Time is going by sooo fast and we still have so much to do!!! We need to get our basement cleaned so we can move the guest bedroom down there, then A needs to move into the guest bedroom so we can get her room ready for baby!!! Ahhhh!!!!
Time is going by sooo fast and we still have so much to do!!! We need to get our basement cleaned so we can move the guest bedroom down there, then A needs to move into the guest bedroom so we can get her room ready for baby!!! Ahhhh!!!!
I feel you!! We are in the middle of a construction project on the floors in the baby room so until it is done I can't do anything. Also we need to get DS a new dresser as he still has the one that matches the crib with the changing table on top since we just got out of diapers and doing the whole potty training thing last month. I have baby clothes to wash, baby stuff to organize...I am just sitting waiting and it is causing so much anxiety!! Also I really want to paint the baby room...
We did our hospital tour last weekend. The rooms have floor to ceiling windows and it's on the 6th floor so you can see for about 100 miles. Has anyone else done a tour?
Seeing this post reminded me to call! We're going to try and go this weekend so that H can go, but she said it will be a nurse doing the tour. If they're crazy, we'll have to come back. The hospital is only 5 minutes away, so no big deal. The lady I dealt with is who usually does them, but she's only there until 4 M-F and H can't get home until 5 or so. She said if they're too busy this weekend, one weekday she'll come back at 5 or so to meet us and do the tour after hours.
Is anyone else migrating over to SM?? There aren't BMBs (yet), but there are a few places to hang out!
I don't know what this is??
community.scarymommy.com (I think that's the link.)
Most of the regular posters on here from Parenting, Pregnancy, GKU, etc have migrated over there. I didn't want to lose my people, so I created an account today too. Not super different than here. Still getting used to it though.
Is anyone else migrating over to SM?? There aren't BMBs (yet), but there are a few places to hang out!
Eh I'm staying put. Here and the BMB for DS are really the only places I hang out anyway. And at this point with my other BMB we are close enough to find each other and stay in touch even if this place goes up in flames.
+1. I refuse to move unless BMBs are created and then I'll go if my BMBs go.
Eh I'm staying put. Here and the BMB for DS are really the only places I hang out anyway. And at this point with my other BMB we are close enough to find each other and stay in touch even if this place goes up in flames.
+1. I refuse to move unless BMBs are created and then I'll go if my BMBs go.
They did already create BMBs, but I think so far only 4 people from J17 are over there. At least we have the Facebook group to keep in touch if all else fails. MissSally, good timing with the group creation!
Anyone else having numbness in one thigh? It's been coming and going only on my right side for maybe a week. I think baby is low so maybe he's on a nerve? I have my usual appointment on Tuesday so I'll ask then
We need to tour ours. I haven't set it up, and at this point I don't know if it's going to happen because we are so busy basically until baby comes. Blah. It's all so overwhelming and I suddenly feel like there's no time to do anything.
The only thing I really needed to know was where we could leave our car, where we went when we got there and now I know I should have asked about registering. You can probably ask your doc those things at a regular appointment if you can't make the time for a tour. It's nice to see it ahead of time but they will take you where you need and get you set if you don't know.
+1. I refuse to move unless BMBs are created and then I'll go if my BMBs go.
They did already create BMBs, but I think so far only 4 people from J17 are over there. At least we have the Facebook group to keep in touch if all else fails. MissSally, good timing with the group creation!
Why is this place imploding all of a sudden?!? I feel so lost
+1. I have no clue what's happening or why. I don't like it at all.
I tried to read a few of the pages but it honestly sounds like a bunch of spoiled ladies whining because everything isn't exactly how they want it. I feel horrible for the admins. It makes me sad!
Anyone else having numbness in one thigh? It's been coming and going only on my right side for maybe a week. I think baby is low so maybe he's on a nerve? I have my usual appointment on Tuesday so I'll ask then
I have it on basically my entire left leg. It's annoying
They did already create BMBs, but I think so far only 4 people from J17 are over there. At least we have the Facebook group to keep in touch if all else fails. MissSally, good timing with the group creation!
