I enjoy sex with myself lately... But it's just so quick and nothing to deal with afterward. As long as it's not a weeknight I'll put out for DH, because I feel guilty about taking care of myself behind his back. It's just none of the recommended positions for pregnancy are comfortable for me, so it's always so much work.
Is there anyone else out there who's feelin like a completely hornball sex driven wanna bone all the time perv right now??!? I have had a migraine for a week straight and at least 4 days a week for the past month. A good solid sexsession is pretty much the only thing that relieves my headache! So maybe Im actually not horny, and its just medical?
Whenever I have a headache my H always tells me that sex will heal it, never works for me though!
FFFC: I'm a total chickenshit and while I'd love to post a pic for just you ladies to see because I'm absolutely cool with those who participate here seeing it, I'm not cool with the potential weird lurky-loos and pic thieves. Especially DS1, I'm so protective of what goes out on the internet about him even though he's stinking adorable and I'd love to show him off. I fail, sorry ladies.
Also on the no-sex train of late, but it is our own fault. We need to actively make time for it and don't.
Yup, wink568, I hear ya. I have had very little sex drive, which is sadly normal for me a lot of the time... but we haven't had ST since I got pregnant!
I had a few hornball dreams awhile back, and H wasn't around so I just helped myself and went back to bed. There were also a few nights I was in the mood (FINALLY) and he was downstairs... I could have called him up, but that's too much work, so again, helped myself and went to bed.
So much easier, faster, and more comfortable at this point.
I do feel bad for H, but at the same time, he can help himself too until I'm in the mood, I'm allowed (currently on pelvic rest so I can't even help myself sadly), or until after baby is here.
Is there anyone else out there who's feelin like a completely hornball sex driven wanna bone all the time perv right now??!? I have had a migraine for a week straight and at least 4 days a week for the past month. A good solid sexsession is pretty much the only thing that relieves my headache! So maybe Im actually not horny, and its just medical?
This is me every pregnancy. And I don't have migraines.
Is there anyone else out there who's feelin like a completely hornball sex driven wanna bone all the time perv right now??!? I have had a migraine for a week straight and at least 4 days a week for the past month. A good solid sexsession is pretty much the only thing that relieves my headache! So maybe Im actually not horny, and its just medical?
After all of our cookie talk on here I went to Whole Foods for lunch and bought an entire tin of cookies and dessert bars and totally forgot that I ordered a cookie bouquet to be delivered to H today for his birthday. We are about to have way too many cookies up in our kitchen (and bellies).
Just found out fiancé is taking me out on a hot date tonight. We're going out for sushi and I will be indulging in some raw rolls.
I'm going for Japanese too! Definitely going to get a couple of pieces of the raw stuff. Not a lot but just enough to satisfy my love for the stuff. Enjoy your sushi!!
My confession: I don't think telling my husband counts as breaking a confidence unless someone specifically asks me not to. When I'm being extra good or it's a sensitive issue, I'll ask and make sure that I can, but 1) DH isn't a gossip, 2) secrets are horrible burdens for people to hold and I feel like everyone needs to be able to talk to someone about it.
I agree to this! I tell my husband everything!! Besides, who's he going to tell?
Agree with both of you. I don't think anyone should ask someone to keep a secret from their spouse. It's similar to how I feel about kids not having secrets with adults who aren't their parents.
I agree to this! I tell my husband everything!! Besides, who's he going to tell?
Agree with both of you. I don't think anyone should ask someone to keep a secret from their spouse. It's similar to how I feel about kids not having secrets with adults who aren't their parents.
The first thing my best friend said to me after I got married was, "Just so you know, whenever I tell you a secret now, I don't expect that you won't tell D. Husbands are the exception to the secret-keeping rule." And she wasn't even married herself yet at that point - that's why she's my BFF! I find it really hard to be friends with people who keep secrets from their spouse.
My FFFC makes me sound so pathetic! I'm on my babymoon/family vacation in Disneyworld and I checked my work email (without really having to).... twice... while I've been here. Ugh I just can't disconnect sometimes!
