Being on top has been so much more enjoyable since I've been working out. My favorite lately is straddling H on the sofa. Drives him crazy. I think I was just so out of shape before that I would get tired super quickly.
ETA Oh, I meant to quote whoever was talking about squats. lol.
It really makes a big difference. I can still only make it about a minute on top before my legs are screaming at me, but it makes H happy. It's not one of those things I can really ask my trainer - I'd like to work on whatever muscles will make me rock it on top.
#2 - I've never O'd from just sex. Takes a lot of work on my part and most of the time I give up.
+1
I've come so close before, but then H usually says something like "oh yeah, are you going to come for me baby" and then the moment is gone. Don't fucking talk to me when I'm in the zone!
Post by luckypanda on Mar 13, 2015 14:39:35 GMT -5
Confession #2 -- I have POAS every day since 7 or 8 DPO... I am now 12 DPO and still haven't gotten a positive... If this isn't our month I will not POAS before 15 DPO because the negatives are getting depressing.
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Same-Sex Couple TTC Baby #1
Married: 5/31/13 ❤️
Jan 2015 - Cancelled cycle due to immature follicles
Feb 2015 - IUI #1 (Letrozole) - BFN
March 2015 - Cancelled cycle due to early ovulation
April 2015 - Letrozole, Trigger Shot, IUI - BFN
GKU May Siggy Challenge: SomeECard
I've come so close before, but then H usually says something like "oh yeah, are you going to come for me baby" and then the moment is gone. Don't fucking talk to me when I'm in the zone!
Yep- or he changes the rhythm. Not his fault-- he's very conscious of the idea that I never have and every time I get close, he tends to notice and then it screws it up.
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I have no ass. I've tried squats, but all they do is bulk up my thighs- WTF- and stairs, but those go straight to my calves. I want an ass.
I do walking lunges, stairs, dead lifts and squats - if you try with a widersquat stance like Sumo squats, and make sure you're really digging in with your heels, you'll use more glutes and less thighs. For me I have to do the kitchen sink approach. Throw all of the lower body moves in there, along with cardio. My legs do bulk up some, but not too bad. I've always had a round butt, and a large curvature of my lower back, the lifting just makes it harder and more defined rather than jiggly.
I've come so close before, but then H usually says something like "oh yeah, are you going to come for me baby" and then the moment is gone. Don't fucking talk to me when I'm in the zone!
Oh lawdy. I like some talking but that just sounds like a trashy romance novel.
Being on top has been so much more enjoyable since I've been working out. My favorite lately is straddling H on the sofa. Drives him crazy. I think I was just so out of shape before that I would get tired super quickly.
ETA Oh, I meant to quote whoever was talking about squats. lol.
It really makes a big difference. I can still only make it about a minute on top before my legs are screaming at me, but it makes H happy. It's not one of those things I can really ask my trainer - I'd like to work on whatever muscles will make me rock it on top.
Doooo it! You can say it's for a friend. People always believe that.
Post by snakefisherbub on Mar 13, 2015 14:48:55 GMT -5
My husband was trying to get frisky with my at 2 am when I was trying to go to bed. I just played possum. He called me out on it but it did get him to knock it off. sleep over sex. sheesh!
I've come so close before, but then H usually says something like "oh yeah, are you going to come for me baby" and then the moment is gone. Don't fucking talk to me when I'm in the zone!
Oh lawdy. I like some talking but that just sounds like a trashy romance novel.
Oh lawdy. I like some talking but that just sounds like a trashy romance novel.
Ha! We say this type of shit all the time.
I don't like talking during sex. Dirty talk does nothing for me but make me feel awkward. I had to get used to making SOME sort of noise because I know DH likes it, but if I had my choice, I'd be silent... it just doesn't come naturally to me.
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Another confession: I honestly think I would like some of the bdsm type stuff, but I'm afraid to tell my H I want to try it. I feel like he would laugh at me, and not in a mean way at all, but just think I'm joking. We aren't very adventurous.
I suggest asking HIM if he has any fantasies that he has not told you about. Hopefully he'll tell you about one and then you can tell him about yours. Or maybe he'll tell you he is fantasizing about the same thing as you are! Wouldn't that be amazing?! Either way having him tell you first gives you the upper hand in the conversation. Good luck!
I don't like talking during sex. Dirty talk does nothing for me but make me feel awkward. I had to get used to making SOME sort of noise because I know DH likes it, but if I had my choice, I'd be silent... it just doesn't come naturally to me.
Every time I try to talk dirty, I end up bursting out laughing, because it just sounds so cheesy. I'd prefer quiet, but not absolute silence. Sometimes H gets so quiet I have to make sure he's still alive.
I don't like talking during sex. Dirty talk does nothing for me but make me feel awkward. I had to get used to making SOME sort of noise because I know DH likes it, but if I had my choice, I'd be silent... it just doesn't come naturally to me.
Every time I try to talk dirty, I end up bursting out laughing, because it just sounds so cheesy. I'd prefer quiet, but not absolute silence. Sometimes H gets so quiet I have to make sure he's still alive.
I suspect he feels the same about me-- but even when I'm REALLY enjoying myself, I'm usually very quiet. I'm not a visual person when it comes to sex at all. The only thing that honestly matters to me is the feel-- where, when, how... none of it really matters. I'm really strange though- I don't think I'm normal.
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Post by helloerrbody on Mar 13, 2015 15:16:54 GMT -5
My confession: I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years on Saturday afternoon of labor day weekend. That night, I slept with his friend. I slept with friend again the next night. I also broke my foot that night, lost my purse, and fainted in my driveway while hobbling around looking for said purse. Oh and the friend I slept with? That would be DH.
