Post by scoutradley on May 4, 2017 12:33:58 GMT -5
I'm feeling pretty torn between posting a Thankful Thursday thread or a Throat Punch thread. Mostly because today has been kinda hard and I want to vent about it, but I also need to get my mind off of it. So I'm thinking maybe post one Thankful and one Throat Punch?
Post by scoutradley on May 4, 2017 15:40:22 GMT -5
@led this is going to sound so petty and btw:
**TW OPP and m/c** I have a friend that I have mentioned before that miscarried late last fall. She found out that she is pregnant recently and I am 100% happy for her. She has wanted this for a long time and she deserves it. So far I haven't had jealousy or sadness related to her pregnancy. But today I had just gotten a BFN when she called very excited that her ultrasound went well. Don't get me wrong, I am immensely happy and relieved that her baby is fine and I know she has been so anxious because she is close to the week that she m/c at last time. The timing was bad though and I've felt blah all day because of it. And we have this agreement that if either of us are having a bad day that we can tell the other that we can't talk about that subject today, but there is no way I could tell her that today. She deserves to be excited and relieved. I'm just being a bit of a brat I guess.
Post by mflowers929 on May 4, 2017 20:15:07 GMT -5
scoutradley, *hugs* I've definitely been there, and it's not cool. As happy as you are for your friend, you're as sad for yourself, and the best thing to do is to acknowledge instead of trying to stuff it down, because that'll just make it worse.
My thankful is that tonight I got to have supper with all of my favorite people. My throat punch/whine is that tomorrow my parents are going home and it'll be at least September before I see my mom again. Not sure about my dad =( And now I just started crying. I'm almost 30 dammit, I shouldn't be crying about this!
Post by mflowers929 on May 4, 2017 20:31:18 GMT -5
scoutradley, I've lived, give or take, 2000 miles from my parents for 10 1/2 years. This is approximately my gazillionth goodbye with them =/ Maybe I'm just hormonal, IDK. I definitely was not this sad when they dropped us off at the airport in Amsterdam in October.
scoutradley, I've lived, give or take, 2000 miles from my parents for 10 1/2 years. This is approximately my gazillionth goodbye with them =/ Maybe I'm just hormonal, IDK. I definitely was not this sad when they dropped us off at the airport in Amsterdam in October.
Post by mflowers929 on May 5, 2017 20:07:53 GMT -5
scoutradley, sorry if that came out a little snippy. I realized it may have been harsher than I intended it. I'm just upset over my parents and my teeth are hurting and I have to work with my least favorite coworker this weekend and just a whole bunch of shit is making me cranky.
Post by scoutradley on May 5, 2017 20:21:06 GMT -5
mflowers929 it didn't come across as snippy to me at all. Don't worry. Also that is a lot of stress. I hope your teeth feel better soon. Nothing worse then your mouth hurting.
Oh man, @eliida, I'm sorry. That sucks. I would be pissed the doctor wasn't more proactive, especially since she even agreed there could be retained tissue! Ugh. Well, it sucks you have to go through that, but I hope they can get it done quickly and smoothly and you can finally move on from this. *Hugs*
Post by scoutradley on May 7, 2017 11:23:21 GMT -5
@eliida oh my gosh that is awful. I'm so terribly sorry. They definitely should have done more for you so it wouldn't be this bad. So many hugs for you. Take care of yourself.
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