I'm not excited to go elsewhere, but if I'm being honest with myself, staying here doesn't feel great either.
There have been posts and intiatives from the Admins that I just can't agree with. I shouldn't stay in a relationship with someone I don't love just because I'm comfortable.
Can I ask what you don't like? The set up, the people over there?
The layout isn't much different than here to be honest.
I don't love how there isn't any rank. Not for conceited reasons but because with all the name changing, I can't tell who is their registered and who is ours.
I don't like how they have active threads from 1964 (obv exaggerated) with literally 4000 pages.
I don't like that you can't see love tit counts.
I don't like that it's different.
I like it here and I want all of my beloved posters here and I want a real solution from the damned admins or else we ignore them and bring newbs to us.
I have proof of at least one poster that came from cafe mom where I dropped a link and plus also a ton of lurkers have come out in this fiasco, let's keep them and drop more links.
Idk what I want I just don't like this big change.
Sorry, I realize this is more than what you probably wanted lol.
You keep saying this but after the way we were treated, I'll be damned before I build someone else's website.
The layout isn't much different than here to be honest.
I don't love how there isn't any rank. Not for conceited reasons but because with all the name changing, I can't tell who is their registered and who is ours.
I don't like how they have active threads from 1964 (obv exaggerated) with literally 4000 pages.
I don't like that you can't see love tit counts.
I don't like that it's different.
I like it here and I want all of my beloved posters here and I want a real solution from the damned admins or else we ignore them and bring newbs to us.
I have proof of at least one poster that came from cafe mom where I dropped a link and plus also a ton of lurkers have come out in this fiasco, let's keep them and drop more links.
Idk what I want I just don't like this big change.
Sorry, I realize this is more than what you probably wanted lol.
You keep saying this but after the way we were treated, I'll be damned before I build someone else's website.
I know what you mean and that is definitely a bad taste in my mouth as well.
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let's be the good people we are and mix into their board culture
I can only ever be myself. Which, personally I think is good people, but I understand that is not a universally accepted truth.
I am holding my snark for now. Someone posted about being a resident of the universe transplanted from the last century (basically direct quote) and I just kept scrolling. That behavior is numbered.
let's be the good people we are and mix into their board culture
I can only ever be myself. Which, personally I think is good people, but I understand that is not a universally accepted truth.
I am holding my snark for now. Someone posted about being a resident of the universe transplanted from the last century (basically direct quote) and I just kept scrolling. That behavior is numbered.
😂 Well yes.
There is something about kindness in their TOU, so maybe peruse those before killing off the alien.
let's be the good people we are and mix into their board culture
I can only ever be myself. Which, personally I think is good people, but I understand that is not a universally accepted truth.
I am holding my snark for now. Someone posted about being a resident of the universe transplanted from the last century (basically direct quote) and I just kept scrolling. That behavior is numbered.
So what about when every stops putting up their 'I just met you' nice front?
What if we get into it with their regs, our normal what we would move on from after argument/convo, and they start banning us for real?
I can only ever be myself. Which, personally I think is good people, but I understand that is not a universally accepted truth.
I am holding my snark for now. Someone posted about being a resident of the universe transplanted from the last century (basically direct quote) and I just kept scrolling. That behavior is numbered.
😂 Well yes.
There is something about kindness in their TOU, so maybe peruse those before killing off the alien.
Also this tou, didn't everyone move from the bump, aside from the bannings, because they were sick of having to throw glitter and not be able to be their regular snark selves without censoring?
Why would we pick a place that has rules on how real and upfront we can be?
Rules on niceness? I don't like that. Seems dodgy and toeing the line for some of us.
I can only ever be myself. Which, personally I think is good people, but I understand that is not a universally accepted truth.
I am holding my snark for now. Someone posted about being a resident of the universe transplanted from the last century (basically direct quote) and I just kept scrolling. That behavior is numbered.
So what about when every stops putting up their 'I just met you' nice front?
What if we get into it with their regs, our normal what we would move on from after argument/convo, and they start banning us for real?
I mean I don't think that's going to happen.
But at this point we had/have 3 options: 1. Stay here (which, no thank you please) 2. Go somewhere established and make it work - new and old posters, more chance of new posters at least every once in a while 3. Go somewhere (new PB) that isn't established and just accept that likely we will not get new posters regularly unless someone comes up with an executable biz plan and then executes it.
I am fine with 2 or 3. So realistically if 2 fails, we move on to 3.
I just have to say that yes, alot of shitty shit here lately from admins, but I really don't think that they are going to ban anybody here. I just don't.
The other place? I have no idea but I wouldn't bet a single penny that they wouldn't ban one of us in a heartbeat if we got into it with one of there regs.
It is a smaller community that is probably pretty close.
I haven't read the thread thay a few ppl are saying is misogynistic but what happens when these same women, who clearly have different fews then us, fight with one of our loved regs and someone we love gets banned.
Post by frankenboom on May 18, 2017 21:32:21 GMT -5
And I get the feeling of anxious AF over moving because I felt it when we came here. But here we are 2.5 years later and I adjusted to PB and then whatever that weird change was they made later down the road that annoyed me.
I mean. This business isn't acting right. I don't want to patronize it anymore.
Like even if SM ends up blowing is *here* really the only option? Methinks no.
let's be the good people we are and mix into their board culture
I can only ever be myself. Which, personally I think is good people, but I understand that is not a universally accepted truth.
I am holding my snark for now. Someone posted about being a resident of the universe transplanted from the last century (basically direct quote) and I just kept scrolling. That behavior is numbered.
Think of all the people we can convert to anti misogyny. We should think of ourselves as missionaries.
I just have to say that yes, alot of shitty shit here lately from admins, but I really don't think that they are going to ban anybody here. I just don't.
The other place? I have no idea but I wouldn't bet a single penny that they wouldn't ban one of us in a heartbeat if we got into it with one of there regs.
It is a smaller community that is probably pretty close.
I haven't read the thread thay a few ppl are saying is misogynistic but what happens when these same women, who clearly have different fews then us, fight with one of our loved regs and someone we love gets banned.
I'm just really anxious about all of this guys.
The thread we are talking about was not what they said to each other. It was a "if you could scream something at someone right now what would you say" and then a bunch of people "screamed" at whoever was in their life they are currently pissed off at.
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