Post by CoachTsWife on Apr 22, 2017 8:51:18 GMT -5
DS woke up at 5. His diaper had leaked and we were unsuccessful at getting him back to sleep. So. Up at 5 on a Saturday....
Then to top things off I threw up. At almost 17 weeks. After I took a zofran. Seriously ready for this to stop.
We need to clean the house and organize some things. DH is being a rock star and handled making breakfast and feeding the toddler. He also vacuumed the upstairs already. I need to clean the bathrooms but I don't wanna. But I will.
I hope everyone is having a great start to the weekend!!
CoachTsWife I'm sorry for the early day and the vomit. I'm still taking my morning sickness meds regularly (only 15 weeks) so I understand the struggle. We should be past this!
IUI 1-3 BFN IVF #1 - Oct '15 - 10R, 3M, 0F IVF #2 - August 16 - 12R, 11M, 5F. 1 to transfer and 2 to freeze - BFP!! - MMC caught at 7w5d FET #1 - 1/26 - BFP, due 10/14
IUI 1-3 BFN IVF #1 - Oct '15 - 10R, 3M, 0F IVF #2 - August 16 - 12R, 11M, 5F. 1 to transfer and 2 to freeze - BFP!! - MMC caught at 7w5d FET #1 - 1/26 - BFP, due 10/14
I'm sorry to everyone still vomiting- I hope it stops soon! Symptom wise, TMI but I am tired of being so bloated and constipated. I have gained a ton of weight in the last week and its all from that. I feel huge and uncomfortable.
That aside- I am spending today with DD because I have to work tomorrow. DH and FIL are replacing the front door jam so the front door is off the hinges and wide open to outside- it's 45'F and raining here. I'm freezing and hoping they finish soon.
Post by mommabakes on Apr 22, 2017 11:01:11 GMT -5
Working on outdoor stuff today, Easter with DHs family tomorrow. I'm pretty irritated with mil right now, so hoping tomorrow goes okay. Things start right at DSs nap time, so FX he holds up alright to all of the crazy over stimulation.
TL;DR in law drama
Mil told DHs grandparents, Aunt, and cousins about baby 3. We had been planning on telling everyone at Easter, then DHs cousin miscarried so we decided to keep it secret until a few wks after the holiday. Now cousin isn't coming because she is struggling with us being pregnant (which I get! I was trying to avoid this by not telling for another few weeks, so she'd have more time to process before having to see us) and Aunt is upset with us, and it's all a mess that could have been avoided if mil had just kept her mouth shut another couple weeks.
It's rainy and dreary here. I didnt sleep terribly, but I am SO, SO tired!! I took my daughter to ballet this morning and now I'm working 1-4pm. Id very much like to be curled up on the couch with a movie right now. Le sigh!
I turned in an old car seat to Target today and am the proud new owner of a shiny 20% off coupon. Mostly, I'm just excited that I was able to recycle it.
IUI 1-3 BFN IVF #1 - Oct '15 - 10R, 3M, 0F IVF #2 - August 16 - 12R, 11M, 5F. 1 to transfer and 2 to freeze - BFP!! - MMC caught at 7w5d FET #1 - 1/26 - BFP, due 10/14
Post by mrstommyshelby on Apr 22, 2017 16:03:39 GMT -5
mommabakes yikes! Without knowing all the specifics, it seems a bit harsh that the aunt would be mad at you. Your MIL should clear things up since she stirred the pot here. Guessing she doesn't realize what she did was wrong. Touchy situation. Good luck!
Post by mrstommyshelby on Apr 22, 2017 16:08:30 GMT -5
I'm just going post a bunch in a row because why not?
yogini kiki we sold our house/bought current house last spring. It was so much work but (of course) ultimately worth it. The forced purge was awesome. I missed that you were moving. Is it for bigger house within the area or a job transfer or something? Good luck and I'm always here to vent to if the showings etc get annoying. I still complain about like it was yesterday. I'll commiserate with you!
Post by mrstommyshelby on Apr 22, 2017 16:13:02 GMT -5
CoachTsWife my day also started at 5. Solidarity to you. This was after a rough night of sleep so at 7:30 am I declared a movie morning, put in toy story and made popcorn for the boys. I'm sure I started a " I just want popcorn for breakfast" thing now. No lazy parenting move goes unpunished.
Post by carsaidyes on Apr 22, 2017 17:34:36 GMT -5
We went furniture shopping this am and we bought a whole new bed set. I'm so excited because my current stuff is like 15 years old and dated. The mattress is fairly new and is crap! Can't wait for the delivery to happen next week.
Me:29(IC/PCOS)DH: 29 Jan13-BO dx @ 6W April14-1st RE appointment Sept14-IUI #1.1=BFP EDD-6/3/15- Our sweet baby Ryan was born on 1/6/15 & is in the arms of an Angel Dec15-Gave birth to a healthy baby Boy Feb17-EDD 10/28/17
Toddler was up at 5:30 today as well - I'm not a coffee drinker but days like today make me wish I was! Dd is cutting her bottom molars and has these rare (but apparently harmless according to the dentist) blood blister/skin tag things forming on her gums where the teeth are cutting through. Dentist says they'll fall off/go away when the molars finally burst through. I can just add this to my ever growing file of "things parenting books didn't tell me..."
