Post by allisong87 on Jun 21, 2017 22:33:48 GMT -5
Some of us didn't ask for our content to be deleted, even if we no longer post here, and for good reason.
Many of us have gone through shit (JUST LIKE YOU) and needed support from our community and sometimes still need to go back to reflect and go to that safe space again.
Most of us have written the birth stories of our children on here and again would like them as a reflection of that time in our life.
So we'd appreciate it if you stopped being a child and deleting our fucking posts.
WTF NariaDreaming? I have been patient but no response for days on locking threads and now they are deleted or moved or whatever. You said this place wasn't going anywhere so what the fuck is going on?
And I know you guys don't give a single fuck about perceived excuses, however the last week has been really rough. The meds I'm on to stop the constant vomiting leading to my 20 pound crash diet have the unfortunate effect of vision disturbances, which has made accessing this site from my laptop difficult as I can't focus. The majority of my internet usage has been voice to text and hoping autocorrect doesn't fail me too hard.
That's why I've been absent. It's not my preference. However if I have to choose between seeing things or eating things, right now I'm choosing eating things.
It appears most of the posts have been moved, not deleted, so I'll be using the security log to move things back to their intended location once I can focus long enough to do so.
I didn't see any mod's names. How do we know who actually did the moving? Can't you undo it as Admin?
First column. It was LED that moved them all.
It does appear most have been moved, not deleted. I should be able to move things back once I can actually see (see prior post). IT will take a few days once I'm finally feeling well enough to do so.
Thanks. I don't have my glasses on. Obviously I cannot see without them.
I feel you on the seeing things part.
Wallie also contributed to the chaos the past few days. I'm not going to screenshot the entire security log. But here's the receipts for the multiple locked threads.
Is there a possibility they became angry when you ignored multiple tags and requests?
I'm certain they did. However I am one human dealing with more health crap than I care to deal with. And I hadn't ignored tags, I hadn't logged in since last Tuesday because of how poorly I've been feeling.
Again, I'm glad there are still people who care to be here and contribute. And I welcome all to do so. However due to my health, my involvement has been and will be limited for the foreseeable future.
Is there a possibility they became angry when you ignored multiple tags and requests?
I'm certain they did. However I am one human dealing with more health crap than I care to deal with. And I hadn't ignored tags, I hadn't logged in since last Tuesday because of how poorly I've been feeling.
Again, I'm glad there are still people who care to be here and contribute. And I welcome all to do so. However due to my health, my involvement has been and will be limited for the foreseeable future.
I'm certain they did. However I am one human dealing with more health crap than I care to deal with. And I hadn't ignored tags, I hadn't logged in since last Tuesday because of how poorly I've been feeling.
Again, I'm glad there are still people who care to be here and contribute. And I welcome all to do so. However due to my health, my involvement has been and will be limited for the foreseeable future.
Did you tell Led and Wallflwr926 these things?
Neither of them reached out to me off-board in the past week with concerns. the TCF email is included under this avatar, and I would have responded had they been concerned enough to send an email.
I've been purposely logging on under this account when doing requested deletions and answering posts because it doesn't have a pregnancy ticker or my loss history, and I don't have to remember to disable my sig. This is honestly the first time in days that I've had my laptop out for more than a minute or two and been able to read the screen.
That being said, I'm signing off because the headache is returning. I'm looking forward to the point where I can be actively engaged again.
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And I know you guys don't give a single fuck about perceived excuses, however the last week has been really rough. The meds I'm on to stop the constant vomiting leading to my 20 pound crash diet have the unfortunate effect of vision disturbances, which has made accessing this site from my laptop difficult as I can't focus. The majority of my internet usage has been voice to text and hoping autocorrect doesn't fail me too hard.
That's why I've been absent. It's not my preference. However if I have to choose between seeing things or eating things, right now I'm choosing eating things.
It appears most of the posts have been moved, not deleted, so I'll be using the security log to move things back to their intended location once I can focus long enough to do so.
Hey you don't know me. I was a poster on CAL and GKU and I'm just gonna say it here although you chronically ignore the hell out of people. That little shitty quip about frying your baby's brain while having a stomach virus was unnecessary, heartless and disgusting. As a mom who actually miscarried while in the throws of a nasty stomach virus, that statement was nasty, hateful and gave me a visual I will never be rid of. Also, don't run a message board if you can't handle the pregnancy and your job. Shut it down for a time or hand it to someone else for awhile and quit expecting everyone to just accept your damn radio silence followed by hateful responses that imply that everyone wants you to be sick for their convenience. If a CEO of a company is too sick to do their job, they need to step aside for awhile. Same goes for you.
Quite honestly, NariaDreamingTCF News, you seem to be in way over your head. I've been as patient and as kind as I can be over all this. But there were issues when there were 3 admins. Now there is 1, and that 1 has serious medical issues right now. It is totally understandable that you can't deal with issues instantly anymore, but someone should be accessible in less than a 4-5 day time span. You need to close the site or get help you can trust and you need to do it like now. Add in the very real possibility of revenge fuckery which may have been the case here, and you REALLY need help. It isn't fair to those who still use the site to let the walls crash down around them.
I say this sincerely and without snark. NariaDreamingTCF News you need help with this forum/site/whatever it is. You posted about "office hours" so everyone knew when you were available. I assume that's no longer truth. I'm sorry for your medical issues, but if you think your ability to get on a laptop is going to improve when you give birth....well. It won't. It'll always be something, especially because you're the type where there always is something. And that's fine. But be honest about your abilities and your responsibilities. To say you can no longer do content deletions -- which one one of your responsibilities here -- is ridiculous. To have no mods and come right out and say you won't be here on a daily basis to do any kind of adminning is ridiculous and potentially dangerous.
I also personally think you need to have a ctj with yourself about when to say when.
Since becole seems to be on more than the admin, maybe she can clear this up.
I know there is some alternate reality about who some posters think I am or what I'm about but I have nothing to do with any of this. I was checking tags as a mod for my M14 girls so I saw that you tagged me. No thank you to any more targets on my back for trying to be helpful in deleting spam and then being talked about for not doing my "job" around here, doing it wrong, not doing it quickly enough. What the fuck ever. No thank you.
And just to add my 2 cents because well that is who I am...
Let me get this straight... old mods from APTM came back over here and were fucking around with threads when they don't want to post here. And then people blame NariaDreaming because of course they would.
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