out.
Hey, could one or two people bump up a couple of the 24 hrs threads? I'm trying to bury that "you guys are special" thread before I go to bed. It's grossing me out.
Bumped five of the 24 hour posts, and the MOD post to the top of the board again.
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