When other people get pregnant.

[ccmartinez]

Two years ago my teenage sister-in-law got pregnant, “on accident”. I tried my hardest to be supportive during her pregnancy but it was hard. And then when the baby finally came I disagreed on almost every parenting decision, but I said nothing because it wasn’t my child. But when kids with no stability or security in their lives can have a baby without trying, and I have to sit their knowing that will never happen for me it’s hard.
Now I just found out she is pregnant again. And this time I felt completely shut down. I did not congratulate her. I am not happy for her. I am not happy. I don’t even want to be around her because I’m not sure what emotions will come out.
I’m not sure how to get through it this time.

[monika]

Hey, I hope you're feeling better. I can completely understand what you might be going through. Infertility jealousy is a thing and we can't ignore it. I know that knowing about others pregnancy does hurt. However, we have to be strong and stay positive. I would suggest that you research about options for you. There are so many assisted conception methods that exist. You just have to research about the right one. I myself started a process! This is because on this journey you should never give up. I hope things get better for you. Start channeling your mind towards other things. It is really important to keep yourself busy at this point. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.

[sheilahayes]

Hi. I think you should be more supportive of her. Parenthood is a blessing not many get to have. We have to literally buy back our parenthood. I went to this clinic in Europe for our surrogacy. We've paid a lot to get this happiness. She is very lucky to have this naturally. You should be more supportive of her.

[sarah321]

I know this feeling, dear. I know you that it seems like you're an unlucky woman. People who don't deserve get all they desire. But don't worry, God has different plans for people like us. He guided me and I ended up having a child through an IVF treatment from a clinic in Ukraine. I pray that your miracle happens too and your life is full of happiness. Best wishes!

[isladerek]

Stay strong! don't do that! You've to show some grace. I know it happens. But, you can blame her or yourself. Don't lose hope. Keep going! Focus on yourself! Things work that way! You need be a strong women now. Face things! Sending a lot of love and support.

[martina005]

Hey there! I can understand your emotions. Infertility is a curse happen in a life. Well, I suggest you should stay calm and be positive. Why should you not go for an alternative? I was also declared infertile by the doctors because of hysterectomy owing to cancer spread. I opted for surrogacy. Now our surrogate is going to give birth to twin baby dolls soon. I suggest you should go for an alternative. Hope it will help you out.

[isladerek]

You need be stronger dear! I know it's not easy! So, yeah! Concentrate on yourself. Be fine to others. That's the key to life. Stay blessed darling! I know you can. Support is with you. BEST WISHES!

[karsynne]

I am really sorry for your wife. Infertility sucks. Every woman wishes to have babies without any problem. But, no one can change what have written in fate. Surrogacy is a good procedure. It is a successful procedure. It is a hope for many women. You will not face any difficulty in this procedure. And try to visit the best clinic. Which provide a healthy surrogate. I have also a child through surrogacy. I and my husband are very happy. I wish you the best of luck.

[mirandajames]

Hi. I know it feels terrible. I understand. But you need to rise above. Be happy for your friends. I know things are not easy and it is easier said than done. But things will work out for you too. Just be open to more options. Good luck. Feel better.

[trisha098]

I feel you, girl. This is really. I'm really sorry that you feel this way. This is so common and completely okay. Don't worry. Good things will happen to you too for sure. You should congratulate her and let her know that you are there for her. You should consider getting fertility treatments. I know of a very affordable place you could go to. Hope things work out.

[jennifer123]

I can understand that this can be very hard to go through. However, you are not alone in this. Everyone gets to experience these feelings. I hope things work out for you. Just make sure to visit an expereinced doctor for your process. The more doctor is experienced the more are the chances of success. Sending baby dust your way.

[hally]

I can understand how you feel. It's really natural, you know. It's okay to feel this way. You shouldn't expect so much from yourself. Don't be too harsh on yourself. Good luck to you. I hope you conceive. I'm sure things will instantly get better, once you do!

[linda]

I can understand your situation. It's alright to be sad. I had a really tough time trying to conceive, as well. It's one of those situations that you just cannot control. But, it will pass. Just don't overthink. It's okay to feel this way. We all have one time or another!

[lucia]

Hey, honey. I know, this can be really tough. Don't be too hard on yourself. It's perfectly fine to feel this way. We are humans after all. We can't completely change the reality of the situation and be nice in every case. I just hope this difficult phase passes and you get to conceive. Sending baby dust!