Nearly there Thursday

[robotpcr]

May 11, 2017 14:33:49 GMT -5 radtechgirl said:

May 11, 2017 14:28:42 GMT -5 robotpcr said:

Thanks lady.  This of course also means that DH will want me to go see them separately (instead of when FIL could see M and I would only have to interact with him minimally).  So mad.

I would put my foot down, and say I am Not making a separate trip for him to see M. He could come early to the party to see and leave when MIL shows up. Or he can come late to the party after MIL leaves.

Oh that's not a bad idea.  I think I will suggest that or say that DH can take M to see him without me.  I'm sure it will cause a big fight but I am not okay with this at all.

[robotpcr]

May 11, 2017 18:04:23 GMT -5 McBgg21 said:

robotpcr ug that's so fucking immature. Does he have no intentions of ever attending an event for his grandchild? Cause that's kinda just how it is when you're divorced, you GTF over it and suck it up for your kids/grandkids.

Signed, a child of divorced parents who've coexisted for 24 years for the sake of their mutual family.

Yeah, I guess not? I'm thinking ahead to big life events and I guess he will just miss them. It's sad and completely ridiculous. My MIL offered to not attend so he would go. I told her fuck no, he made the choice and that's on him.

[CatLady]

May 11, 2017 14:28:42 GMT -5 robotpcr said:

May 11, 2017 14:23:19 GMT -5 seventythree said:

This pretty much sums up how I feel about my own FIL, so I feel you. I'm sorry yours is being so childish about M's party, I'd be fuming too.

Thanks lady.  This of course also means that DH will want me to go see them separately (instead of when FIL could see M and I would only have to interact with him minimally).  So mad.

I would be so mad about all of this. At the end of the day, it's his loss.

[bethypoo83]

Oh no bwisco123! I hope she calmed down and went to sleep. Poor girl.

robotpcr As others have said, your FILs loss. But I would be pissed too. Can your DH speak to him about this?

[robotpcr]

May 11, 2017 20:37:04 GMT -5 bethypoo83 said:

Oh no bwisco123 ! I hope she calmed down and went to sleep. Poor girl.

robotpcr As others have said, your FILs loss. But I would be pissed too. Can your DH speak to him about this?

I wish.  This was the result of DH having a phone call with him.  But the 2 of us need to have a talk since I decided I am not going for a different visit.