After I broke up with my ex, I had a brief fling with a friend who had just broken up with his long-time girlfriend. He was more worried about me freaking out, when all I wanted was to have fun. I had to convince him that I was okay just being casual (because there was no way I was getting back into a relationship). I went to visit him for a few days, we had a great time HIO and then I left on vacation. When I got back, I called a mutual friend who spilled that "he wasn't supposed to tell me, but my fling hooked up with another chick while I was gone." I told him "I'll call you right back." Called my fling, woke him up, and turned on the water works "I know I said it meant nothing, but I thought you knew it meant more to me than just sex." He freaked-- said this is why he didn't want me to know. He was so sorry he hurt me. I kept it up for a couple of minutes, then I cut the fake tears abruptly and said "Dude, I'm just fucking with you. I told you I didn't want anything and I meant it. Do you believe me now? Go have fun at college, I don't want to be tied down." He was so mad! We continued friends with benefits for a while, but 6 months later, we came out of denial and admited we were in a relationship. 10 years later, we've been married 3 yrs and TTC #1.
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My husband was trying to get frisky with my at 2 am when I was trying to go to bed. I just played possum. He called me out on it but it did get him to knock it off. sleep over sex. sheesh!
I used to do this to my ex-h ALL.THE.TIME. There was about 20 more reasons behind it besides just sleep but I know exactly what you mean. DH has learned that if I am asleep to not even try. Sleep is important.
Post by spaghettioh on Mar 13, 2015 15:29:05 GMT -5
Someone confessed last week that they always think of how boring certain peoples' lives must be based on their lame confessions. I am totally one of those people with super lame confessions and it's true, my life may be a little boring at times but I love it!
I don't like talking during sex. Dirty talk does nothing for me but make me feel awkward. I had to get used to making SOME sort of noise because I know DH likes it, but if I had my choice, I'd be silent... it just doesn't come naturally to me.
+1 . I am not vocal whatsoever. DH likes to talk a little bit but not too much. I am lucky to get moans out.
My husband was trying to get frisky with my at 2 am when I was trying to go to bed. I just played possum. He called me out on it but it did get him to knock it off. sleep over sex. sheesh!
Another confession: I honestly think I would like some of the bdsm type stuff, but I'm afraid to tell my H I want to try it. I feel like he would laugh at me, and not in a mean way at all, but just think I'm joking. We aren't very adventurous.
I suggest asking HIM if he has any fantasies that he has not told you about. Hopefully he'll tell you about one and then you can tell him about yours. Or maybe he'll tell you he is fantasizing about the same thing as you are! Wouldn't that be amazing?! Either way having him tell you first gives you the upper hand in the conversation. Good luck!
Thanks! I just need to get over my own awkwardness
Someone confessed last week that they always think of how boring certain peoples' lives must be based on their lame confessions. I am totally one of those people with super lame confessions and it's true, my life may be a little boring at times but I love it!
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Someone confessed last week that they always think of how boring certain peoples' lives must be based on their lame confessions. I am totally one of those people with super lame confessions and it's true, my life may be a little boring at times but I love it!
Someone confessed last week that they always think of how boring certain peoples' lives must be based on their lame confessions. I am totally one of those people with super lame confessions and it's true, my life may be a little boring at times but I love it!
A lot of people censor their shit so they don't get flamed.
My confession: I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years on Saturday afternoon of labor day weekend. That night, I slept with his friend. I slept with friend again the next night. I also broke my foot that night, lost my purse, and fainted in my driveway while hobbling around looking for said purse. Oh and the friend I slept with? That would be DH.
H was supposed to be a hook-up/FWB type situation. I'd gotten out a serious relationship (like, ended our engagement serious) only 2-3 months earlier & was just looking for fun. We'd been friends for YEARS, I never would have imagined he'd be the man I married.
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Post by fuzzylogic on Mar 13, 2015 15:47:01 GMT -5
Totally work-related and just because it just happened:
Our talent shows have great talent. But the drama class always does all this filler stuff that is either really stupid or just really time-consuming. So today, the day before spring break, the talent show ran nearly 30 minutes past end of school while they did all this filler crap. There were these fantastic little commercials they filmed, and they were hilarious. But the live action stuff was boring. No one laughed. It's like they don't understand that the show isn't about THEM, it's about the CONTESTANTS.
Another confession: I was so excited that the winners of the talent show were a sibling pair of Irish dancers. So cool that they won. And the kids were eating it up. I work at a school that has an incredibly diverse population and the kids love watching Irish dancing.
Someone confessed last week that they always think of how boring certain peoples' lives must be based on their lame confessions. I am totally one of those people with super lame confessions and it's true, my life may be a little boring at times but I love it!
A lot of people censor their shit so they don't get flamed.
It's fun when they don't though.
That's true. Maybe one day I'll have a crazy confession like cabgirl .
Totally work-related and just because it just happened:
Our talent shows have great talent. But the drama class always does all this filler stuff that is either really stupid or just really time-consuming. So today, the day before spring break, the talent show ran nearly 30 minutes past end of school while they did all this filler crap. There were these fantastic little commercials they filmed, and they were hilarious. But the live action stuff was boring. No one laughed. It's like they don't understand that the show isn't about THEM, it's about the CONTESTANTS.
Another confession: I was so excited that the winners of the talent show were a sibling pair of Irish dancers. So cool that they won. And the kids were eating it up. I work at a school that has an incredibly diverse population and the kids love watching Irish dancing.
So random and not at ll to do with your confession, sorry. I just wanted to say I love your pick for spirit animal. I love PMT!
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