Are you guys staying here with me?

[mrspiatt]

I'm not fully understanding what's going on with the migration. (I've only read a few things)
My plan at this point is to stay here. Do any of you know what you're doing yet?

[bethkate]

I'll probably be staying. I haven't ventured over to SM at all, but I'm reading there aren't BMBs, so I really have no interest in posting there.

[amadine23]

I'd like to be wherever this BMB is, so staying for now.

[mrspiatt]

Yeah- I rarely venture outside of the BMBs... so I definitely don't feel a need to go to a place without one.

[grumpycat88]

Straddling still. My other BMB just moved over to Facebook.

[mrspiatt]

May 19, 2017 21:31:42 GMT -5 grumpycat88 said:

Straddling still. My other BMB just moved over to Facebook.

My other BMB is 1/2 FB and 1/2 here, although they just made a thread on SM in case TCF goes poof.

[southernbelle]

I don't understand a lot of it but what I do understand is totally f'ed up. And the part I understand involves one of my fellow 015ers being treated so badly, I really don't know if I can stay here for pure principal alone. Which makes me sad because I love that bmb and
Would love to have another great bmb experience with this baby.
I don't have fb so that option is out. If anyone wants to create a private pb account that would be great! Anyone want to go that route?

[grumpycat88]

Miss Killjoy are you at SM?

[blabbermouth]

This BMB is the only place I post and I don't tend to get wrapped up in mod/admin drama (and there is some on every board I've ever posted on!). I guess I haven't been here long enough to care/understand all the stuff that's going on, but I'm not feeling personally offended and wanting to leave. I'm lazy. Change is hard.

[izz67]

May 19, 2017 23:04:38 GMT -5 buttercup said:

I was fine with staying until the last couple of hours. Nope. I can't. Naria was pretty low and then her failed attempt to clear things up firmed up my decision not to stay.

I really like the BMB and want to stay together. I am not interested in going to a site with no BMB or joining a huge BMB. Please keep me updated on the plans.

My other BMB is more established and all the regs jumped to FB. I don't post much on other boards anyway.

This is where I am right now. Have you created an account at SM? If you have, there is a N17 thread (I've heard their working on getting a board) I can tag you in. If your interested, of course.
ETA: I'm not trying to persuade anyone one way or the other, as I'm still a litle unsure myself. I just want everyone to have access to SM, just in case.

[beefinch]

I'm staying here. I don't know what's happening, and I don't really care what's going on.

Staying with my BMB 💖

[cnf2013]

I know shit was dropped in the talk thread, but I just don't have it in me to go dig around for it. I'll stay here on this bmb unless we all chose to migrate elsewhere. One giant thread for a bmb is a disaster waiting to happen.

[cnf2013]

May 20, 2017 5:31:55 GMT -5 buttercup said:

I really don't like sm though. I just get a weird vibe.

Same.

[bethkate]

May 20, 2017 6:28:39 GMT -5 Miss Killjoy said:

May 20, 2017 4:22:56 GMT -5 beefinch said:

I'm staying here. I don't know what's happening, and I don't really care what's going on.

Staying with my BMB 💖

I said this on my other BMB and I'll say it here: I do not understand how people can say they don't care what's going on. You don't have to have feelings about what went down or how it went down to know that this affects you regardless. I don't see this site as sustainable in the long term and that means our BMB's days are numbered here. It's good to make other plans before this place poofs.

If SM is saying no to BMBs, that doesn't sound like a great option either. Sounds like we need another plan.

[Deleted]

I made an account at SM but I don't really see myself posting over there much. I still don't quite understand the mod drama but it seems like Naria was being super shady. I do wonder how long she'll keep the site up if the traffic dips way down.

[bethkate]

May 20, 2017 7:13:22 GMT -5 @iheartmyshiba said:

It's early for FB but I'd pick that over SM if anyone wants a group for us there. That's where my other BMB went after the implosion 1.0.

It would just be a daily thread or something over there,right?

[grumpycat88]

Can we start a free board on proboards? Or is that a lot of work?

[fknhostile]

I'm trying to sift through multiple posts on parenting figuring this all out.

I would like to stay here but I completely understand wanting to leave, so if we come to an agreement to leave I will come. I don't do FB, I don't like it, but I'll figure it out if that's where we migrate.

I know nothing of starting a free proboards site, but if that's an option...?

[fknhostile]

Should we set up a buddy plan in case this place implodes without notice??

[beefinch]

I'm not internet savvy enough to know where to go if this place disappears. But with my May15 BMB we use FB group.

But I know some guys here don't have FB, and I don't want them to feel like we are sectioning them out.

I have no idea what went on or what it's even about, I found the thread but it was 3000+ pages at that point and don't have time for that. If somebody could post a TLDR version that'll be great lol

[twotxmommies]

I'm staying

[twotxmommies]

Fknhostile good idea with buddy plan.
I recall when this happened with TB and so many were left scratching heads wondering where everyone went.

[Deleted]

I think I'm going to have to go. I would prefer to use SM as at least a regrouping grounds until we can make other plans because I truly don't feel comfortable posting here anymore.

If you choose not to move I understand and will miss you. Here's to you beautiful people and your babies if this is it for us.💛

[spacedcadet]

I don't post over here much but I don't plan on staying here. My other bmb is in the process of looking into another pb possibly with at least one other bmb. Maybe that's an option if several bmbs go in on it? I have an acct on SM so I can check there for updates as well in the meantime. I would like to attempt to get more involved with you guys if we can find an acceptable solution.

[fknhostile]

May 20, 2017 8:44:44 GMT -5 spacedcadet said:

I don't post over here much but I don't plan on staying here. My other bmb is in the process of looking into another pb possibly with at least one other bmb. Maybe that's an option if several bmbs go in on it? I have an acct on SM so I can check there for updates as well in the meantime. I would like to attempt to get more involved with you guys if we can find an acceptable solution.

I like this idea. Maybe merging Oct 17 and Dec 17?

I did just try to create a proboard and it was ridiculously easy to do.

[Deleted]

So I waded through a little more of the epic dumpster fire thread "the talk"...I think I am just going to take a break, this shit is just getting too weird. I'm going to check my old posts for any personal identifying info (I dont trust that to the admin) - I would request a mass delete but who knows if that would even be honored?

Best of luck to all of you and your babes!

[peggels24]

buttercup Thanks so much for the rundown. I've been so busy this week that I am completely lost. I'm gonna try to stay wherever you guys wind up. I will make a SM account later or tomorrow and find y'all

[fknhostile]

May 20, 2017 11:47:30 GMT -5 @thatgolfbitch said:

May 20, 2017 7:35:44 GMT -5 fknhostile said:

Should we set up a buddy plan in case this place implodes without notice??

I'm down. I am pretty easily findable on SM right now, so people could find me, but I want to be able to flag down the other more infrequent posters.

that's what I'm worried about too. There's so many members who don't post on the weekends and I don't want anyone left in the dust (that's if TCF disappears).

[theiowagirl]

I'm gone for a weekend and check in this morning to see its all went to hell. Someone tell me where we are going!!

[fknhostile]

May 22, 2017 8:52:17 GMT -5 theiowagirl said:

I'm gone for a weekend and check in this morning to see its all went to hell. Someone tell me where we are going!!

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