Post by juanab on Jan 10, 2019 21:45:30 GMT -5
Ok I have never been apart of any online support groups or chat rooms and so I'm trying this out to see if it helps us get through this. Here is our story (pls bear with me when it comes to the abbreviations I dont know many of them):
My DH & I have been married 4 years we are both coming up on 40 yrs. Old fast. He has children from previous relationships and I have 1 wonderful girl from a previous relationship. We started trying a month after getting married and didnt get pregnant until almost a year later. We had a m/c at 9 weeks, but didnt pay it much mind cause those things happen. 6 months later pregnant again but another m/c 2 days later. After the 2nd 1 we decided to have some tests done. Dr. Did all the initial regular tests on me and all my stuff was normal. And about a year 1/2 ago I switched OBs, then a month later we had an unviable pregnancy. And yet again this OB ran same test with same results but suggested some genetic test after my D&C with the tissue, but unfortunately someone forgot to save the tissue. We never ended up getting that test. Then on Dec. 16th 2018 my hubby rushed me to the hospital because I was having extreme bleeding. Found out we were 6 wks preggers and there was a hemerage that was causing the severe bleeding but ultrasound showed baby was fine and my levels we great. Long story short 2 more ER visits and 2 US later I miscarried, AGAIN!
DH and I discussed it and at the time agreed on not trying anymore, but there is that part of me that is not ready to give up just quit yet. Seen the dr today and she gave me info on Fertility specialists, IVF & other treatments. I would like to at least try, I would love nothing more then for me and the hubby to have a baby that is part him and part me.
My DH & I have been married 4 years we are both coming up on 40 yrs. Old fast. He has children from previous relationships and I have 1 wonderful girl from a previous relationship. We started trying a month after getting married and didnt get pregnant until almost a year later. We had a m/c at 9 weeks, but didnt pay it much mind cause those things happen. 6 months later pregnant again but another m/c 2 days later. After the 2nd 1 we decided to have some tests done. Dr. Did all the initial regular tests on me and all my stuff was normal. And about a year 1/2 ago I switched OBs, then a month later we had an unviable pregnancy. And yet again this OB ran same test with same results but suggested some genetic test after my D&C with the tissue, but unfortunately someone forgot to save the tissue. We never ended up getting that test. Then on Dec. 16th 2018 my hubby rushed me to the hospital because I was having extreme bleeding. Found out we were 6 wks preggers and there was a hemerage that was causing the severe bleeding but ultrasound showed baby was fine and my levels we great. Long story short 2 more ER visits and 2 US later I miscarried, AGAIN!
DH and I discussed it and at the time agreed on not trying anymore, but there is that part of me that is not ready to give up just quit yet. Seen the dr today and she gave me info on Fertility specialists, IVF & other treatments. I would like to at least try, I would love nothing more then for me and the hubby to have a baby that is part him and part me.