Confession: I'm ridiculously excited about my shower (which is super early...March 8) and already have a dress. And I may or may not stalk my online registry every day.
My glucose test is in about 3 weeks and I keep opening the fridge, seeing that orange drink and really wanting to drink it.
Ha!!! Do it. You will be very sorry. I'm dreading that God awful drink .
Also on the no sexy time train. I warned SO about this though. When we were TTC he was getting "too tired" some nights. I warned him what would happen when I got knocked up. My dreams are way better than the real thing. So damn awkward and uncomfortable.
Post by wegrowsheep on Feb 21, 2015 0:57:16 GMT -5
I am bothered by my weight. I gained double my goal in the last 4 weeks. I know, big deal,but I was hoping to have a little more control over some aspect of my body besides my armpit hair.
And no, my OB and my nurse don't care, still within "normal range," but it irks me.
You know that line in mean girls when the gross guy asks Cady if he can "Butter her muffin"? I always knew it was something dirty but my husband finally told me what it meant a couple months ago because I admitted that fact to him. I think he was more shocked than anything at my naivety.
What does it mean? I always figured like sex or something like that.
I've been pregnant for over half of SO and my relationship.. as in, our first date was in May 2014, 4 months later I got pregnant, and now I'm 5 months pregnant! This is more of a WTF realization than a confession I guess. It occurred to me the other day and I was like hey babe, do you realize I've been pregnant more than half the time we've known each other?! And then we both just laughed and agreed that we love it!
Same for SO and I! We laugh about it all the time.
Post by pghtruelove on Feb 21, 2015 3:22:04 GMT -5
I'm jumping on the I hate pregnancy bandwagon. I am very thankful that it is so easy for me to get pregnant and that I can, but man I have every suck symptom there is. Constant bloody noses, always sick, always tired, Braxton hicks, RLP, if I do any activity for more than 10 mins even like cleaning or laundry I'm I so much pain I pass out. I'm extremely horny but having an orgasm is the most painful of everything. I have an extremly painful contraction that I could mistake for labor and it lasts for about 10 mins. I'm hairy and ugh sorry I had to complain. My first pregnancy was wonderful(I guess it doI any really count I was 13 and in amazing shape) but it was wonderful! I couldn't wait to be pregnant again after that. And labor was super easy with her! Now in just so so so scared of labor.
Sorry for my rant. I started bawling while writing this.
I want all the sex and I've had it once since getting bfp. I've always been the one to initiate in my relationship with dh and it kills me that the "No sex after marriage" came true and it's not my fault! If I think about it too much, it makes me want to cry.
Oh and I really don't enjoy having sex with myself, I'm not good at it, no matter how much I try.
Completely different topic confession: I purposely have sugary things just so I can feel the baby move. I'm currently doing my one hour glucose test and am loving that baby is going crazy!
Completely different topic confession: I purposely have sugary things just so I can feel the baby move. I'm currently doing my one hour glucose test and am loving that baby is going crazy!
I do this too! The other day I ate several Girl Scout cookies just to feel him move. He didn't and I just felt sick.
I'm in the minority, apparently. I have all the sex drive. DH has none. Once in 6 weeks is really not doing it for me right now.
Same here! I want it all the time, but DH's sex drive has definitely decreased since we've gotten pregnant. I'm going nuts! Practically ripped DH's clothes off when he got home the other night... I am so glad I'm not the only one!
Ok I have to make another confession: my niece (4) and nephew (10) slept over last night and I'm thoroughly making the most of being fun Aunt Meghan before I have to be rule-enforcing Mommy! Last night we spread tarps all over the living room and did "foot painting" where we literally painted our feet and hands, then stepped on papers in various designs. Then we ate chocolate cake and watched movies till midnight. This morning we had pancakes smothered in strawberries and chocolate syrup. They're probably going to be monsters today but they had fun and that's all I care about. Sorry crazy SIL....lol
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