Sad News Today ***loss mentioned***

[purpledaisy923]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[beachbum913]

I am so, so sorry. Take all the time you need for yourself.

[wazzu08]

My heart hurts for you. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. It's ok to ask for space and postpone the visitors. This is the time to be selfish take care of yourself. Big hugs.

[gsancho]

I posted on 3TIF, but wanted to say again how sorry I am...T&Ps for you and your DH.

[cbnola71]

I'm so so so sorry for your loss. Huge hugs!

[amshark]

I am so sorry to read this. Do what you need to heal. If you think the distraction of having friends visit would be good, let them come, but don't feel guilty about cancelling or asking them to postpone either. I think it would be especially difficult if they are staying in your home - so maybe a compromise, like having them stay in a hotel would work? Just some thoughts - this is a decision for you and DH to make.

When I had my loss back in April, I returned to the RE for several visits to monitor the heartbeat and confirm the loss. Having to return a number of times, and dragging out the loss was very difficult, but I think I would do it again, because for me, I felt having confirmation that the heartbeat had stopped completely.

I was given an option of a D&C or medicine to induce the m/c. I had read about several very unpleasant experiences with the medication, so I opted for the D&C.

There is currently a thread on the GBCB Pregnancy Loss board about D&C/D&E Experiences. You might find it useful to read through these:
goodbyecb.proboards.com/thread/1120/experiences

((hugs))

[SweetieShellie]

I'm soo sorry vballbaby I've been there and I know it can be a long hard road to heal from a loss. Take all the time you need (((hugs)))

[daydreamernyc]

So sorry, it's so important though to take the time you need a grieve. Life does go on, but that does not mean at the expense of grieving. This is a really emotional and hard process. It's not easy for us!!

[vballbaby]

Feb 27, 2015 0:34:18 GMT -5 amshark said:

I am so sorry to read this. Do what you need to heal. If you think the distraction of having friends visit would be good, let them come, but don't feel guilty about cancelling or asking them to postpone either. I think it would be especially difficult if they are staying in your home - so maybe a compromise, like having them stay in a hotel would work? Just some thoughts - this is a decision for you and DH to make.

When I had my loss back in April, I returned to the RE for several visits to monitor the heartbeat and confirm the loss. Having to return a number of times, and dragging out the loss was very difficult, but I think I would do it again, because for me, I felt having confirmation that the heartbeat had stopped completely.

I was given an option of a D&C or medicine to induce the m/c. I had read about several very unpleasant experiences with the medication, so I opted for the D&C.

There is currently a thread on the GBCB Pregnancy Loss board about D&C/D&E Experiences. You might find it useful to read through these:
goodbyecb.proboards.com/thread/1120/experiences

((hugs))

Thank you and to everyone who has shown me so much love and support here, I really appreciate it.  I'm meeting with my OB Monday and he's going to perform another ultrasound just for my piece of mind really, I'm not sure if that's his protocol since he'll be doing the D&C but I think I'll feel better knowing I double checked. My DH says he can't bear to be there for that so I understand. I did read through those threads on the loss board and it helped me make my decision, thank you.

[juneroses]

I'm so, so sorry. T &p for you and DH.

[Deleted]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

[viola]

I am so very sorry for your loss.