Oh and hi guys! I can't believe N is going to be 2 on Saturday! Speaking of good ol EI I reeked of weed after my last home visit so bad that my mom almost didn't want to let me leave with N. sometimes I get so exhausted with this job.
That's awful. It must be so hard for you to see those things. Mentally exhausting for sure.
I just spent an hour sorting through the 15 bags worth of stuff in our basement that I had set aside to donate. Our sitter is organizing a multi-family garage sale at her house this weekend and invited us and some other friends to bring over stuff to sell and she will run it. Like she's going to start selling at 7am Saturday and we will still be at home in our pjs then. I am good with this. And almost all the stuff I'm selling is gifts from DH's family that we don't want and so it's all brand new but I'm good with selling for $1 or $2. Even if we make $20 it will be basically free money.
I've only ever tested once and it was super fast, whammmo you're KU. Like pee barely hit the stick and there were two lines.
I *knew* I was pregnant. I just had a feeling. DH didn't believe me because he's a man and because we had just gotten home from our honeymoon. So no possible way we could be pregnant, right? (Insert eye roll here).
Well, the test convinced him. His first reaction was "holy fuck". Bahahaha.
This was me. I had been feeling off and had a dream that I was at my baby shower for a baby girl. Peed on a stick and there were two lines before I even finished peeing. I had no idea it happened that fast. I had the timer set and everything. Lol.
linny12 I have a hard time believing that the EI people were just like, "oh, call your wife instead? Nah...... we are just not going to follow up at all." Look into this harder. Would your H lie to you because he doesn't think she needs the services? Is it possible that he told the EI people that you guys were not interested, or gave them the wrong number to reach you?
I also am in horror that a grown adult would think it's okay to leave a 14 month old baby outside to supposedly foster her independence. Literally so many horrible things could have happened. I mean everyone makes mistakes and stuff and misunderstandings certainly do happen.... but JTTW...
I worry about you Linny
I don't think he's lie about telling them to call me, and I mean I called and left messages with my contact info a week before they termed the case, without ever hearing back. She called me when we were first referred so Idk how or why they started calling H.
I do wish he had told me when they called him repeatedly though.
And yeah, I thought he was a responsible human when we got married, and learned after we had a child that I can't trust him with her care for even 5 minutes, but it's too late to do anything about that now. So I'm kinda stuck.
You deserve to have a spouse that you can trust a million times over with your baby (and your future baby's!!) care. Especially if you are about to have two! Aren't you in your third trimester? Our whole life with two at the moment is basically 'divide and conquer' until further notice. Lol. It won't be fair if you have to do everything because he can't be trusted to pay attention to their needs or whatever. Or YOUR needs as you recover.
You just let us know if you need to have a pep talk for a major CTJ talk with him. we got your back.
I'm a freak that tested ridiculously early because 16 months of TTC will make you do weird things. I had a squinter on a wondfo 9 dpo at 8pm after finishing a margarita (ok a second marg... oops).
With this baby I thought I o'd a week later that I did, so it was very clearly positive. And then I lost my keys in a target shopping cart after I returned it to the corral and had to wait while security followed some poor woman through the whole store to get them back.
Peeing on things is so weird.
I have lost my drivers license twice in two weeks and I had a weird pain in one of my boobs. That is what made me test. I have the memory of a goldfish right now.
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