Post by lovetruly2015 on Mar 12, 2015 20:03:16 GMT -5
Hello ladies, I've finally decided I'm ready to come out of lurking take part here. My husband and I lost our son Conner very suddenly at 21 weeks and one day on January 22. It was our second pregnancy and second loss, the first loss happened very early I only knew about the pregnancy for three days. Conner was born at 10:12 pm and lived for twenty minuets and was the most beautiful baby I've ever seen. I'm currently writing a (private) blog about my experience as a way to help me cope and express what I feeling. I'm more of an introvert so the blog helps me get my feelings out when I need to even though I might not always be ready to talk about them to those around me. When I'm ready I'll unlock it and make it publicly available but for now it's just to help me work through my grief.
I hope to be able to give and receive much need support from you wonderful ladies.
I'm so so sorry you find yourself here ((hugs)). I hope that participation on this board can be a great source of comfort for you. Blogging is a wonderful idea! I started blogging last September and felt a huge weight lifted off of my shoulders. We are private for now as well (our parents are the only ones allowed), but plan to share it on FB someday.
Please be good to yourself, I hope you can find some peace and comfort here.
DS (our little Clomid miracle) born Sept. 25, 2012 Baby #2 lost at 8w3d on March 4, 2015 (EDD Oct. 11, 2015) Baby #3 lost at 5w2d on April 16, 2015 (EDD Dec. 15, 2015) Baby #4 lost at 4w1d on May 20, 2015 (EDD Jan. 25, 2016) DS2 (our little rainbow miracle) born May 25, 2016
Post by germaphobe on Mar 12, 2015 22:27:13 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your losses. We are here for you. One thing I have learned in the short time I have been active on this board is that all the feelings you are having are completely normal, as crazy as they are. I hope you find the support and peace you require. Take all the time you need.
I am so sorry you and your H didn't get more time with Conner. Of course losing a baby at ANY number of weeks is devastating, but I can not imagine a loss during the second trimester. I hope your blog helps you deal with some emotions.
I wish there was more we could do for you, but all we can offer is an ear to listen and lots of virtual hugs. Please be kind to yourself.
I'm so sorry for your loss of baby Conner, I can't even imagine losing a baby that far along and what you've been through, no one should have to go through. I agree on the blogging/writing that it's very therapeutic, and the ladies here a wonderfully supportive.
Post by followthesun on Mar 13, 2015 10:11:46 GMT -5
Big ((hugs)) to you. I am so sorry for both of your losses, and that you did not get to spend more time with Conner. I can't imagine what you must be feeling, but know that we are here to support you if you need us. Welcome to the board.
Married 01-04-2013 *AMA* 40 in June 2015 **1-19-15 Childless, not by choice" 1st EDD- 12-02-13 MC 5/1/13 @4w6d 2nd EDD 11-13-14 MC 4/15/14: discovered 1st twin @5w 2nd twin @10w 3Rd BFP- 10-10-14 EDD 6/16/15: MC 10-16-14 @5w2d
I am infertile and we have decided to go for surrogacy to Ukraine. Is the surrogacy always successful? I have read from my couples that their surrogacy went so well. There was no issue in their journey. So I am curious about is there any issue in the journey of surrogacy? What kind of problems we can face. What is the solution to avoid such problems? That is why I read many about surrogacy so we don't have to face any problem in our journey of surrogacy.
Hey, I am really sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how heartbreaking it must have been for you. It is good that you are writing. I am sure journalizing it will make you feel better. Just don't lose hope. Ask the doctors for a full report on the MC. This will help in determining the future steps. Good luck to you.
Hi, how are you?I'm very sorry to hear your story.The most important thing for parents is children.If anything happens to the baby parents are the most stressed.I am also a mother that's why i can feel your pain.I also go through this pain.All this is God's will.I have gone through this problem.I also lost my child 3 times in a row.Due to this i lost my fertility.I was very stressed.Then i shared my problems with peoples.Most of the people suggest me surrogacy.They recommended [DELETED] clinic for surrogacy in Ukraine.Me and my husband made plan to go for surrogacy.This was the best experience of my life.Now i have a baby .So always sharing your feeling with people help us get our feeling out.After sharing feeling people can feel relax.And blogging is good way to express feeling.I hope blogging helps you in this painful time.But we never lose hope.Always hope for the best.
Post by emmawilson on Nov 17, 2019 15:11:31 GMT -5
I think this is the best platform giving support to all the wonderful ladies. You are not alone in your grief. There must be many ladies who can relate with this. All you need is to stay strong. I m sure your patience will be rewarded. Moreover you should also look for some treatment. There are many of the clinics giving the best services. It is essential to find out the reason of miscarriage. This should not be frequent. you can seek help from the clinics in the Eastern Europe. I have heard good credibility about the centers there. The way you are releasing your stress is great. Blogging is a way to speak your heart out. You will not be depressed much and can motivate others with your experience. All the best to you. I wish you have a baby soon.
It must be quite a brave decision to make this post. I'm glad you found the courage to do it. Thank you for doing it! I pray that this helps lessen the troubles. I will make sure to pray for you. Hopefully, you get to conceive really soon! Baby dust and love!
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