Post by sweetbrier on Jan 20, 2015 15:53:37 GMT -5
Holy fuck that hospital sounds awful. Pushing you off for days and then your doctor offering zero support when you're going through all of this. I hope the hospital you're going to is much more supportive. Get some rest hun!
Wait. The guests she was harassing you about were the APs?? That is terrible.
I hope you have a better experience at the new place. I don't get why they wanted to induce but then when it didn't work, they were just like "Welp nvm. Off you go!" Either they're concerned or they're not. So sorry you're dealing with this! Hoping baby comes soon.
Post by ladyviking on Jan 20, 2015 16:41:06 GMT -5
What you've been through is not how anyone wants to give birth. I hope a new hospital provides you with a breath of fresh air and you are given options you feel comfortable with. Good luck!
Approach this new hospital as a whole new experience. It's their job to take care of you, comfort you, and support you. I'm proud of your for advocating for yourself in the midst of all this bullshit. That's really impressive. Your APs have to be thrilled, having seen that you are the special person you are.
Yeah the AP's were there with bf and I for about five hours both nights. On the day she was talking about I was doing what the hospital wanted with the cervidil, being monitored and then moving around. We also all had lunch together in my room. It's not like I was ignoring hospital protocol. I napped for about 3-4 hours after they left even. Was I supposed to force myself to sleep all day?
It was an amazing experience with the AP's. I couldn't imagine a better fit. We all get along so well. They are the "grown up" version of bf and I. We can talk for hours about anything and spend so much time laughing. They are going to be amazing parents to my little guy. We're going to dinner again tonight.
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Fuck my doctor. I'm livid. She came in and basically talked down to me about this whole induction. I asked for a break and she said said that I came to be induced, not sleep. She also said it was my fault for choosing to have visitors over sleep yesterday. Plus told me my pain was nothing and refused to give me more pain meds.
That's disgusting! I'm sorry she is an asshole. Your doing amazing, every woman that goes through labor is amazing. What a douch, I'm so angry for you! You know what you and your body can handle, as long as both you and baby are healthy she can suck it. Sorry again.
Post by longlivetheevilqueen on Jan 20, 2015 17:10:18 GMT -5
*lurking*
Wow, I'm so sorry that so far your birth experience has been negative. I would diffenitly transfer to another hospital that will work with you and allow the AP's to visit.
Unless you had like 12 visitors in a tiny room and it was getting in the way of the medical staff doing what they needed to do or you were dancing in your bed and throwing off the baby monitors, I don't think that doctor should have said shit! That's absolute insanity and I'm really upset for you. I hope you have much better luck at the new hospital and that little turkey decides to finally show his handsome face.
Just reading all of this. I was checking it obsessively last night and was hoping by this time your little guy would be here. I agree with PPs, FUCK that doctor. What an asshole. I hope the new hospital goes much better.
Post by goldenbird on Jan 20, 2015 19:38:20 GMT -5
That doctor sounds like a huge bitch; I'm glad you're making a complaint against her. Rest up and I hope they take better care of you at the bigger hospital!
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What in the fresh hell is that doctors problem?!?! Good for you for advpcating for yourself and leaving to get better care elsewhere!! You and the little guy deserve the best treatment, period.
Your dr is an absolute shit. What you're doing is an incredible thing. You've shown such kindness to include them. Keep yourself healthy and safe. You'll continue to be in my thoughts.
Ugh, I just saw in the adoption thread that you're still pregnant as of an hour ago. I'm hoping that's not the case much longer and I'm sorry this has been such a roller coaster!
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