How are you feeling physically/emotionally? Feeling better physically. Emotionally im getting anxious. They set me up with bi-weekly scans and I can ask for a scan in between if I need it. That helps put my mind at ease a little but I cant belp but worry. Everything looked great until my 2nd tri loss. There was no indication something would go wrong. So, I'm scared.
Any appointments coming up? Next Thursday is my NT scan
Vents? Thoughts and prayers? Nothing right now. But I will keep you all in my prayers.
How are you feeling physically/emotionally? Physically I'm feeling better - not as queasy at all. Emotionally - it seems very real and the cost of daycare is scaring me.
Any appointments coming up? Nothing until next week.
Me 37 DW 33 Married May2014 RIVF (her egg my basket) Nov2014 Due July2015 - Its a Boy!! RIVF Oct2016 Due July 2017 - twin msc March 13 transfer Due Nov 2017
How are you feeling physically/emotionally? I'm okay. Physically I'm basically the same as always. Emotionally I'm struggling with the weight gain, body image side of things. I'm also anxious to get our panorama results this week. I've been reliving our genetic issues with DD and how scary all of that was and I just need those results to show me everything is okay right now.
Any appointments coming up? Nope.
Vents? Thoughts and prayers? I'm good, but I'll keep everyone else in my thoughts.
How are you feeling physically/emotionally? Pretty good- waking up to pee and some weird dreams but the nausea is minimal.
Any appointments coming up? The 15th we have our NT scan and blood work. H can come with so that's exciting- he hasn't made it to my other 2 appointments.
Vents? Thoughts and prayers? My vent: we visited H's grandma and while he was in the other room she randomly says to me, "you lost a baby right?" I was taken a back and just said yup. Then she goes on to ask if I was pregnant last time she saw me in August (no I was not) because I looked drawn out and she thought I was. That was the end of the conversation, no sympathy or anything- I was just sitting there like WTF?!?!
Anyways, that's my vent.
Other random thoughts- only my sister knows about this pregnancy. I kinda want to announce on Mother's Day but I feel like I need to wait until after our NT scan for my own feelings. And at that point I kinda want to wait until 20 weeks which is ridiculous and my belly will not allow me to keep it secret that long... plus I see my parents multiple times a week so... I just don't want to have to tell people if we have another loss.
I don't need hair pats or hugs, just typing it out helped 😊
Fx for all of you to have excellent appointments and for those feeling sick to be getting to the end of the sickness!
jules1614 I'm sorry his Grandma said that. Sometimes old people just don't have a filter! I understand not wanting to tell people. We told only immediate family and let them know we are waiting to tell others until after my anatomy scan. My mom was deeply upset that she couldn't tell everyone ::eyeroll:: I told her I don't want to untell everyone again so we're waiting until we get past our loss milestone of 19 weeks. I think she still doesn't get it.
@twotxmommies I hope that the time passes quickly until the 17th! Maybe finding out the sex next week will help.
@jj32 Luckily if I plan it right, there should only be a few months overlap with both in daycare – I’m hoping to get DD into the summer program at the preschool she will be going to which will save me a few thousand dollars a year. Yay for a good NT scan!!!!
jules1614 My H hasn’t made any appointments yet either – at this point, he’s missed 3 scans. He probably won’t make anything until the anatomy scan. Ugh – what a weird conversation to randomly have with H’s grandma! I hear ya on the not wanting to tell people – even after NT scan and good Panorama results, I’m still hesitant to really talk about it.
Post by laurensc927 on May 9, 2017 13:56:37 GMT -5
fknhostile I'm glad they are allowing you extra scans if need be. peggels24 when I first found out I was pregnant MH was so freaked out about day care he was considering moving to save money lol Yay for finding out the gender twotxmommies! I hope you get great results and soon cnf2013 ! That was a weird conversation with YH's Grandma jules1614 .
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