How do we find said facebook group?
^^yes!! I want to know too, please. I said I was interested in the FB group but never heard anything else about it.
+1. I have no clue what's happening or why. I don't like it at all.
I tried to read a few of the pages but it honestly sounds like a bunch of spoiled ladies whining because everything isn't exactly how they want it. I feel horrible for the admins. It makes me sad!
TCF isn't going anywhere, but some people are leaving. This board (and others) will always be here unless one of them decides to show up and spam us with porn to get us shut down. I'd like to think they're not that big of assholes, but...
I'm staying. The two other boards where I spend my time are basically having no part in this foolishness.
I tried to read a few of the pages but it honestly sounds like a bunch of spoiled ladies whining because everything isn't exactly how they want it. I feel horrible for the admins. It makes me sad!
I think it's a little more nuanced than that, they "know" the admin team and there are still a lot of hurt feelings from TB exodus that had been brought back. I'm only there for parenting anyway, I'm staying here for the bmbs. Unless everybody goes to fb in which case I guess I go to SM.
I think that these boards might end up going away if no one is paying for the website anymore. I don't totally understand it but our mod lady for DS's BMB said we wouldn't be able to keep our board. We're moving to a separate proboard and some of the woman will still participate in the new parenting board on SM.
So no one is interested in moving to the J17 SM board?
I think it's a little more nuanced than that, they "know" the admin team and there are still a lot of hurt feelings from TB exodus that had been brought back. I'm only there for parenting anyway, I'm staying here for the bmbs. Unless everybody goes to fb in which case I guess I go to SM.
I think that these boards might end up going away if no one is paying for the website anymore. I don't totally understand it but our mod lady for DS's BMB said we wouldn't be able to keep our board. We're moving to a separate proboard and some of the woman will still participate in the new parenting board on SM.
So no one is interested in moving to the J17 SM board?
I don't think this is true. Proboards is free. Right now the only way TCF is going away is if someone maliciously attacks with something against the proboard TOU. I heard this directly from pretty much the most reliable source possible.
I'm only here for the BMB. I don't post anywhere else. I don't want drama, just wanna talk with you ladies! I know with my wedding board we moved to proboards for privacy, etc.
Well I say we continue business is usual until something drastic changes to our little group. I'm happy here, and I've grown quite attached to you all.
Yeah, if someone is spreading rumors that you HAVE to move to SM because TCF is shutting down, they're just being petty and vindictive.
The person who is saying this wants us to move to an independent private proboard. I honestly don't understand how this all works. I don't think she's being vindictive. Maybe I just misunderstood her.
Yeah, if someone is spreading rumors that you HAVE to move to SM because TCF is shutting down, they're just being petty and vindictive.
The person who is saying this wants us to move to an independent private proboard. I honestly don't understand how this all works. I don't think she's being vindictive. Maybe I just misunderstood her.
She's probably just worried you'll lose touch. I didn't mean to say anything bad about her. I just meant maybe she heard a rumor that started with someone who was being vindictive and trying to get everyone to move. It might be a good idea to share some contact info or create a backup place to go just in case (my other BMB did this too because I guess there were some threats to post porn in that big pinned thread) but there's really no reason to jump ship here. I don't want to have a bunch of different places to check each day.
I'm planning on staying on this BMB or our Facebook group, wherever we end up posting more. We're so close to having babies, I need someone to talk to in the middle of the night!
Post by AmazingTulip on May 19, 2017 9:20:05 GMT -5
I tried to figure out what was going on. I don't participate in enough of the boards to warrant moving. I had a hard enough time moving from TD to here, and I only moved because the loss community moved. Count me as staying put here for now.
Post by coconuthead on May 19, 2017 9:46:38 GMT -5
Wow. I didn't know all that stuff was going down. I would also be interested in the facebook group information please. It would actually make it easier for me to participate.
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