Post by cougarette on Apr 22, 2017 20:47:52 GMT -5
Today was mostly good. DS has not been very good when we go to out to dinner lately. I don't know what's up, but he hasn't eaten anything when we go out. He's usually not a picky eater, so this is weird. I told DH that I don't want to go out to eat until I know he can act right and not throw a tantrum and actually eat. Of course the problem with that is he's usually find at home (I mean, he will sometimes throw food or whatever, but not like this).
Toddler was up at 5:30 today as well - I'm not a coffee drinker but days like today make me wish I was! Dd is cutting her bottom molars and has these rare (but apparently harmless according to the dentist) blood blister/skin tag things forming on her gums where the teeth are cutting through. Dentist says they'll fall off/go away when the molars finally burst through. I can just add this to my ever growing file of "things parenting books didn't tell me..."
This whole post sounds terribly miserable. I'm a FTM but I've heard horror stories about babies and molars, much less everything else!
IUI 1-3 BFN IVF #1 - Oct '15 - 10R, 3M, 0F IVF #2 - August 16 - 12R, 11M, 5F. 1 to transfer and 2 to freeze - BFP!! - MMC caught at 7w5d FET #1 - 1/26 - BFP, due 10/14
I'm just going post a bunch in a row because why not?
yogini kiki we sold our house/bought current house last spring. It was so much work but (of course) ultimately worth it. The forced purge was awesome. I missed that you were moving. Is it for bigger house within the area or a job transfer or something? Good luck and I'm always here to vent to if the showings etc get annoying. I still complain about like it was yesterday. I'll commiserate with you!
Sorry for the delay- just seeing this now!
I basically am just insane. I might not be moving, but I found this house that I fell in love with and it is miraculously attainable price wise (if we sell our place). It is a long shot, but I became obsessed and called realtors and convinced DH to put our current condo on the market to see if we could make it work. Our downstairs neighbors hate us because toddlers are heavy footed and run everywhere and I can't handle any more notes in my mailbox. So we are putting it on the market (aiming for June 1 since we live in a beach town and right on the train line to NYC) and seeing what happens.
I am in deep. Like...the "new" house has been fully outfitted through Pinterest. I can't stop. Lol.
Post by yogini kiki on Apr 23, 2017 7:47:04 GMT -5
mommabakes, that sucks about your MIL. I agree that it is her mess to clean up and your MIL owes EVERYONE an apology. Your aunt sounds like she needs to take a deep breath as well...it's not about her.
Post by racegurl87 on Apr 23, 2017 10:29:04 GMT -5
mommabakes that was sucky of your mil to spill the beans. Especially if you asked her not to say anything.
Trying to clean the house, do laundry, and begin packing for my trip to Disneyland for my half marathon on Mother's Day (I'm an early packer, and I only pack things I won't need now but will on the trip).
DD and I went to a friend's house last night to visit and bring them dinner (they just had baby #5). It was good to visit and I told them about sequel and they were excited for us.
I bought a body pillow yesterday to assist in my stomach sleeping. I tried it out on a night that H was gone overnight so I had the whole bed to myself.
IUI 1-3 BFN IVF #1 - Oct '15 - 10R, 3M, 0F IVF #2 - August 16 - 12R, 11M, 5F. 1 to transfer and 2 to freeze - BFP!! - MMC caught at 7w5d FET #1 - 1/26 - BFP, due 10/14
I bought a body pillow yesterday to assist in my stomach sleeping. I tried it out on a night that H was gone overnight so I had the whole bed to myself.
It was an overwhelming failure. Crap.
I am a stomach sleeper, I feel you.
Come visit me, we can go to the beach and dig belly/boob holes so we can nap face down in comfort listening to the water.
I bought a body pillow yesterday to assist in my stomach sleeping. I tried it out on a night that H was gone overnight so I had the whole bed to myself.
It was an overwhelming failure. Crap.
What kind did you get?
Some cheap one from Wal-Mart. I've never been one to sleep with a lot of pillows so I didn't want to drop a lot of money on something I'd not use/hate. I'm loving that decision right now.
IUI 1-3 BFN IVF #1 - Oct '15 - 10R, 3M, 0F IVF #2 - August 16 - 12R, 11M, 5F. 1 to transfer and 2 to freeze - BFP!! - MMC caught at 7w5d FET #1 - 1/26 - BFP, due 10/14
I bought a body pillow yesterday to assist in my stomach sleeping. I tried it out on a night that H was gone overnight so I had the whole bed to myself.
It was an overwhelming failure. Crap.
I am a stomach sleeper, I feel you.
Come visit me, we can go to the beach and dig belly/boob holes so we can nap face down in comfort listening to the water.
My massage therapist has this pregnancy pillow that you can lay face down in, the massages are great but being able to lay on your stomach is amazing.
Post by augustblooms on Apr 23, 2017 13:09:53 GMT -5
I haven't been around most of the week. Work has been super busy but I am now officially on modified duties for the rest of my pregnancy. It also means my dress code is now business casual and I do not have a single item of clothes that fits me, so I'll be shopping this week. I'm not looking forward to it, there are only two options for maternity stores nearby.
Going to my parents for dinner, was going to take DD to the park but DH only brought home her rain boots and not her outdoor running shoes and she is a little too clumsy for a playground in those.
Post by blackmamba on Apr 23, 2017 13:33:13 GMT -5
My cold turned into a sinus infection so I'm on day 10 of feeling like crap. But I got my hair done yesterday and it's fabulous, so that makes me feel a little better. We had fun at the zoo with DS today.
@yoginikki, congrats on the new place!
mommabakes, I hope your MIL apologizes to everyone.
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