kristhegirl her routine before was bath, snuggles/tablet time with zack, nighttime diaper, brush teeth with me, I put her down to bed. Now she fights everything.
I've been making sure to take Layton when zack gets Home so they can have special time together. And when he's napping during the day, Delaney and I have special time.
I'd keep firm with the routine, but give her some time to process. It's a whole new family dimension, and family is her whole world.
If you have time, maybe start the routine just a little earlier since she's exerting her control in this area. Also if at all possible, spend time with her in the evening all together, too, if you're not already. Even just 10 minutes. (I very distinctly know how unpredictable evenings can be, though!)
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