Can I Join? TW loss mentioned

[professormcgonagall]

Hey, I am Professor Mcgonagall. I am not actively TTC just yet but I am planning on going off my bcp at the end of this pack to start tracking my cycle. 

DH and I are both 26. I have PCOS. I have had one loss last September. My daughter was born via emergency c-section at 24 weeks due to a placental abruption. She was alive for 58 wonderful minutes. 
We were told they want at least 2 years in between deliveries because I have a classical incision. So we still have a little bit of time yet but it took well over a year to conceive before because I don't always ovulate and can go months in between periods. But I am working on getting healthy and hopefully get a grip on my body.

I have been lurking on this board for quite a while and am looking forward to giving and receiving support. 

[inaya]

I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome to CAL.

I've been slowly reading through the book It Starts with the Egg after it was recommended by a few ladies here on TCF. There's a lot about PCOS in there if you're ever looking for extra information.

[professormcgonagall]

May 9, 2017 10:06:36 GMT -5 inaya said:

I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome to CAL.

I've been slowly reading through the book It Starts with the Egg after it was recommended by a few ladies here on TCF. There's a lot about PCOS in there if you're ever looking for extra information.

Thank you for the suggestion. I read Taking Charge of Your Fertility like 3 years ago so I definitely need a refresher.

[Deleted]

Welcome!

[ashlee]

Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss.

[scoutradley]

Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[briarrose]

Welcome. I am so very sorry for your loss.

[ada]

Hey there! Hope you are doing fine. I am so sorry for your loss. I can understand your situation. Because I also had a PCOS and didn't conceive for many years. But last year I opted surrogacy and I had become a mother of a baby girl.Surrogacy is a great alternative to have a baby if we cant naturally. Why you didn't consider IVF or surrogacy to fulfill your wish of being a mother. Wish you best of luck.Stay blessed.

[melissa]

Hello dear. I am sorry to read about your loss. You should not lose heart. And follow the instructions of doctor. I hope that you will conceive naturally. But in case you could not, you should find an alternative. Instead of waiting and wasting time, you should gather information about other options as well. I am an infertile lady. And I am now considering surrogacy or IVF from Ukraine. The clinics in Ukraine are best. I will suggest you the same. My advise is that whatever decision you are gonna take, do proper research on it. Then consult with doctors. And have faith on God. Good luck!

[lucia]

Hello there. It's nice to have a fellow HP fan! I've read your story and it's full of encouragement. I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors. You sound like a strong woman. We're all going through a similar rough situation and I hope we find success regarding it. We need each other's support!

[alicedy]

Hey. I am so sorry for your loss. It's really a bad feeling. I had also faced miscarriage 3 times. I had cervical Incompetence. So, I left infertile. I was really devastated. I tried many times but failed. I didn't give up. I moved towards some unnatural methods.IVF was not helpful for me as it was painful. Then, I decided to go for Surrogacy. I found it really helpful for me. Because now I have my own biological baby. I am so blessed to have her. I would suggest you go for Surrogacy immediately without any delay. I hope it works out for u too. Stay blessed.

[isabella]

Hey. I am so sorry for you. PCOS is another kind of infertility in some women. In some cases, it is hard for a woman to get pregnant. She has irregular or no periods. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you will get through it. My friend had it when she was young. She thought that it is not a big deal. She ignored it. Later she got married and she was happy. They tried to have a baby but failed. They went for treatment too but it just wasted their time. Later they went for IVF. She failed in the first cycle. In the end, they decided to go for surrogacy. Now she has a baby. she is happy with her decision.

[rilwa]

Hello. I am so sad for you. At times, it is hard for a lady to get pregnant with PCOS. She has sporadic or no periods. I am so sad for your misfortune. I trust you will overcome it. My sister had it when she was unmarried. She neglected it. Later she got a chance to conceive and she was glad. They endeavoured to have an infant, however, no luck. They went for treatment as well however it simply squandered their opportunity. Later they went for IVF. She flopped in the first cycle. At last, they chose to go for surrogacy. Presently she has an infant. she is content with her choice.

[marry]

May 9, 2017 3:06:16 GMT -5 professormcgonagall said:

Hey, I am Professor Mcgonagall. I am not actively TTC just yet but I am planning on going off my bcp at the end of this pack to start tracking my cycle. 

DH and I are both 26. I have PCOS. I have had one loss last September. My daughter was born via emergency c-section at 24 weeks due to a placental abruption. She was alive for 58 wonderful minutes. 
We were told they want at least 2 years in between deliveries because I have a classical incision. So we still have a little bit of time yet but it took well over a year to conceive before because I don't always ovulate and can go months in between periods. But I am working on getting healthy and hopefully get a grip on my body.

I have been lurking on this board for quite a while and am looking forward to giving and receiving support. 

Hey there ! I hope so you are fine . It’s very sad to hear about you . I can completely understand your situation . There is always a solution for every problem . You must opt surrogacy . My freind visited clinic in UK . It was successful . She is having kids now . So if you feel ok then go for it . Don’t waste your time . Make your life happy . Kids are rainbow in life of parents . Best of luck

[lisa88]

Hi. How are you doing? I hope things are great at your end. I can relate to your feelings. This pain is everlasting. I had miscarriages twice. I know the pain of losing an unborn baby. It really hurts when you try for so long and end up like this. My hopes are fading away now. My husband is not ready for surrogacy. My doctor has suggested us for IVF. My friend is also going through the same. Her third cycle got failed recently. I don't know if I should go for it now? I am afraid already. What if the same happens to me? Fingers crossed.