Wednesday randoms
Mar 4, 2015 13:25:06 GMT -5
Post by ohinvrtedworld on Mar 4, 2015 13:25:06 GMT -5
I've been at work for almost an hour. I've done literally nothing besides getting on the internet and flipping the door sign from Closed to Open. I see nothing getting done in the near future, either.
Also, I could use your thoughts.
DH's work has been getting broken into frequently over the last two weeks. It's an electrical supply warehouse and they've had trucks and their pipe yard broken into. There's also been one or two car break-ins during the really early morning hours when the north driver gets there to start heading north to Santa Fe for deliveries. DH was late at work and saw a couple guys with bolt cutters making their way toward the truck entrance gates. So, he yelled at them and they took off to their pickup and he chased them out of the parking lot. Then, he calls me and says he's going to check the neighborhood nearby where their stolen GPS is sending a signal from to see if he could spot their vehicle.
Is it just me, or would anyone else be super upset at his decision if it was their SO doing it? He got pissed at me because I said it was a dumb choice and I was mad that he was fine with making me upset so he could do his "I'm not a soldier anymore but this makes me feel more like one again" thing. I know I should've kept my mouth shut about it until we weren't with my parents because I'm sure he felt it emasculated him, but good grief. He didn't even come to bed with me last night, he just shut himself into his man cave all night. He did apologize this morning but he never apologized for what he did, just for flying off the handle last night about it when I said what I did.
I'm sorry, but that's what the police are for (even though DPD here takes a long time). I definitely would be angry and be pushing for just calling the cops and being done with it, especially if the crimes aren't violent crimes (yet). If you talk about it again, as you probably should/will, be sure to emphasize that if something happened to him, it really deeply would hurt you. My H didn't fully get it until I framed it that way.