swarley - if I don't get left behind, I'll let you know how bug is doing. She's in my prayers. She's amazing, and I hope those babies keep baking for an appropriately long time and then go home with her.
No one is going to let you get left behind-
I sent her a message a while ago and felt really stupid. I remember when she intro'ed back on the dump- it was not too long after I had my first loss. And her son is also Z. I just admire her strength and I'm rooting so hard for those babies.
So we just barged into somebody else's house with our dirty laundry and shit and broke they shit? We some classy bitches! Lol @officedronette @justinslovo wineandcake Somebody give me the password please?
So we just barged into somebody else's house with our dirty laundry and shit and broke they shit? We some classy bitches! Lol @officedronette @justinslovo wineandcake Somebody give me the password please?
Wellll apparently the mods there have done this before. And even SM members didn't like the heavy modding.
Now they have actually closed the forum, though. I think their mods were super snatches - well, at least some of them.
Post by babymamabeth on May 21, 2017 13:04:13 GMT -5
GUYS I LEAVE FOR A MINUTE (x like 6 months) AND THIS SHIT HAPPENS??
No but seriously I'm so sorry all this blew up, what a shit show. I just logged in to see what was up and had like 50 tags that I never got and burst into tears in the airport lounge. I keep up with so many of y'all on FB and IG and random lurking but I this was always home. Hugs to you ladies!
Diagnosis: PCOS TTC since 1/12 IUI x 3- BFN IVF #1- OCT/ NOV 2013-BFN FET #1- February 12 2014- M/C at 5+4 FET #2- July 2014- BFN IVF #2- 11/9/14 Transferred 1 BB expanding blast Baby girl born 7/26/15 Hysteroscopy/D&C/Polyp removal- 10/16 Unexpected BFP 12/16- EDD: 8/11/17- It's a Boy!
so... what about the sticky post from just now about how the forum isn't going anywhere?
Naria (admin) thinks that since nobody can agree on where to go they will all come back here. Or so Im reading on one of the other sites. I can't keep track.
Diagnosis: PCOS TTC since 1/12 IUI x 3- BFN IVF #1- OCT/ NOV 2013-BFN FET #1- February 12 2014- M/C at 5+4 FET #2- July 2014- BFN IVF #2- 11/9/14 Transferred 1 BB expanding blast Baby girl born 7/26/15 Hysteroscopy/D&C/Polyp removal- 10/16 Unexpected BFP 12/16- EDD: 8/11/17- It's a Boy!
Diagnosis: PCOS TTC since 1/12 IUI x 3- BFN IVF #1- OCT/ NOV 2013-BFN FET #1- February 12 2014- M/C at 5+4 FET #2- July 2014- BFN IVF #2- 11/9/14 Transferred 1 BB expanding blast Baby girl born 7/26/15 Hysteroscopy/D&C/Polyp removal- 10/16 Unexpected BFP 12/16- EDD: 8/11/17- It's a Boy!
Post by kristhegirl on May 22, 2017 10:41:41 GMT -5
I sincerely hope the BMB only board is temporary. Everyone can flock there but it is not the final answer.
I'm staying active on TCF until there is a final answer, but I am not comfortable here at all knowing what has come to light about the site owner. If you all move to the BMB only site, I'll move over and deactivate here. I still don't want it to be a permanent home, though.
This is probably not as big of a deal to those of you who only used our BMB but I did not and I want the whole gang together. Just not under this leadership.
I sincerely hope the BMB only board is temporary. Everyone can flock there but it is not the final answer.
I'm staying active on TCF until there is a final answer, but I am not comfortable here at all knowing what has come to light about the site owner. If you all move to the BMB only site, I'll move over and deactivate here. I still don't want it to be a permanent home, though. This is probably not as big of a deal to those of you who only used our BMB but I did not and I want the whole gang together. Just not under this leadership.
I'm trying to muster a little rage here, but it's pretty difficult. I don't know any of these people involved from Adam, and I'm really fucking pissed that their personal drama has now broken up my internet home. No matter what happens, we're broken and we won't all be together again.
The only leadership that impacts me is our BMB leadership, you know? Never in the past 2.5 years have I crossed paths with Naria, or any of the big mods, so, while I agree that she sucks...do we just not want to give this lying liar our ad revenue money?
kristhegirl, can't there just be a change in leadership without shutting the site down? can't the offending party be asked to step down and others can take over? this community already exists, why do we have to burn it to the ground when we could just restructure?
I'm trying to muster a little rage here, but it's pretty difficult. I don't know any of these people involved from Adam, and I'm really fucking pissed that their personal drama has now broken up my internet home. No matter what happens, we're broken and we won't all be together again.
kristhegirl , can't there just be a change in leadership without shutting the site down? can't the offending party be asked to step down and others can take over? this community already exists, why do we have to burn it to the ground when we could just restructure?
She won't step down. I could be wrong, but I "knew" her back on TB too and I definitely don't see her ever admitting that she could have stopped this whole thing from happening early last week. It's gone too far for too long and I don't see either side willing to admit their role in it.
Diagnosis: PCOS TTC since 1/12 IUI x 3- BFN IVF #1- OCT/ NOV 2013-BFN FET #1- February 12 2014- M/C at 5+4 FET #2- July 2014- BFN IVF #2- 11/9/14 Transferred 1 BB expanding blast Baby girl born 7/26/15 Hysteroscopy/D&C/Polyp removal- 10/16 Unexpected BFP 12/16- EDD: 8/11/17- It's a Boy!
She won't step down. I could be wrong, but I "knew" her back on TB too and I definitely don't see her ever admitting that she could have stopped this whole thing from happening early last week. It's gone too far for too long and I don't see either side willing to admit their role in it.
forgive my ignorance here, but aren't there multiple "big mods"? can't the others overrule her and strip her of her "powers"? or is the beef with all of the leadership? but where does this end? how does this not just happen again the next time everyone moves? i get moving away from the "evil corporate overlords" at TB, but this makes less sense to me.
vvvvvfee, If I'm not mistaken, Naria is the owner of the TCF brand, so it's not as simple as asking her to step down. Plus, the other two admins have stepped down completely as of the announcement made this morning.
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